Susan's Place Transgender Resources

http://www.asylum.co.uk/gallery/how-to-spot-a-transvestite/813705/ (http://www.asylum.co.uk/gallery/how-to-spot-a-transvestite/813705/)

It's kind of honest...And some-what true but it's also mean---The way it is worded out, Is almost like they want to point out people's flaws---But honest and true at the same time!

the girl in the first picture is not a transvestite but a girl that fully transitioned. Her name is Nong Toom a thai that used to be a thai boxing champion.  A movie named beautiful boxer was made about her life.

They ought to have an article about how to spot an ->-bleeped-<-!

-Sandy
^{cnat spel}

I didn't really care for it either. We are people, human beings with feelings and everything, and that read like a hunting guide. You could easily rename it how to spot <insertanythinghere> then fill the examples with stereotypes from that group. Poor taste.

Quote from: Sandy on August 29, 2009, 06:01:14 AM
They out to have an article about how to spot an ->-bleeped-<-!

-Sandy

Spot on! :]

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Quote from: Becca on August 29, 2009, 06:08:36 AM
I didn't really care for it either. We are people, human beings with feelings and everything, and that read like a hunting guide. You could easily rename it how to spot <insertanythinghere> then fill the examples with stereotypes from that group. Poor taste.

That's the same feeling I had when reading the article! V_V

What a dick... and whoever wrote this shouldn't sound worried about transvestites going after their balls, because with an attitude like that I doubt anybody would want them.
This sounds all a bit homophobic to me.

Quote from: Kamren on August 29, 2009, 06:27:19 AM
What a dick... and whoever wrote this shouldn't sound worried about transvestites going after their balls, because with an attitude like that I doubt anybody would want them.
This sounds all a bit homophobic to me.

At first I thought they were being sarcastic a little bit because some of that stuff is stereotypes and garbage...But I was like hey! The way they are coming off almost sounds homophobic! :\

I didn't care for the article because each and every one of those points can be disproven with an example GG out there. There are GGs with long arms, Adam's Apples, long torsos, etc. I've even met GGs with voices so low that Barry White would go DAMN!!! The one who wrote the article is just a Nazi out to get a couple of quick laughs at the expense of tgirls. I wonder what kind of animal he must be married to.

Since when is it so horrible that someone might not want to flirt with/date/screw a transperson? 

Quote from: Mister on August 29, 2009, 01:20:07 PM
Since when is it so horrible that someone might not want to flirt with/date/screw a transperson? 

Its not that they don't want to have sex with a trans person. That is fine, and a personal choice everyone is entitled to. It is that they were being unreasonably degrading.
It started off not bad, then got nasty with all the quips.
Not cool.

Quote from: Kamren on August 29, 2009, 02:01:53 PM
Its not that they don't want to have sex with a trans person. That is fine, and a personal choice everyone is entitled to. It is that they were being unreasonably degrading.
It started off not bad, then got nasty with all the quips.
Not cool.

I agree.  If it's not your thing, fine by me, but there's no reason to be disrespectful about it.  (A lot of what they said can be true, however.)  If there are straight men who study how to spot a transperson and avoid them like the plague, at least I won't have to go through the song and dance with a douchebag. :)

Quote from: Mister on August 29, 2009, 01:20:07 PM
Since when is it so horrible that someone might not want to flirt with/date/screw a transperson?

It's not my thing to want to date ->-bleeped-<-s either, but I don't make a website about it.

-Sandy

All women are different in shape arm/leg/torso length, just as guys are. Some are more lanky than others.


However, their #4 about leg length is actually wrong.
Inseam is longer on men percentage-wise, but it is a very small difference. People THINK women have longer legs because of the hips. Hips make women's legs look longer than they are, shoes also contribute to this.


At least they got #1 right, last hope is voice, but sometimes even that isn't enough.
Not that it matters, they can't even discern between transsexuals, transvestites and cross dressers.

Quote from: Leslie Ann on August 29, 2009, 11:39:56 PM
All women are different in shape arm/leg/torso length, just as guys are. Some are more lanky than others.


However, their #4 about leg length is actually wrong.
Inseam is longer on men percentage-wise, but it is a very small difference. People THINK women have longer legs because of the hips. Hips make women's legs look longer than they are, shoes also contribute to this.


At least they got #1 right, last hope is voice, but sometimes even that isn't enough.
Not that it matters, they can't even discern between transsexuals, transvestites and cross dressers.

That's what I said...I was like there is a difference between them! Transvestites and Transgendered/Sexual people are different.

Quote from: Sandy on August 29, 2009, 06:01:14 AM
They ought to have an article about how to spot an ->-bleeped-<-!

-Sandy
^{cnat spel}

The same thought came to my mind  :laugh: >:-) :laugh: You and I should write one about that  :laugh:

I fail to see the humor

"How to spot a transvestite -- Funny but also mean! :("

Theres plenty of albums in the gallery here where you can not spot the "transvestite".
More like-Ignorant but also mean.

