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Title: Just saying hello to everyone
Post by: thescrappycoco on October 06, 2009, 06:01:31 PM
Post by: thescrappycoco on October 06, 2009, 06:01:31 PM
Hello I'm new to this group and thought that I would just say hello. I'm a male by gender and I am androgyinous. I have strugled for so long trying to figure out why i like certain thing's or why I can function greatly in both side's of the line. I could sit hear and explain for hour's as to who I am and why I define myself as androgyinous. I am trying right now as we speak to get to understand more of who I am as a person. I am also working on my look. Right now cause of the job's that I hold a can't really make no change's to my outword apperance and really wouldn't anyway. I am mainly working on my clothing style. I wear skirt's out and about quite often and am starting to get a better appreciancion for heel's. When I wear skirt's and thing's I wear them as me, and do not try to pass my self off as another gender. As far as my gender goes I'm happy with what I have. Well, I look forward to holding some good conversation's and getting to meet some new people.
Steve
Steve
Title: Re: Just saying hello to everyone
Post by: Janet_Girl on October 06, 2009, 06:12:06 PM
Post by: Janet_Girl on October 06, 2009, 06:12:06 PM
Hi Steve, :icon_wave:
Welcome to our little family. Over 3200 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another member. :icon_hug:
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Blessed Be.
Janet
Welcome to our little family. Over 3200 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another member. :icon_hug:
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Blessed Be.
Janet
Title: Re: Just saying hello to everyone
Post by: LightlyLuke on October 07, 2009, 11:37:35 AM
Post by: LightlyLuke on October 07, 2009, 11:37:35 AM
Hi Steve,
I'm new here also.
I'm female-born but play on both sides of the line.
Do you feel like sometimes you're male and sometimes female? Or maybe wishing for more female-ness?
I feel like I live in the fog in the middle-- I'm a lesbian married to another woman and live my femaleness that way. I don't wear skirts or feminine clothing. But then I don't long to put on a suit either. But I would like to be able to express my male side more.
-- Luke
I'm new here also.
I'm female-born but play on both sides of the line.
Do you feel like sometimes you're male and sometimes female? Or maybe wishing for more female-ness?
I feel like I live in the fog in the middle-- I'm a lesbian married to another woman and live my femaleness that way. I don't wear skirts or feminine clothing. But then I don't long to put on a suit either. But I would like to be able to express my male side more.
-- Luke
Title: Re: Just saying hello to everyone
Post by: Shana A on October 07, 2009, 09:04:07 PM
Post by: Shana A on October 07, 2009, 09:04:07 PM
Welcome Steve and Luke too!
Z
Z
Title: Re: Just saying hello to everyone
Post by: Eva Marie on October 08, 2009, 12:31:32 AM
Post by: Eva Marie on October 08, 2009, 12:31:32 AM
Welcome, steve!
I think you'll fit in fine here.
I think you'll fit in fine here.
Title: Re: Just saying hello to everyone
Post by: thescrappycoco on October 08, 2009, 06:53:07 AM
Post by: thescrappycoco on October 08, 2009, 06:53:07 AM
Well, first let me start by saying thanks to everyone for the warm welcome so far. ;D
Luke to answer your question it's kind of hard to understand for me yet. For me I'm not gay or bi-sexual, witch had me kind of conffused. I only have eye's for the other sex. For me it's kind of what you stated. I was the kid that was always picked on in school cause I didn't really care for doing the quote unquote normal guy thing. I wasn't the type of guy that treated a women like she was a peace of meat like a lot of guy do. The thing that i have struggled with was trying to understand why I liked to wear skirt's and thing's of a softer nature. I also could never understand for me why I just showed some of the thing's that women would do. As far as being me I strugled for a long time trying to figure out who I was and why I thought the way I do when it come's to thing's of a fem nature. I feel like you as a person that is kind of stuck in the middle. My sex is male and I am happy with that, but I also don't mind wearing skirt's, heel's, or hose. So it's kind of like you I will toss on a pair of pants and do the manly thing or I'll toss on a skirt and go about my bizzness. When I wear a skirt or heel's I do it as me. I don't try to make my self look like the other sex, I look like me wearing a skirt. I think for female's it's a little easier scocally to bend the gender line's. I say this cause they make pant's for women that don't look to overly girly. Plus it is acceptable in today's world for women to do thing's that use to be male only. So for women they can flip the switch and do the manly thing, and then flip the switch and do the girly thing and no one bat's an eye. For a guy if he try's to do that the first thing that come's into question is his sexuallity. For a hetro guy the thing he hate's the most is trying to defend his sexuallity. That is the thing that I am strugling with right now is learning who I am as a person and trying to understand that. So that the people around me I can help to understand who I am. I hope this answered your question some.
