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Title: I'm legal!
Post by: Dawn D. on September 14, 2009, 12:10:13 PM
It has finally happened. Last Thursday, Dawn Jerri became my official and legal first and middle name! It's interesting to note how anti-climactic the actual court experience was. It took a whole 15 seconds. That's it, beginning to end of my presence in front of the judge. No drama, no questions, no objections, nothing! I'll now pick up my decree from the clerks office on Wednesday and begin to notify that very long list that I've created.

It does feel great though to now say that I am really Dawn! Just another step on the path!


Dawn
Title: Re: I'm legal!
Post by: Julie Marie on September 14, 2009, 12:24:56 PM
Congrats Dawn!  Yeah, it is a bit anti-climatic but it has a lasting effect that brings about a lot of inner peace.

Julie
Title: Re: I'm legal!
Post by: Steffi on September 14, 2009, 05:51:43 PM
If your experience is the same as mine then for the next few months you can look forward to a wonderful inner glow every time you pick up your mail and see it addressed to YOU :)
Title: Re: I'm legal!
Post by: Ellieka on September 14, 2009, 05:53:32 PM
I love post like this! Congrats hun!
Title: Re: I'm legal!
Post by: K8 on September 14, 2009, 06:19:38 PM
Congratulations, Dawn.  It seems like they should make a bigger deal of something so momentous, huh? ;)

Now you get to change all your ID and your name on the records of everyone you do business with.  For me it was a whirlwind.  But the biggest thing to me was that the state, in its infinite wisdom, says I am Katherine at last.  Wow. :D

One more step to the real you.  Hooray! :eusa_dance:

- Kate
Title: Re: I'm legal!
Post by: sneakersjay on September 14, 2009, 06:21:56 PM
Congrats!


Jay
Title: Re: I'm legal!
Post by: Miniar on September 14, 2009, 07:12:32 PM
Congratulations!
Title: Re: I'm legal!
Post by: Steph2003 on September 14, 2009, 08:30:40 PM
Congratulations, Dawn!

It's great to hear about your "steps!"

Keep us posted! :)
Title: Re: I'm legal!
Post by: Nero on September 14, 2009, 09:23:46 PM
congrats! I get mine done in a few weeks and I'm so nervous. I'm afraid the judge will object or something.
Title: Re: I'm legal!
Post by: Hannah on September 14, 2009, 11:02:28 PM
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I'm so happy for you, good job!
Title: Re: I'm legal!
Post by: Tank Grrl on September 15, 2009, 01:07:04 AM
Hellz yeah!
Title: Re: I'm legal!
Post by: Janet_Girl on September 15, 2009, 03:21:06 AM
Congratulation, Dawn.  and I agree with the whole anti-climatic court appearance deal.  Mine was the same way.


Janet
Title: Re: I'm legal!
Post by: Dawn D. on September 15, 2009, 02:05:50 PM
Thank you all for your sweet replies! They really mean a lot to me.


Dawn
Title: Re: I'm legal!
Post by: s1ncere on November 08, 2009, 12:15:01 PM
Congrats!
I can't wait till mines is changed.
Title: Re: I\'m legal!
Post by: Red on November 08, 2009, 12:22:20 PM
Quote from: Dawn D. on September 14, 2009, 12:10:13 PM
It has finally happened. Last Thursday, Dawn Jerri became my official and legal first and middle name! It's interesting to note how anti-climactic the actual court experience was. It took a whole 15 seconds. That's it, beginning to end of my presence in front of the judge. No drama, no questions, no objections, nothing! I'll now pick up my decree from the clerks office on Wednesday and begin to notify that very long list that I've created.

It does feel great though to now say that I am really Dawn! Just another step on the path!


Dawn

YAY FOR YOU!!  Don't it feel like a burden has been lifted?  I got my name changed at age 18 because my parent's wouldn't sign for me.  But I don't regret changing my name at all.  My middle name was just missing one letter, so that was easy to change (from "Jo" to "Joe").

I kept my first name's inital because my nephew was so little back then and he was used to calling me a certain name (initals).

But wow, I am so happy for you!!   :)

Post Merge: November 08, 2009, 12:27:07 PM

Quote from: Nero on September 14, 2009, 09:23:46 PM
congrats! I get mine done in a few weeks and I'm so nervous. I'm afraid the judge will object or something.

Will you have to go before a Judge to get yours changed?  I just went to the circut court clerk's office and had it changed in no time.  I didn't have to see a judge.  Nero, where are you from?  I'm just curious because I know that every state in the US is different and other countries are different too when it comes to name changing.
Anyway, good luck to you!   :)
Title: Re: I'm legal!
Post by: randi1214 on November 21, 2009, 04:52:05 PM
Congratulations.  It's a great name.  My first kiddie crush was with a girl named Dawn in kindergarden.  Wear it well.  I wanted to be her. LOL