This thread keeps getting more and more annoying for some reason. I want to meet the guy who wrote that and bite him.

Quote from: Audrey on August 30, 2009, 03:46:21 AM
I fail to see the humor

"How to spot a transvestite -- Funny but also mean! :("

It's funny not in the fact that the article is funny but the simple fact that half of that stuff is bull! :]

Quote from: heatherrose on August 30, 2009, 04:41:08 AM

I found it difficult to find the "Funny". Luckily, it is a posting from someone
who probably passes gas because they think its funny to cause someone else
discomfort. Unlike a website I read about a short time ago, where I imagine these
pointers would be posted, if the site hadn't been taken down. It was a site that
advocated people posting the picture and any other information, location and
such, of "->-bleeped-<-s" they may have encountered. There was nothing
funny about this site and the intent was quite malicious.

Read my recent post on page 1!

Quote from: Virginia Marie on August 30, 2009, 01:44:16 AM
The same thought came to my mind  :laugh: >:-) :laugh: You and I should write one about that  :laugh:

The thing is that we would have so many examples to choose from!  Where to begin, where to begin...

-Sandy

Quote from: heatherrose on August 30, 2009, 05:22:31 AM

You posted while I was writing my last reply.


Which half did you think was bull?

Like the index finger is shorten then the ring finger...But like I said it's bull. Cause I have female hands. But overall it's true. But most of it is bull.

Quote from: Sandy on August 29, 2009, 06:01:14 AM
They ought to have an article about how to spot an ->-bleeped-<-!

-Sandy
^{cnat spel}

Best response IMHO :)

Quote from: heatherrose on August 30, 2009, 04:30:33 PM

Of course you do, you are female right?
If you are female, it stands to reason you have
female hands and female feet and female legs and....

Well not biologically but yes...But for some reason even as a "biological male", I naturally have feminine hands and feet. My shoe size in girls is 7-8 and I can wear small gloves! =]

But for the not so lucky, the "biologically males" who are transgendered end up with manly hands and feet and it gives them away! =[

That's why I said it was funny...Because some of it is bull but it's also true because there is people who are not so lucky!

I didn't think it was all that funny... I hate the idea of being "marked" and then having everyone run away from me.

Quote from: Sheva on August 30, 2009, 07:43:46 PM
for some reason even as a "biological male", I naturally have feminine hands and feet. My shoe size in girls is 7-8 and I can wear small gloves! =]

As I reacall your'e on the young side and pre hrt? You'd better quit horsing around and at least round up some testosterone blockers or your pretty little frame is most likely gonna get it's ass kicked into manhood in short order.

Quote from: Becca on August 30, 2009, 08:01:36 PM
As I reacall your'e on the young side and pre hrt? You'd better quit horsing around and at least round up some testosterone blockers or your pretty little frame is most likely gonna get it's ass kicked into manhood in short order.

puberty already ended when I was like 14. Just puberty didn't hit me hard! I don't eat meat which has male hormones and I eat a lot of foods like fruit and veggies and water. So naturally with the foods and the way I took care of myself, puberty didn't go crazy on me! I guess i've had a good case with puberty! Though I am really tall---But my mom and my grandma were also, so that's genetic...



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Quote from: heatherrose on August 30, 2009, 08:34:52 PM

What I found the "bull" to be, was though disguised as comedy,
the individual who posted the "tips" felt he was performing a public
service. In stead of "judging someone by the content of their character"
which is the least we should be able to expect from our fellow citizen,
these "tips" are the basis of harassment and discrimination.
It's not the running from me part that's troubling.

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Not a bit frightened to point out the efelant in the livingroom, are we Sweety?

I must agree, unless you are the wonderchild that we have been waiting for,
don't kid yourself, sweety. Your body has only just begun to develop as an
adult. Your body will go through changes throughout your entire life. Unless
you are intersexual or have some other hormonal abnormality,
testosterone will have it's way with you.

:) :) :)

I find it so sad that this guy has to so pick apart the transgendered population.  It stinks of transphobia.  Who would go through such an effort to write something like this?

Funny?  The only thing I can think of that would be funny would be to stand next to him and breathe and watch him shake in fear that he will catch the T-virus. 

Kristi

Quote from: Sheva on August 30, 2009, 08:05:17 PM
puberty already ended when I was like 14. Just puberty didn't hit me hard! I don't eat meat which has male hormones and I eat a lot of foods like fruit and veggies and water. So naturally with the foods and the way I took care of myself, puberty didn't go crazy on me! I guess i've had a good case with puberty! Though I am really tall---But my mom and my grandma were also, so that's genetic...

Sometimes the "manly" body comes a lot later than puberty. When I was 20 I weighed about 140 lbs, had a slender build (I wore size 27 jeans in the waist), and would have made an excellent candidate for HRT.

