Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Bellaon7 on September 18, 2009, 11:41:36 PM Return to Full Version

Title: as bad as the war within
Post by: Bellaon7 on September 18, 2009, 11:41:36 PM
the war that follows after accepting ourselves, is a war of logistics, both personal in regards to s/o's, family, & friends(fortunately this part was not as big a deal for me as many others), & professonaly. i have reached the point were i cannot live as a female & work as a male as many others have been i've tried & dealing w/that approach has proved to be more than i can handle w/sanity intact. i know that i cannot complain my way out of my current situation. i salute those that have & continue paving the way, but thoses of us left behind r many, how do we proceed though this war of logistics is where i find myself. i would like to hear from any of those who have made or r making their way through this w/some degree of succes, ty! Isabella
Title: Re: as bad as the war within
Post by: Hannah on September 18, 2009, 11:49:38 PM
War of logistics, that's a novel way of putting it.
Title: Re: as bad as the war within
Post by: Buffy on September 18, 2009, 11:56:38 PM
Quote from: Bellaon7 on September 18, 2009, 11:41:36 PM
how do we proceed?

Dont be afraid, face your fears.

Buffy
Title: Re: as bad as the war within
Post by: Bellaon7 on September 19, 2009, 10:05:50 AM
Quote from: Buffy on September 18, 2009, 11:56:38 PM
Dont be afraid, face your fears.

Buffy
i wish it were that simple! but i've already spent a lifetime & have gotten past my fears.now it's the hard part, how to proceed from the bottom of the point of no return alive.
Title: Re: as bad as the war within
Post by: Robyn on September 19, 2009, 11:48:34 AM
For anyone in transition or thinking of transition or wondering about transition, Step One is finding a Gender Counselor. 

https://www.susans.org/Health/Therapists_and_Counselors/ (https://www.susans.org/Health/Therapists_and_Counselors/)

I wish you good luck and courage for your journey.  There will likely be more gains than losses.

Been there, done that, have the T-shirt
You can, too.

Robyn