Susan's Place Transgender Resources

Hello ladies and gents!

I've been lurking around here for awhile now, and I've finally decided that it's time to introduce myself!

I'm 33 (which is soooooo "OLD", apparently)  ;)  lol

I've been living as a butch lesbian (bleh) for most of my adult life (although, I never came out to my family. Probably because I've always known that I'm really just a straight guy stuck in a terribly unfortunate body).

Needless to say, I've been presenting in a "masculine way" (guy clothes/haircuts and binding) for years and I somehow, secretly hope that when I DO finally muster the courage to have "the" conversation with my family (I'm pre-everything at the moment) - it won't be a HUGE shock (ha! yeah right.)  :-\

Like most of us, I'm sure, this is obviously one of my biggest fears... my parents are older (dad: 79 and mom: 67) and are typical, ultra-conservative/religious Southerners = good times!)   :-\

I also have a younger brother (he's 30), who still lives at home with mom and dad (hellooooo "Failure to Launch")

I've starting coming out as trans to most of my close friends – most of whom are lesbians, and so far, everyone has been extremely supportive. (whew)

I'm still getting used to my shiny, new "boy name", and so is everyone else! I can't believe so much of my PERSONAL identity is wrapped around that stupid birth name and that it's been so hard for me to let go of... even though I've never been particularly fond of it (duh)

I suppose that's just part of the process...

Hmm. What else...

Just the basics, I guess:  Like I mentioned – I'm 33, and I live in Dallas, TX. I'm currently single – which sucks, but I know it's for the best – for now anyway. I have two mixed-breed rescue dogs that get all of my attention (what's left of it, that is, after thinking about myself and my transition all day)   ;D  I'm seeing a therapist – who doesn't actually specialize in gender issues, but has also been very supportive and helpful, thus far.

I'm looking forward to a more active participation in this amazing community!

Cheers,
Andy

yo and welcome

Hi Andy, :icon_wave:

Welcome to our little family. Over 3700 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.

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Blessed Be.
Janet

Welcome Andy.
Cheers
Andrew Myles

Welcome to Susan's, Andy.  :icon_flower:

You're in the right place.  Each of our stories is unique but we have a lot in common.  Settle in, pull up a keyboard, and explore.

Yes, there are a lot of people here who think 33 is old, but you're younger than my daughter - my kid. ;)

You can get some good advice (and a little bad, probably ::)) here about coming out to your family.  It's a huge step for most of us.

Happy exploring. :icon_wave:

- Kate

Hi Andy and welcome to the forums. This is a great place to be.  I have learned  much here and met some great people, too.

Gennee