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Title: HI ALL
Post by: Smashley on August 27, 2009, 06:42:31 PM
Post by: Smashley on August 27, 2009, 06:42:31 PM
Hey all my name is Smashley. I'm 25 years old. I have recently came out to myself and a few others as GQ. There have been times in my life where people have used gender-specific pronouns with me and I just didn't like and I just shrugged it off and what not. I figured that I was born in a girls body I am female so that's how I should identify, and that's how I lived my life. I figured that in society's eyes girls are supposed to do certain things and act certain ways, although, I wasn't really "girly" i just figured I should do things that girls are supposed to do. then one day it just hit me and I did some research on it and I'm like now I know why I never liked being labeled as a guy or a girl, although, I tend to lean more towards the male end of the spectrum and That was when I realized that i'm GQ. It was a like a huge weight lifted off my shoulders. Also, my partner has recently come out as FTM and he has been such a huge support for me. I dunno what I'd do without him. I look forward to getting to know you all in the future. Take care and have a good evening.
Title: Re: HI ALL
Post by: Nicky on August 27, 2009, 06:50:38 PM
Post by: Nicky on August 27, 2009, 06:50:38 PM
Hey Smashley,
Nice to meet you.
I decided to transfer this to the introductions section.
Nicki
Nice to meet you.
I decided to transfer this to the introductions section.
Nicki
Title: Re: HI ALL
Post by: GamerJames on August 27, 2009, 09:04:33 PM
Post by: GamerJames on August 27, 2009, 09:04:33 PM
Quote from: Smashley on August 27, 2009, 06:42:31 PM
Hey all my name is Smashley.
Hi hun, welcome to Susan's! I'm glad you've come to join me in the fun. :D
:icon_bunch:
... Smashley's my IRL sweetheart <3
Title: Re: HI ALL
Post by: LordKAT on August 27, 2009, 09:42:47 PM
Post by: LordKAT on August 27, 2009, 09:42:47 PM
Greetings Smashley, Welcome to Susan's and all the goings on here.
Title: Re: HI ALL
Post by: Janet_Girl on August 27, 2009, 10:20:34 PM
Post by: Janet_Girl on August 27, 2009, 10:20:34 PM
Hi Smashley, :icon_wave:
Welcome to our little family. Over 3100 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another brother. :icon_hug:
And be sure to check out
Blessed Be.
Janet
Welcome to our little family. Over 3100 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another brother. :icon_hug:
And be sure to check out
- Site Terms of Service and rules to live by (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html)
- Standard Terms and Definitions (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,54369.0.html)
- Post Ranks (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,114.0.html.)
Blessed Be.
Janet
Title: Re: HI ALL
Post by: Smashley on August 28, 2009, 09:23:44 AM
Post by: Smashley on August 28, 2009, 09:23:44 AM
I am really glad that I have found this site, well actually my partner found it and suggested it to me and I am really glad to have taken his advise. I am looking forward to giving/taking advise from peeps on this site and just getting to know you all. have a great day everyone
Title: Re: HI ALL
Post by: DonnaC on August 28, 2009, 10:43:32 AM
Post by: DonnaC on August 28, 2009, 10:43:32 AM
Hi Smashley,
Welcome to Susan's. I new here myself. Best of luck with your transition and you're so fortunate to have such a supportive partner.
Donna
Welcome to Susan's. I new here myself. Best of luck with your transition and you're so fortunate to have such a supportive partner.
Donna
Title: Re: HI ALL
Post by: K8 on August 30, 2009, 07:26:21 PM
Post by: K8 on August 30, 2009, 07:26:21 PM
Welcome to Susan's, Smashley.
GQ is getting to be more accepted. Mostly people see gender as a binary - either/or - but it is becoming obvious to many of us that not all of us are wired that way.
Good luck on your journey to the real Smashley. ;)
- Kate
GQ is getting to be more accepted. Mostly people see gender as a binary - either/or - but it is becoming obvious to many of us that not all of us are wired that way.
Good luck on your journey to the real Smashley. ;)
- Kate
Title: Re: HI ALL
Post by: Smashley on August 30, 2009, 10:15:36 PM
Post by: Smashley on August 30, 2009, 10:15:36 PM
Thanx K8 for the welcome and I look forward to getting to know u as well.
Post Merge: August 30, 2009, 10:18:13 PM
Good luck to you and your journey as well
Post Merge: August 30, 2009, 10:18:13 PM
Good luck to you and your journey as well
Title: Re: HI ALL
Post by: bernii on August 30, 2009, 10:26:09 PM
Post by: bernii on August 30, 2009, 10:26:09 PM
Hey Smashley!!!
It is so good of you to join Susan's!! Welcome Welcome Welcome hon. Hey I just got some fresh baked cookies from the oven. Here, have some!! You are now safe sweetheart!!! So please do come in and be comfortable!! Post to the forums hon and get to know us!!!!
Your SO should join too!!
Love and hugs
Brenda
It is so good of you to join Susan's!! Welcome Welcome Welcome hon. Hey I just got some fresh baked cookies from the oven. Here, have some!! You are now safe sweetheart!!! So please do come in and be comfortable!! Post to the forums hon and get to know us!!!!
Your SO should join too!!
Love and hugs
Brenda
Title: Re: HI ALL
Post by: Smashley on August 30, 2009, 10:43:39 PM
Post by: Smashley on August 30, 2009, 10:43:39 PM
Hey bernii! Thanx for the welcome and my SO is already on here. Nes_junkie_James is name on here.
So what kind of cookies are you baking?
Have a wonderful night and I look forward to meeting you as well :)
Post Merge: August 30, 2009, 10:44:33 PM
Or sorry getting to know you 8)
So what kind of cookies are you baking?
Have a wonderful night and I look forward to meeting you as well :)
Post Merge: August 30, 2009, 10:44:33 PM
Or sorry getting to know you 8)
Title: Re: HI ALL
Post by: Inphyy on August 31, 2009, 12:24:54 AM
Post by: Inphyy on August 31, 2009, 12:24:54 AM
Aloha! I love your story...I really don't have any experiences with knowing FtMs beside my close sister; So it's great getting to know a new cup of tea! :]
Also I would like to say, I love your style! Your bandana is sooo cool! :)
Have fun and it's nice getting to know you.
Also I would like to say, I love your style! Your bandana is sooo cool! :)
Have fun and it's nice getting to know you.
Title: Re: HI ALL
Post by: Smashley on August 31, 2009, 09:52:04 AM
Post by: Smashley on August 31, 2009, 09:52:04 AM
Thanx for the welcome Sheva. Yeah I do love my bandanas I have a whole bunch of em.
Oh and I'd just like to say that I'm not gym actually ftm but more GQ.
I also think it'll be nice to get to know u as well :)
Oh and I'd just like to say that I'm not gym actually ftm but more GQ.
I also think it'll be nice to get to know u as well :)