Luke to answer your question it's kind of hard to understand for me yet. For me I'm not gay or bi-sexual, witch had me kind of conffused. I only have eye's for the other sex. For me it's kind of what you stated. I was the kid that was always picked on in school cause I didn't really care for doing the quote unquote normal guy thing. I wasn't the type of guy that treated a women like she was a peace of meat like a lot of guy do. The thing that i have struggled with was trying to understand why I liked to wear skirt's and thing's of a softer nature. I also could never understand for me why I just showed some of the thing's that women would do. As far as being me I strugled for a long time trying to figure out who I was and why I thought the way I do when it come's to thing's of a fem nature. I feel like you as a person that is kind of stuck in the middle. My sex is male and I am happy with that, but I also don't mind wearing skirt's, heel's, or hose. So it's kind of like you I will toss on a pair of pants and do the manly thing or I'll toss on a skirt and go about my bizzness. When I wear a skirt or heel's I do it as me. I don't try to make my self look like the other sex, I look like me wearing a skirt. I think for female's it's a little easier scocally to bend the gender line's. I say this cause they make pant's for women that don't look to overly girly. Plus it is acceptable in today's world for women to do thing's that use to be male only. So for women they can flip the switch and do the manly thing, and then flip the switch and do the girly thing and no one bat's an eye. For a guy if he try's to do that the first thing that come's into question is his sexuallity. For a hetro guy the thing he hate's the most is trying to defend his sexuallity. That is the thing that I am strugling with right now is learning who I am as a person and trying to understand that. So that the people around me I can help to understand who I am. I hope this answered your question some.
Title: Re: Just saying hello to everyone
Post by: jesse on October 08, 2009, 06:57:12 AM
Post by: jesse on October 08, 2009, 06:57:12 AM
welcome to susans i hope you find the answers to some of your questions here
hugs
jessica
hugs
jessica
Title: Re: Just saying hello to everyone
Post by: LightlyLuke on October 08, 2009, 12:36:32 PM
Post by: LightlyLuke on October 08, 2009, 12:36:32 PM
Steve,
Yes, that answers my questions. I think we've both found a good place for working out the questions in our lives.
-- Luke
Yes, that answers my questions. I think we've both found a good place for working out the questions in our lives.
-- Luke
Title: Re: Just saying hello to everyone
Post by: Kinkly on October 08, 2009, 09:15:45 PM
Post by: Kinkly on October 08, 2009, 09:15:45 PM
Hello Steve & Luke sorry its taken me so long to post
Title: Re: Just saying hello to everyone
Post by: Flan on October 08, 2009, 09:23:30 PM
Post by: Flan on October 08, 2009, 09:23:30 PM
welcome to susan's steve and luke
be sure to visit candy mountain! ;)
be sure to visit candy mountain! ;)
Title: Re: Just saying hello to everyone
Post by: LightlyLuke on October 09, 2009, 09:38:45 AM
Post by: LightlyLuke on October 09, 2009, 09:38:45 AM
Thanks for the welcome, everyone. Though I didn't mean to hijack Steve's thread.
You can't be twenty on Candy Mountain
Though you're thinking that
you're leaving there too soon,
You're leaving there too soon.
No wait, that's Sugar Mountain.
Love your kitty, flan!
You can't be twenty on Candy Mountain
Though you're thinking that
you're leaving there too soon,
You're leaving there too soon.
No wait, that's Sugar Mountain.
Love your kitty, flan!
Title: Re: Just saying hello to everyone
Post by: thescrappycoco on October 10, 2009, 12:04:19 PM
Post by: thescrappycoco on October 10, 2009, 12:04:19 PM
That's ok you didn't hijack anything.