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Title: Do u girls feel the the need to marturbate still?
Post by: Teena89 on September 21, 2009, 01:31:03 AM
Post by: Teena89 on September 21, 2009, 01:31:03 AM
Hey its ur girl Teena- M2F pre-op 19 from brisbane Australia
i just wanted to knw if u girls still u knw.... i do feel weird talkin bout it but do u feelin manly?...... i do i feel like im betraying myself like its no a girly thing 2 do! u knw what i mean but i guess im still a teenager yea
i just wanted to knw if u girls still u knw.... i do feel weird talkin bout it but do u feelin manly?...... i do i feel like im betraying myself like its no a girly thing 2 do! u knw what i mean but i guess im still a teenager yea
Title: Re: Do u girls feel the the need to marturbate still?
Post by: Ellieka on September 21, 2009, 01:35:03 AM
Post by: Ellieka on September 21, 2009, 01:35:03 AM
A strong sex drive at your age is perfectly normal. How ever after starting HRT your sex drive will diminish and may stop completely.
Prior to HRT the urge to achieve sexual release was very high for me but doing anything about it was difficult due to my acute disphoria.
Prior to HRT the urge to achieve sexual release was very high for me but doing anything about it was difficult due to my acute disphoria.
Title: Re: Do u girls feel the the need to marturbate still?
Post by: Deanna_Renee on September 21, 2009, 08:13:33 AM
Post by: Deanna_Renee on September 21, 2009, 08:13:33 AM
I may be a little off base here (still pre-HRT and all), but GGs masterbate, right? Just different tools. It seems natural to need to release the sexual urge/need/tension. I'm (very close) 48 and I still 'need' to have that release. I do kind of feel its a betrayal of sorts, but for me I have always perceived the act from a female perspective - like the penis wasn't mine but trying to envision as I'm a girl masterbating or being penetrated. It has never made me feel like a man - nothing ever has. The drive is there in both men and women (generally, I think).
I don't intend to offend anyone who disagrees, I'm only speaking from my own limited perspective.
Deanna
I don't intend to offend anyone who disagrees, I'm only speaking from my own limited perspective.
Deanna
Title: Re: Do u girls feel the the need to marturbate still?
Post by: Janet_Girl on September 21, 2009, 09:48:50 AM
Post by: Janet_Girl on September 21, 2009, 09:48:50 AM
Because of a life long battle with GID, this something that does not interest me in the least. I have not had any kind of sexual release for years. And that is perfectly fine with me.
Maybe after SRS, which is way in the future at this time, it may become something that I would become interested in again.
Janet
Maybe after SRS, which is way in the future at this time, it may become something that I would become interested in again.
Janet
Title: Re: Do u girls feel the the need to marturbate still?
Post by: Dana Lane on September 21, 2009, 09:58:28 AM
Post by: Dana Lane on September 21, 2009, 09:58:28 AM
After I started lowering my testosterone I found no desire for sex in any way shape or form. So it has been about 3 months for me and I am totally okay with it. No sexual frustration at all.
Title: Re: Do u girls feel the the need to marturbate still?
Post by: Kaitlyn on September 21, 2009, 12:29:32 PM
Post by: Kaitlyn on September 21, 2009, 12:29:32 PM
Some days my sex drive sleeps like a log, other times it's all I can do to make it though the day without... frictional injury. It's really annoying, and I'm upset that it didn't go away with blockers.
Title: Re: Do u girls feel the the need to marturbate still?
Post by: Bellaon7 on September 21, 2009, 05:07:43 PM
Post by: Bellaon7 on September 21, 2009, 05:07:43 PM
i found the right combo of meds to finally keep it at bay. i'm just not interested pre srs. i do like to fantasize & it feels like butterflies & feels like a rush of blood in my whole upper body. never felt like that pre hrt, & it's pretty intense!!!
Title: Re: Do u girls feel the the need to marturbate still?
Post by: Calistine on September 21, 2009, 05:26:41 PM
Post by: Calistine on September 21, 2009, 05:26:41 PM
I am an ftm so I dont masturbate like a girl does but I have the same genetalia as my girl friends so they trust me with the masturbating stories because I dont judge. So yes gg girls do masturbate.
Its not "manly". There may be manly ways to do it but sexual desire is a need for almost everyone.
Its not "manly". There may be manly ways to do it but sexual desire is a need for almost everyone.
Title: Re: Do u girls feel the the need to marturbate still?
Post by: GinaDouglas on September 21, 2009, 06:28:41 PM
Post by: GinaDouglas on September 21, 2009, 06:28:41 PM
I have always fantasized that I was female when I was masturbating, and never looked at what I was doing. Since HRT I don't feel driven to do it, but I cans still enjoy it. I'm not driven to enjoy a cup of tea either, but I can still enjoy one.
Masturbating still helps me get to sleep sometimes, evidentally that element of male brain chemistry remains. And the orgasms are way better now. A whole-body experience, not just a release.
Masturbating still helps me get to sleep sometimes, evidentally that element of male brain chemistry remains. And the orgasms are way better now. A whole-body experience, not just a release.
Title: Re: Do u girls feel the the need to marturbate still?
