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Title: What to wear for job interview
Post by: Icephoenyx on March 12, 2010, 06:20:28 PM
Post by: Icephoenyx on March 12, 2010, 06:20:28 PM
Hi all, I'm done university soon and I am looking for jobs. I plan to interview in girl mode, scary as that is.
What should I wear? I have a black blazer and black pants (not a suit, sold separate), but what should I wear underneath the blazer?
Also, no heels, I'm 6'1"
Thanks!
What should I wear? I have a black blazer and black pants (not a suit, sold separate), but what should I wear underneath the blazer?
Also, no heels, I'm 6'1"
Thanks!
Title: Re: What to wear for job interview
Post by: tekla on March 12, 2010, 08:52:47 PM
Post by: tekla on March 12, 2010, 08:52:47 PM
Wear exactly what all the women who already work there wear to work.
Title: Re: What to wear for job interview
Post by: LordKAT on March 13, 2010, 03:00:58 AM
Post by: LordKAT on March 13, 2010, 03:00:58 AM
Quote from: tekla on March 12, 2010, 08:52:47 PM
Wear exactly what all the women who already work there wear to work.
Or slightly better.
Title: Re: What to wear for job interview
Post by: Janet_Girl on March 13, 2010, 04:33:06 AM
Post by: Janet_Girl on March 13, 2010, 04:33:06 AM
Always dress a little conservative, unless you are going for a stripper job. :D Light makeup. Flats and dark nylons.
Title: Re: What to wear for job interview
Post by: lilacwoman on March 13, 2010, 02:46:39 PM
Post by: lilacwoman on March 13, 2010, 02:46:39 PM
nice plain white top with a neckline that shows you're a woman...
Title: Re: What to wear for job interview
Post by: JillEclipse on March 13, 2010, 05:14:34 PM
Post by: JillEclipse on March 13, 2010, 05:14:34 PM
wear black lipstick and eyeliner. that way if they discover you're a man you can just say you're a goth.
Title: Re: What to wear for job interview
Post by: Icephoenyx on March 13, 2010, 06:34:15 PM
Post by: Icephoenyx on March 13, 2010, 06:34:15 PM
Quote from: tekla on March 12, 2010, 08:52:47 PM
Wear exactly what all the women who already work there wear to work.
What if I've never been to this place before, and is not really open to the public?
Chrissi
Title: Re: What to wear for job interview
Post by: Carolyn on March 13, 2010, 06:48:43 PM
Post by: Carolyn on March 13, 2010, 06:48:43 PM
whatever you feel like
Title: Re: What to wear for job interview
Post by: LordKAT on March 14, 2010, 05:35:08 AM
Post by: LordKAT on March 14, 2010, 05:35:08 AM
Quote from: Icephoenyx on March 13, 2010, 06:34:15 PM
What if I've never been to this place before, and is not really open to the public?
Chrissi
People have to go and come from work sometime. Watch come and go. Parking lot style
Title: Re: What to wear for job interview
Post by: Pippa on March 14, 2010, 08:15:42 AM
Post by: Pippa on March 14, 2010, 08:15:42 AM
A smart blouse and trouser suit. If no heels, I wold wear a stylish pair of flats. Conservative jewellery and make up.
Title: Re: What to wear for job interview
Post by: Jamie-o on March 14, 2010, 08:34:54 AM
Post by: Jamie-o on March 14, 2010, 08:34:54 AM
Quote from: LordKAT on March 14, 2010, 05:35:08 AM
People have to go and come from work sometime. Watch come and go. Parking lot style
Unless, of course, this place is like where I work. Nothing throws off the vibes of a job interview like having to explain why you've been loitering around a secure facility. ;) :D
Seriously though, if in doubt, wear nice slacks or a skirt and a nice blouse along with closed-toe flats in a conservative, but feminine style. Don't show your cleavage unless you're hoping to get hired for your looks and not your skills. Heels and open-toed shoes give the impression that you are more interested in looking good than in doing actual work (and many companies don't allow them for safety reasons) so it's best to avoid them until you know the dress code. For the same reason it's generally best to keep jewelry on the conservative side - small ear rings, simple necklaces and/or bracelets, maybe a pin on the lapel of your jacket.
