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Title: My friends are lovely.
Post by: pebbles on April 21, 2010, 08:22:24 PM
Post by: pebbles on April 21, 2010, 08:22:24 PM
Apart from my father nearly everyone at home pretty much knows most of them figured it out on there own, Most of them let ME know they know rather than the other way around. Last week Me and a friend were playing Soulcalibre 4
Him:"So... how about that."
Me:"Huh?"
Him:"Truly fascinating."
Me:"What is?" *checks controller*
Him:"Well to be honest I knew already."
*I'm silent*
Him:"And so now your taking estrogen to change yourself into a woman, Well I'm sure it will make you feel better... Just remember Your still my friend and you should never be ashamed of yourself or how you were born."
I admitted everything after his monologue but I felt really guilty that I hadn't told him so I decided to admit everything to everyone else who I felt should know to be greeted with a flush of replies of.
"I know."
"I suspected so."
I got some truly wonderful and kind messages from them. :D
It was f*ing amazing seeing you down the pub the other night, you looked so, so happy and comfortable and just more.. yourself. It was wonderful to see and it really made my night. We will support you through all the changes, mental, emotional, physical... whatever you need to feel comfortable, I know I speak for all our circle when I say we'll support you through it.
It almost made me cry... I don't deserve them.
Him:"So... how about that."
Me:"Huh?"
Him:"Truly fascinating."
Me:"What is?" *checks controller*
Him:"Well to be honest I knew already."
*I'm silent*
Him:"And so now your taking estrogen to change yourself into a woman, Well I'm sure it will make you feel better... Just remember Your still my friend and you should never be ashamed of yourself or how you were born."
I admitted everything after his monologue but I felt really guilty that I hadn't told him so I decided to admit everything to everyone else who I felt should know to be greeted with a flush of replies of.
"I know."
"I suspected so."
I got some truly wonderful and kind messages from them. :D
It was f*ing amazing seeing you down the pub the other night, you looked so, so happy and comfortable and just more.. yourself. It was wonderful to see and it really made my night. We will support you through all the changes, mental, emotional, physical... whatever you need to feel comfortable, I know I speak for all our circle when I say we'll support you through it.
It almost made me cry... I don't deserve them.
Title: Re: My friends are lovely.
Post by: cynthialee on April 21, 2010, 08:42:15 PM
Post by: cynthialee on April 21, 2010, 08:42:15 PM
I am of the opinion that if we have suportive friends and family transition will be much less painful.
It is awesome when our friends prove that they deserved to be our friends in the first place.
You obviously chose well.
giant hug
It is awesome when our friends prove that they deserved to be our friends in the first place.
You obviously chose well.
giant hug
Title: Re: My friends are lovely.
Post by: Laura91 on April 21, 2010, 08:49:32 PM
Post by: Laura91 on April 21, 2010, 08:49:32 PM
That is great, Pebbles!! :)
Title: Re: My friends are lovely.
Post by: Janet_Girl on April 21, 2010, 08:53:13 PM
Post by: Janet_Girl on April 21, 2010, 08:53:13 PM
Supportive friends and family make the journey less stressful.
Good for you, Pebbles.
Good for you, Pebbles.
Title: Re: My friends are lovely.
Post by: hkgurl1480 on April 21, 2010, 09:18:40 PM
Post by: hkgurl1480 on April 21, 2010, 09:18:40 PM
3 cheers for awesome friends!!! ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: My friends are lovely.
Post by: brainiac on April 21, 2010, 10:00:17 PM
Post by: brainiac on April 21, 2010, 10:00:17 PM
That's great. :D
And... who were you playing in SC4?
And... who were you playing in SC4?
Title: Re: My friends are lovely.
Post by: JessieMH on April 21, 2010, 10:08:53 PM
Post by: JessieMH on April 21, 2010, 10:08:53 PM
That's wonderful Pebbles :D
And yes, who were you playing?
And yes, who were you playing?
Title: Re: My friends are lovely.
Post by: pebbles on April 22, 2010, 04:58:02 AM
Post by: pebbles on April 22, 2010, 04:58:02 AM
I played either with Siegfried or Talim, But by the request of my friends I also played there outrageously overpowered custom character. "dr Cox mongler" clad in heavy pink armor begin extremely strong very fast and having an extra life bar.
And I do love my friends^_^
And I do love my friends^_^
Title: Re: My friends are lovely.
Post by: Zack on April 22, 2010, 07:17:00 AM
Post by: Zack on April 22, 2010, 07:17:00 AM
Aw you have great friends :)
Title: Re: My friends are lovely.
Post by: Kay on April 22, 2010, 08:23:47 PM
Post by: Kay on April 22, 2010, 08:23:47 PM
Good friends. :)
I'm glad to hear things are going well Pebbles.
I'm glad to hear things are going well Pebbles.
Title: Re: My friends are lovely.
Post by: Rock_chick on April 24, 2010, 04:25:25 AM
Post by: Rock_chick on April 24, 2010, 04:25:25 AM
i <3 awesome friends