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Title: Total newb :D
Post by: Wolf Man on November 06, 2009, 06:18:19 PM
Post by: Wolf Man on November 06, 2009, 06:18:19 PM
Hello world! ... Or community, which I suppose is more appropriate. :P
I have joined these forums because I'm a bit lost in my self identification. It's all just so overwhelming. To start off, I am biologically female, but am quite male identified. From what it seems like, others such as myself have found their own little niche. I don't find myself really fitting into any of the ones I've seen. I'm not just a butch lesbian: I want to be seen as male and treated as such. I'm not FTM: I haven't had these feelings for very long (at least I don't think so) and though I have a desire for change, I don't have a desire for such changes I've seen most transmen go through.
I just feel like I'm trapped in-between. Even if this whole thing is a continuum, I just can't find my place. I am plagued by the desire to belong and so actually finding somewhere is very important to me. I'm hoping by hanging around here, among other places, I will find myself. If not, there's always therapy, right?
I have joined these forums because I'm a bit lost in my self identification. It's all just so overwhelming. To start off, I am biologically female, but am quite male identified. From what it seems like, others such as myself have found their own little niche. I don't find myself really fitting into any of the ones I've seen. I'm not just a butch lesbian: I want to be seen as male and treated as such. I'm not FTM: I haven't had these feelings for very long (at least I don't think so) and though I have a desire for change, I don't have a desire for such changes I've seen most transmen go through.
I just feel like I'm trapped in-between. Even if this whole thing is a continuum, I just can't find my place. I am plagued by the desire to belong and so actually finding somewhere is very important to me. I'm hoping by hanging around here, among other places, I will find myself. If not, there's always therapy, right?
Title: Re: Total newb :D
Post by: Janet_Girl on November 06, 2009, 06:27:10 PM
Post by: Janet_Girl on November 06, 2009, 06:27:10 PM
Hi Wolfyboi, :icon_wave:
Welcome to our little family. Over 3600 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another brother. :icon_hug:
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Blessed Be.
Janet
Welcome to our little family. Over 3600 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another brother. :icon_hug:
And be sure to check out
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It is nice to have another Lycan.
Blessed Be.
Janet
Title: Re: Total newb :D
Post by: Miniar on November 06, 2009, 06:51:15 PM
Post by: Miniar on November 06, 2009, 06:51:15 PM
Therapy's always a good idea.
hey and welcome :)
hey and welcome :)
Title: Re: Total newb :D
Post by: Kurzar on November 06, 2009, 07:10:05 PM
Post by: Kurzar on November 06, 2009, 07:10:05 PM
welcome! I'm always avail to chat with anyone who needs it.
Title: Re: Total newb :D
Post by: Lachlann on November 06, 2009, 07:12:27 PM
Post by: Lachlann on November 06, 2009, 07:12:27 PM
Yep, therapy's a good place to start.
Welcome!
Welcome!
Title: Re: Total newb :D
Post by: gqueering on November 08, 2009, 02:41:54 AM
Post by: gqueering on November 08, 2009, 02:41:54 AM
hey wolfyboi,
Welcome to the group - reading other people's posts might help clarify things for you. Also, if you haven't already, you could look into 'genderqueer' http://www.genderqueerrevolution.org/gqr/home/about.html (http://www.genderqueerrevolution.org/gqr/home/about.html) and 'androgyny' http://androgyne.0catch.com/ (http://androgyne.0catch.com/).
Lots of links here http://androgyne.0catch.com/tglinks1.htm (http://androgyne.0catch.com/tglinks1.htm)
That should get you started ;)
Welcome to the group - reading other people's posts might help clarify things for you. Also, if you haven't already, you could look into 'genderqueer' http://www.genderqueerrevolution.org/gqr/home/about.html (http://www.genderqueerrevolution.org/gqr/home/about.html) and 'androgyny' http://androgyne.0catch.com/ (http://androgyne.0catch.com/).
Lots of links here http://androgyne.0catch.com/tglinks1.htm (http://androgyne.0catch.com/tglinks1.htm)
That should get you started ;)
Title: Re: Total newb :D
Post by: Arch on November 08, 2009, 03:18:46 AM
Post by: Arch on November 08, 2009, 03:18:46 AM
Sometimes people take time to figure themselves out. Ya gotta follow your heart...maybe at the moment you're following your tail!
Welcome.
Welcome.