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I need help I feel butterflies in my stomach and get giggly with this dude. He likes me but more as a friend.

Today he said " I would rather be with a hot guy than with her (she's ugly)"

And I reply, she isn't that ugly, maybe 10 k to fix her face.

No no just saying a joke (since I should had probably agreed with him).

But still I like him... He's not hot but cute. I think he might be just a little bi...

Smile and be a friend. See where it goes.

I think he was hinting about but is a bit nervous  :icon_chick:

You actually replied how most jealous women would

That's what I thought because afterward he became a little nervous like he reveal himself a bit.

But it can't be true since a few weeks ago he mention a girlfriend over the phone.

Is it actually a girlfriend? Or a pretend a friend?

Another ploy guys & gals do to create interest

I don't know.

We aren't super close, but I'm 75% sure she's real. He also said that I should watch out from this ugly girl. (hinting I'm attractive)

I said that's mean with a small smile. Then he repeated that I should look our from dark corners in case she jumps me outside.

Also he said bye to me first when I was leaving. And he happy whenever I'm around and cares about me like asking if I'm okay.

I think he shows more interest in me than I show him., but I have no idea how to flirt with besides being nice.

Boys aren't that hard to manage dear. I gather from context that he knows your orientation and that you could possibly be available to him, so if he wants you he'll say so or make it clear somehow. If not then who needs the drama of a conflicted closet case? Just keep being friendly, that's enough.

I'm a closet case as well,  and I present myself as a normal straight guy... But were friends because I work with him. I'm 18 and he's 21. I don't want to come out because it's work and I want to stay employed. Plus professional.

I'm straight acting too, I hate that label but it's the truth. So I'm afraid I'm picking up that he likes me but afraid that he likes me since he acts really straight.

I'm really sorry, I didn't mean to be offensive with my use of the expression "closet case."
They are rather annoying to date if your'e out though ;)

QuoteThis one boy in class told me yesterday, "You're the prettiest girl in class"

This is what confused me, I had assumed you were out/fulltime or something.

^ that's school; nothing there

And that guy was just saying something odd  for no reason but it kind of made me think I would be if I was a girl. Then I thought of beauty, it's really random thread that relates to natural versus fake.

Quote from: Megan on November 14, 2009, 09:52:31 PM
I'm 18 and he's 21.

:laugh: good

Maybe you can tell him next Halloween you are thinking of dressing up as a hot chick and see what his reaction is. :)

^ yeah don't know what he would say

I'm really unsure now, he told me today that he was proud of me for becoming employee of the month. Like a way a family member would say it, since were equals at work so it wasn't like a boss or manager way.   

And that it's amazing I'm still alive ( about the last girl jumping me).

An hour later Then we talk about some ugly (another one) girl being a giant and hire her as a body guard.

Then he laugh a bit... Then I left. Then i said goodbye to him.

But still I don't want to be delusional so he'll just be a friend for now.

You're dreaming.