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Title: Back once again and now people know
Post by: Aantoin on October 14, 2009, 07:38:45 AM
Post by: Aantoin on October 14, 2009, 07:38:45 AM
So my wife and I sat down a few nights ago and and talked. We discussed what went wrong in our marriage, and my big secret from her. It all started out as a halloween idea, Gothic Punk Vampire Female. I have bought almost all my stuff for this.
The morning that I bought my pants (Lovely and now she wants them) she turned from a good mood to a very ugly mood called me gay ->-bleeped-<-git, and flat out told me to leave. I didn't. That was a day before we had a serious talk about me and us. I am not gay but I call myself a lesbian. I truly believe that I am a woman trapped in a guys body.
Now that I bought almost all of my clothing for the one day, if I want to say in this relationship I need to get rid of all of my newly accuried clothing. I want to stick with our marriage but I would be lyeing to myself if I did all of this. I am very comfortable with myself when I am dressed as a female but I am not sure what to do.
We have been married for 9 years and have 2 wonderful kids. Our daughter is 6 and our son is 3. Confused yes, misunderstood definitly, NOT SURE WHAT TO DO. I have came out to two people. My boss at work is very nice and she doesnt mind one bit, she very open minded.
The morning that I bought my pants (Lovely and now she wants them) she turned from a good mood to a very ugly mood called me gay ->-bleeped-<-git, and flat out told me to leave. I didn't. That was a day before we had a serious talk about me and us. I am not gay but I call myself a lesbian. I truly believe that I am a woman trapped in a guys body.
Now that I bought almost all of my clothing for the one day, if I want to say in this relationship I need to get rid of all of my newly accuried clothing. I want to stick with our marriage but I would be lyeing to myself if I did all of this. I am very comfortable with myself when I am dressed as a female but I am not sure what to do.
We have been married for 9 years and have 2 wonderful kids. Our daughter is 6 and our son is 3. Confused yes, misunderstood definitly, NOT SURE WHAT TO DO. I have came out to two people. My boss at work is very nice and she doesnt mind one bit, she very open minded.
Title: Re: Back once again and now people know
Post by: Janet_Girl on October 14, 2009, 10:57:35 AM
Post by: Janet_Girl on October 14, 2009, 10:57:35 AM
Hi Aantoin, :icon_wave:
Welcome back to our little family. Over 3400 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
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Personally, I think that it comes down to the wives not wanting to think of themselves as Lesbian. And in order to stay in a marriage, that would be something they would have to do. My ex said it over and over again, "I am not a lesbian". But if she truly loved me then Yes she is. And there is nothing wrong with that.
But we are friends even now. I could hold out hope that we would get back together, but I need to move on and i have someone else in my life now.
Do what you need to, you must. to paraphrase Yoda.
I wish you luck in you journey.
Blessed Be.
Janet
Welcome back to our little family. Over 3400 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
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Personally, I think that it comes down to the wives not wanting to think of themselves as Lesbian. And in order to stay in a marriage, that would be something they would have to do. My ex said it over and over again, "I am not a lesbian". But if she truly loved me then Yes she is. And there is nothing wrong with that.
But we are friends even now. I could hold out hope that we would get back together, but I need to move on and i have someone else in my life now.
Do what you need to, you must. to paraphrase Yoda.
I wish you luck in you journey.
Blessed Be.
Janet