Post by: Hannah on September 21, 2009, 07:06:12 PM
Post by: Hannah on September 21, 2009, 07:06:12 PM
this is a popular topic recently, must be the new moon :P
In short, no. It's still kinda fun though, but not any more fun than a trip to the store or a bowl of ice cream...maybe less than the ice cream ;D
In short, no. It's still kinda fun though, but not any more fun than a trip to the store or a bowl of ice cream...maybe less than the ice cream ;D
Title: Re: Do u girls feel the the need to marturbate still?
Post by: placeholdername on September 21, 2009, 07:24:04 PM
Post by: placeholdername on September 21, 2009, 07:24:04 PM
Pre-HRT and I still do... but I'll just say that it's not always in a 'manly' way and leave that at that. I have the fortunate or unfortunate situation where if I don't get some kind of 'release' at least a few times a week, then it 'happens anyway' so to speak, and I figure I might as well be conscious for it :P. I'm kind of skeptical as to how much HRT will hit me in that respect...
Title: Re: Do u girls feel the the need to marturbate still?
Post by: FallenLeaves on September 21, 2009, 07:26:04 PM
Post by: FallenLeaves on September 21, 2009, 07:26:04 PM
Let me first start by saying my girlfriend and I are most likely sex addicts and we accept that. We both are very comfortable with each other and masturbate in front of each other regularly. When we started dating around 2 years ago we would have sex roughly 3-5 times a day (this was pre HRT). I definitely could not go a day without cumming and neither could she. I started HRT about 6 months after starting dating and now we have sex about 1-3 times a day and we both masturbate usually 0-3 times a day (we live together and have for over a year). My girlfriend is a GG and she definitely masturbates more than I do. I've seen her pull out the vibrator three different times within an hour before. HRT has made me a lot less "horny" but for me the sex drive is still very much so there, just in a kind of different way. I just like ->-bleeped-<-ing way too much to stop now, especially since I have a girlfriend that really makes me feel like a girl. Let me tell you, when I was banking sperm, that 2-5 day wait period was a bitch =)
Title: Re: Do u girls feel the the need to marturbate still?
Post by: Deanna_Renee on September 21, 2009, 07:54:23 PM
Post by: Deanna_Renee on September 21, 2009, 07:54:23 PM
Quote from: Becca on September 21, 2009, 07:06:12 PM
or a bowl of ice cream...maybe less than the ice cream ;D
I like this thought better than the thread topic.
Deanna
Title: Re: Do u girls feel the the need to marturbate still?
Post by: Bellaon7 on September 21, 2009, 08:21:47 PM
Post by: Bellaon7 on September 21, 2009, 08:21:47 PM
Quote from: GinaDouglas on September 21, 2009, 06:28:41 PM
"And the orgasms are way better now. A whole-body exp" This is so true! it's like warm waves are washing through u & in stead of slowing way down & holding ur breath, u keep breathing(if not screaming) & kinda keep up the pace. i know it's way tmi, but to me it was comforting that i could actually have/experience sex as gg after successful srs.
Post Merge: September 21, 2009, 10:22:22 PMQuote from: GinaDouglas on September 21, 2009, 06:28:41 PM
I have always fantasized that I was female when I was masturbating, and never looked at what I was doing. Since HRT I don't feel driven to do it, but I cans still enjoy it. I'm not driven to enjoy a cup of tea either, but I can still enjoy one.
Masturbating still helps me get to sleep sometimes, evidentally that element of male brain chemistry remains. And the orgasms are way better now. A whole-body experience, not just a release.
Post Merge: September 21, 2009, 08:22:38 PMQuote from: GinaDouglas on September 21, 2009, 06:28:41 PM
I have always fantasized that I was female when I was masturbating, and never looked at what I was doing. Since HRT I don't feel driven to do it, but I cans still enjoy it. I'm not driven to enjoy a cup of tea either, but I can still enjoy one.
Masturbating still helps me get to sleep sometimes, evidentally that element of male brain chemistry remains. And the orgasms are way better now. A whole-body experience, not just a release.
Title: Re: Do u girls feel the the need to marturbate still?
Post by: Suzy on September 21, 2009, 09:00:52 PM
Post by: Suzy on September 21, 2009, 09:00:52 PM
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Title: Re: Do u girls feel the the need to marturbate still?
Post by: Steffi on September 22, 2009, 06:11:15 PM
Post by: Steffi on September 22, 2009, 06:11:15 PM
QuoteI have always fantasized that I was female when I was masturbating, and never looked at what I was doing. Since HRT I don't feel driven to do it, but I cans still enjoy it. I'm not driven to enjoy a cup of tea either, but I can still enjoy one.Yes, that's about it for me.
Masturbating still helps me get to sleep sometimes, evidentally that element of male brain chemistry remains. ..........
QuoteAnd the orgasms are way better now. A whole-body experience, not just a release.That bit doesn't apply to me - I had some pretty stunning male orgasms in the past :P Now they're different and definitely not as strong :'(
.....I CAN still do it though after a years HRT where thanks to my implant my T level is now significantly below GG average levels. Usually do it about once a week out of boredom, for stress relief/to get to sleep and because I know it's good to keep the future donor materiel stretched.
- I was a once-or-twice a day person pre-transition