Of course, all of this also depends upon the industry and the type of job. If you're looking for a job on Wall Street, you'll need a ladies' suit. If you're looking for a job as an artist, you might want to up the creativity of your outfit some. But in general it's better to go over-dressed and too conservative than the other way around.
Title: Re: What to wear for job interview
Post by: JillEclipse on March 14, 2010, 10:39:57 AM
Post by: JillEclipse on March 14, 2010, 10:39:57 AM
wear a red vest. black top. blue jeans. blue jacket. gold earings. brown boots.
NO LEATHER BECAUSE LEATHER IS EVIL.
NO LEATHER BECAUSE LEATHER IS EVIL.
Title: Re: What to wear for job interview
Post by: spacial on March 14, 2010, 11:30:35 AM
Post by: spacial on March 14, 2010, 11:30:35 AM
Quote from: JillEclipse on March 14, 2010, 10:39:57 AM
wear a red vest. black top. blue jeans. blue jacket. gold earings. brown boots.
NO LEATHER BECAUSE LEATHER IS EVIL.
You know, if you're up for it, that might just work! ;D
The completely honest approach.
Title: Re: What to wear for job interview
Post by: Naturally Blonde on March 14, 2010, 02:13:10 PM
Post by: Naturally Blonde on March 14, 2010, 02:13:10 PM
Quote from: Icephoenyx on March 12, 2010, 06:20:28 PM
Hi all, I'm done university soon and I am looking for jobs. I plan to interview in girl mode, scary as that is.
What should I wear? I have a black blazer and black pants (not a suit, sold separate), but what should I wear underneath the blazer?
Also, no heels, I'm 6'1"
Thanks!
I remember being faced with that situation a decade ago. I tended to dress too smart for the interview, and others also for the same interview were wearing more casual clothes.
The first one is always the hardest but try and wear something your are comfortable and relaxed wearing rather than making too much of an impression.
Title: Re: What to wear for job interview
Post by: JillEclipse on March 14, 2010, 02:46:32 PM
Post by: JillEclipse on March 14, 2010, 02:46:32 PM
I hate it when girls where blue, pink and white, with black shoes. it eats my soul alive, it is so drab.
Title: Re: What to wear for job interview
Post by: K8 on March 14, 2010, 02:55:14 PM
Post by: K8 on March 14, 2010, 02:55:14 PM
Quote from: Jamie-o on March 14, 2010, 08:34:54 AM
Seriously though, if in doubt, wear nice slacks or a skirt and a nice blouse along with closed-toe flats in a conservative, but feminine style. Don't show your cleavage unless you're hoping to get hired for your looks and not your skills. Heels and open-toed shoes give the impression that you are more interested in looking good than in doing actual work (and many companies don't allow them for safety reasons) so it's best to avoid them until you know the dress code. For the same reason it's generally best to keep jewelry on the conservative side - small ear rings, simple necklaces and/or bracelets, maybe a pin on the lapel of your jacket.
Of course, all of this also depends upon the industry and the type of job. If you're looking for a job on Wall Street, you'll need a ladies' suit. If you're looking for a job as an artist, you might want to up the creativity of your outfit some. But in general it's better to go over-dressed and too conservative than the other way around.
^ This is all good stuff.
You don't want to look like a tart unless you are applying for a job as one. You want to look like you put some thought into what you are wearing. You want to be on the slightly conservative side unless you are applying for a job in show business or the arts.
Do not try to look too feminine unless you are applying for a job fetching coffee for the men-folk. The business world is not the place for that. You want to look like an assured, comfortable, competent woman, secure in the knowledge that you are a woman equal to any man and fully capable of the job to be done.
Good luck!
- Kate
Title: Re: What to wear for job interview
Post by: Bombi on March 14, 2010, 03:08:44 PM
Post by: Bombi on March 14, 2010, 03:08:44 PM
I just went through an interview process for a property manager position. Keep in mind Ilive in the tropics but for the first interview I wore womens kaki slacks and a tropical print batik blouse, a light blue belt, sandals, a gold chain and earrings. Things are pretty casual here. For the second I wore black slacks and a white short sleeve blouse with a cami under, sandals and the same jewelery. I have been offered the position but we are still negotiating salary. The other woman candidate wore a lowcut top, she wasn't called back.