By the time I had reached 28 my body had filled out a lot. I had put on another 40-50 lbs (no, I was not fat) and wore size 33 jeans in the waist. That is the same size I am today.

My mom said that my dad had the same growth spurt thing happen to him around 28 also.


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Not a bit frightened to point out the efelant in the livingroom, are we Sweety?

I didn't mean to be as hurtful as it came out sounding, this entire thread just has my panties in a knot. I'm sorry.

According to this article women are more flexible than men, therefore being flexible must also be "girlie."

I'd love/pay to be the fly on the wall while the author explains his "flexibility=gayness theory" to the annual meeting of NHL goalies. >:-)

Quote from: heatherrose on August 30, 2009, 04:41:08 AM

I found it difficult to find the "Funny". Luckily, it is a posting from someone
who probably passes gas because they think its funny to cause someone else
discomfort. Unlike a website I read about a short time ago, where I imagine these
pointers would be posted, if the site hadn't been taken down. It was a site that
advocated people posting the picture and any other information, location and
such, of "->-bleeped-<-s" they may have encountered. There was nothing
funny about this site and the intent was quite malicious.

And people have wondered why I didn't appreciate them (in real life) talking about me with complete strangers. Or why I don't use a real photograph as avatar here.

Quote from: Sheva on August 30, 2009, 04:10:56 PM
Like the index finger is shorten then the ring finger...But like I said it's bull. Cause I have female hands. But overall it's true. But most of it is bull.

Actually that's an interesting one, there's some evidence that in general transwomen have finger lengths resembling biowomen rather thanbiomen, i think the most recent study was by K Zucker if anyone wats to pubmed it... don't know which way the result went on it though. So maybe that tip will only pick out the drag queens?

the fingers either side of my index finger are identicle... maybe i'm a hermaphrodite...

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i'm with whoever said at least it will keep away the guys you don't want to associate with... think of the up side

now someone make a sight telling them how to spot chicks with no arse-hole-guy tollerance...

Quote from: metal angel on August 31, 2009, 05:09:04 AM
now someone make a sight telling them how to spot chicks with no arse-hole-guy tollerance...

You can use my face as the first one on there!

-Sandy

I guess the butt-hole who wrote this didn't bother to study the differences between drag-queens, transvestites, transsexuals, genetic women and genetic males beyond just bold faced generalizations. Utter BS.

But then, it is fitting for that whole f*&^kin site. How many actually took the time to look at the content? The whole site is devoted to the sexist, immature, insecure male trash. Most of the site is dedicated to degrading women, gays, metro-sexuals, educated and sophisticated men and seemingly anyone else who actually grew up and learned a thing or two about the world that we live in. (I will say that I was surprised I didn't see anything in the first few pages that was blatantly racist).  >:(

Deanna

Quote from: metal angel on August 31, 2009, 05:09:04 AM
Actually that's an interesting one, there's some evidence that in general transwomen have finger lengths resembling biowomen rather thanbiomen, i think the most recent study was by K Zucker if anyone wats to pubmed it... don't know which way the result went on it though. So maybe that tip will only pick out the drag queens?

Finger length has been reported to tell a few things about people and is usually related to hormones in the womb. Some researches have claimed it determines sexuality, some say it determines how you think, and some say it means nothing.

The sexuality part says if you have male lengths you are attracted to women, if you have female lengths you are attracted to men. This is regardless as to what sex you were born.

I think it's way more complicated than that.

I couldn't bring myself to examine the rest of the content. I could barely stand to read the tips.

Funny? Not even close. Mean? That comes close, but doesn't capture the depth of hate in there.

Quote from: Leslie Ann on August 31, 2009, 02:42:07 PM
Finger length has been reported to tell a few things about people and is usually related to hormones in the womb. Some researches have claimed it determines sexuality, some say it determines how you think, and some say it means nothing.

The sexuality part says if you have male lengths you are attracted to women, if you have female lengths you are attracted to men. This is regardless as to what sex you were born.

I think it's way more complicated than that.

well mine are identical and i'm bi, so maybe that holds... but yeah likely more complicated by a long shot...

Well, I have to thank mom for  afairly powerfull X chromisome :)
my index fingers are almost as long as my middle fingers, and I have a "short" upper lip
happyness making

Having viewed this articale, I think its a guide and encourger for hate crime. It comes across as " a bit of handy advice for guys to avoid an embarassing mistake" but I think this is actually a thinly veiled arcticle aimed at bringing TV/D/TG into the consioucness of individuals whos value systems are already corrupt. There are men out there (in large numbers) whos sexuality osselates from the pole of ultra alpha maledome, all the way to the opposite end into Bicurious over indulger in severe denial whos standpoint changes quicker and more often than the FT index. Its articles like this in Asylum (a lad mag in cycber form) that feed off and cultivate the churning mess that is the male psyche.

Pretty :icon_censored: up.