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Title: Halloween going out dilemma
Post by: Jeatyn on October 26, 2009, 08:29:46 PM
Post by: Jeatyn on October 26, 2009, 08:29:46 PM
I am going out on halloween, but I don't know if I'm going out in guy mode or girl mode
Obviously I would much prefer guy mode, but if I do pass as a guy, it's as a very young guy.
I don't have any ID, so I just have to rely on them letting me in. As a girl I have never been stopped. I fear if I bind my chest and hide the curves I will look like a pre-pubescent boy and not get in to any of the clubs.
I know the obvious solution is "get ID" but I never have any money to get it, a drivers licence costs almost a full weeks dole money ::) and it's too late now anyway.
Opinions would be apreciated :P
Obviously I would much prefer guy mode, but if I do pass as a guy, it's as a very young guy.
I don't have any ID, so I just have to rely on them letting me in. As a girl I have never been stopped. I fear if I bind my chest and hide the curves I will look like a pre-pubescent boy and not get in to any of the clubs.
I know the obvious solution is "get ID" but I never have any money to get it, a drivers licence costs almost a full weeks dole money ::) and it's too late now anyway.
Opinions would be apreciated :P
Title: Re: Halloween going out dilemma
Post by: Silver on October 26, 2009, 08:36:59 PM
Post by: Silver on October 26, 2009, 08:36:59 PM
If it matters to you to get in, go in girl mode. You don't seem to have other choices.
Title: Re: Halloween going out dilemma
Post by: Sarah_Faith on October 26, 2009, 09:42:49 PM
Post by: Sarah_Faith on October 26, 2009, 09:42:49 PM
How about going in in 'girl mode' and bringing some stuff with you? You could even use the disabled toilets, go in as super girl and come out as super man???
Last halloween I went out with my girlfriend en femme under her suggestion, and the funniest thing was seeing the reaction of guys in the toilets looking at me standing against the urinal. It was really funny, but unfortunatly for me all I had to do was open my mouth and they were at ease:(
Have a great night anyway! Please let us know what you end up doing:)
Last halloween I went out with my girlfriend en femme under her suggestion, and the funniest thing was seeing the reaction of guys in the toilets looking at me standing against the urinal. It was really funny, but unfortunatly for me all I had to do was open my mouth and they were at ease:(
Have a great night anyway! Please let us know what you end up doing:)
Title: Re: Halloween going out dilemma
Post by: Jeatyn on October 26, 2009, 09:58:18 PM
Post by: Jeatyn on October 26, 2009, 09:58:18 PM
oh that's a good idea
I could take my binder and an extra shirt and do a clark kent in the loo's :P
I'm 100% sure that it's my "assets" that get me in to clubs xD if they are flattened, I'm so short and baby faced that I can't get served for cigs, alcohol...and I get on the bus for half fare without even asking. If they aren't, I have no trouble
They seem to be the only thing that either gets me read as "13 year old boy" or "20 year old butch lesbian" :P
I could take my binder and an extra shirt and do a clark kent in the loo's :P
I'm 100% sure that it's my "assets" that get me in to clubs xD if they are flattened, I'm so short and baby faced that I can't get served for cigs, alcohol...and I get on the bus for half fare without even asking. If they aren't, I have no trouble
They seem to be the only thing that either gets me read as "13 year old boy" or "20 year old butch lesbian" :P
Title: Re: Halloween going out dilemma
Post by: wannalivethetruth on October 26, 2009, 10:40:34 PM
Post by: wannalivethetruth on October 26, 2009, 10:40:34 PM
Quote from: Sarah_Faith on October 26, 2009, 09:42:49 PM
How about going in in 'girl mode' and bringing some stuff with you? You could even use the disabled toilets, go in as super girl and come out as super man???
Last halloween I went out with my girlfriend en femme under her suggestion, and the funniest thing was seeing the reaction of guys in the toilets looking at me standing against the urinal. It was really funny, but unfortunatly for me all I had to do was open my mouth and they were at ease:(
Have a great night anyway! Please let us know what you end up doing:)
hehe i 2nd that one! :P
I think you should maybe dress in girl mode, but keep it boyish at the same time? ehh idk! tough one hehe
Title: Re: Halloween going out dilemma
Post by: Jeatyn on November 02, 2009, 08:20:44 PM
Post by: Jeatyn on November 02, 2009, 08:20:44 PM
I went out in full blown girl mode, I thought what the hell, it's just like drag :P
Pictures:
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi496.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Frr327%2Fxdawni%2Fkitty.jpg&hash=5896e300f40c3f2c85b5ff9c48efd967550a6a93)
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi496.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Frr327%2Fxdawni%2Fkitty2.jpg&hash=a82f8019333426ec1337fadf0468353eab399870)
also pictured is my inspiration for the costume, sittin on my shoulder like a parrot.
Pictures:
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi496.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Frr327%2Fxdawni%2Fkitty.jpg&hash=5896e300f40c3f2c85b5ff9c48efd967550a6a93)
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi496.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Frr327%2Fxdawni%2Fkitty2.jpg&hash=a82f8019333426ec1337fadf0468353eab399870)
also pictured is my inspiration for the costume, sittin on my shoulder like a parrot.
Title: Re: Halloween going out dilemma
Post by: Janet_Girl on November 02, 2009, 08:49:40 PM
Post by: Janet_Girl on November 02, 2009, 08:49:40 PM
That is so cute. I bet you were a hit, in your cute drag king outfit.
Janet
Janet
Title: Re: Halloween going out dilemma
Post by: Silver on November 03, 2009, 01:51:30 AM
Post by: Silver on November 03, 2009, 01:51:30 AM
Quote from: Janet Lynn on November 02, 2009, 08:49:40 PM
That is so cute. I bet you were a hit, in your cute dragkingqueen outfit.
Fixed.
Title: Re: Halloween going out dilemma
Post by: Jeatyn on November 03, 2009, 08:24:11 AM
Post by: Jeatyn on November 03, 2009, 08:24:11 AM
Quote from: SilverFang on November 03, 2009, 01:51:30 AM
Fixed.
hehe was thinking the same ;D
I was a hit, tons of people told me I looked adorable XD I can live with adorable