Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: junpei on December 16, 2009, 07:50:38 PM Return to Full Version

Title: Names.
Post by: junpei on December 16, 2009, 07:50:38 PM
Today I asked the teachers at my school to call me by the name George. I was really nervous, but I summoned my confidence and told all of them [except my Japanese teacher because that is an issue I'm not ready to tackle]. They all used George when talking to me or about me, and if they used my female-name they corrected themselves. It was fantastic.
I am slowly, ever so slowly, becoming a guy in the eyes of the world.
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Post by: xACEx on December 16, 2009, 08:02:18 PM
sweeeeet!!!! isnt it awesome!!!! CONGRATS man!!
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Post by: J.J. on December 16, 2009, 08:59:05 PM
Congrats!
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Post by: Mark on December 16, 2009, 09:47:48 PM
congrats thats a big step bro
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Post by: Silver on December 17, 2009, 12:31:38 AM
You've got great teachers. Congrats.
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Post by: xxaussiexx on December 17, 2009, 12:49:04 AM
Hey George, great that u took that step and tell all your teachers.  It aint easy seeing as u have no idea how they would react.  Real brave of u! 
Quote from: junpei on December 16, 2009, 07:50:38 PM
It was fantastic.
I am slowly, ever so slowly, becoming a guy in the eyes of the world.

Feels great doesnt it when ur not invisible anymore and some part of u is being recognised, slowly letting the real you come through.  Keep it going ;)  Lets hope the Japanese teacher will do it soon.
Enjoy!
Joshua
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Post by: FolkFanatic on December 17, 2009, 12:11:53 PM
Congrats - it feels wonderful when things finally go in the right direction (i'm still on a high after doctor visit the other day resulted in a KNOWLEDGEABLE doctor willing to write out referrals to a therapist and endocrinologist.)

I'm still on the line - i don't know if i want to start using my chosen name NOW or wait until after i duke it out with my parents and start T.

My current name can be heard as male or female. Chosen name is decidedly male. Chosen name would be seen as a "nick name" by the profs until i have it legally changed.... Decisions, decisions.
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Post by: junpei on December 18, 2009, 01:54:35 PM
Thanks everyone.