Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Blaire on October 13, 2009, 04:47:04 AM Return to Full Version
Title: ever wonder?
Post by: Blaire on October 13, 2009, 04:47:04 AM
Post by: Blaire on October 13, 2009, 04:47:04 AM
have you ever wondered if youwent away would anybody care?
Title: Re: ever wonder?
Post by: SilverShadow on October 13, 2009, 02:05:59 PM
Post by: SilverShadow on October 13, 2009, 02:05:59 PM
Quote from: Blaire on October 13, 2009, 04:47:04 AM
have you ever wondered if youwent away would anybody care?
Sure have. The conclusion I've come to is: There's always someone who would.
Title: Re: ever wonder?
Post by: findingreason on October 13, 2009, 02:08:37 PM
Post by: findingreason on October 13, 2009, 02:08:37 PM
Yup. I did for a while at one point, and people did care.
Title: Re: ever wonder?
Post by: Stella Blue on October 13, 2009, 02:17:44 PM
Post by: Stella Blue on October 13, 2009, 02:17:44 PM
Yes I have. Fortunately I think if I did, some people would care. :)
-Heather
-Heather
Title: Re: ever wonder?
Post by: Kara on October 13, 2009, 03:22:32 PM
Post by: Kara on October 13, 2009, 03:22:32 PM
The question I always ask myself is: "If I leave, will the people who matter to me care?"
In other words, there are people who will care but, quite frankly, I'm not concerned with them. There are other people that I respect and those are the ones that I wonder about.
I suppose I might get my answer between the fall and spring semesters when the college has a whole month blocked off for no apparent reason.
In other words, there are people who will care but, quite frankly, I'm not concerned with them. There are other people that I respect and those are the ones that I wonder about.
I suppose I might get my answer between the fall and spring semesters when the college has a whole month blocked off for no apparent reason.
Title: Re: ever wonder?
Post by: Naturally Blonde on October 13, 2009, 09:19:03 PM
Post by: Naturally Blonde on October 13, 2009, 09:19:03 PM
Quote from: Blaire on October 13, 2009, 04:47:04 AMYes, my family would care
have you ever wondered if you went away would anybody care?
Title: Re: ever wonder?
Post by: Janet_Girl on October 13, 2009, 09:22:53 PM
Post by: Janet_Girl on October 13, 2009, 09:22:53 PM
I know that my ex would definitely miss me. And not because I pay her money. I know she still cares but she can not or will not admit to herself that she does. And so would Peggy, a friend, and my GF. And I would miss a new life.
Janet
Janet
Title: Re: ever wonder?
Post by: Dana_W on October 14, 2009, 12:36:12 AM
Post by: Dana_W on October 14, 2009, 12:36:12 AM
Sure I have.
Suicidal thoughts are so freaking normal with transition it's almost a scandal they're not more openly discussed. I've felt them as recently as last week (I'm better now. Honest.)
"Would anyone care" is the early version of "would I hurt anyone else" when it comes to suicide. Neither one is a healthy way to frame the question in the first place.
Suicidal thoughts are so freaking normal with transition it's almost a scandal they're not more openly discussed. I've felt them as recently as last week (I'm better now. Honest.)
"Would anyone care" is the early version of "would I hurt anyone else" when it comes to suicide. Neither one is a healthy way to frame the question in the first place.
Title: Re: ever wonder?
Post by: heatherrose on October 14, 2009, 03:05:16 AM
Post by: heatherrose on October 14, 2009, 03:05:16 AM
We never know how or who's life we
have affected, simply by living our own.