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Title: Is this guy attractive to me?
Post by: Megan on April 24, 2010, 08:44:25 PM
Post by: Megan on April 24, 2010, 08:44:25 PM
Well sometimes I feel like this guy is attracted to me, and sometimes not and it's just a professional relationship. He's gay, almost flamer type but not, and he's attractive enough for me. He probably thinks I could be gay, but I am straight at work. At least people assume that, since I do not mention sexuality at all.
Still he saids hi sometimes when he sees me, then he goes around and tells me, "You just can't do anything right" when I placing these papers on the wall and they fell and he was right there. Then he told me he wanted to speak to me after my lunch because of something bad I did, I never went to see him though since I was too busy with work. Then he was talking to me like I can't hear, so I told him "I heard her" and then he was like, "Well you been quiet all morning so I don't know if you're awake yet".
But he was the one who gave me the employee of the month a few months ago, so I'm thinking he's just doing it because he's teasing me and doesn't know how to interact with me because it's professional.
I am just so bored with life right now, and just want to start a relationship I guess. And I could be seeing things that aren't there. But I just want to open this relationship up now, if he is attractive to me.
Still he saids hi sometimes when he sees me, then he goes around and tells me, "You just can't do anything right" when I placing these papers on the wall and they fell and he was right there. Then he told me he wanted to speak to me after my lunch because of something bad I did, I never went to see him though since I was too busy with work. Then he was talking to me like I can't hear, so I told him "I heard her" and then he was like, "Well you been quiet all morning so I don't know if you're awake yet".
But he was the one who gave me the employee of the month a few months ago, so I'm thinking he's just doing it because he's teasing me and doesn't know how to interact with me because it's professional.
I am just so bored with life right now, and just want to start a relationship I guess. And I could be seeing things that aren't there. But I just want to open this relationship up now, if he is attractive to me.
Title: Re: Is this guy attractive to me?
Post by: Janet_Girl on April 24, 2010, 09:01:50 PM
Post by: Janet_Girl on April 24, 2010, 09:01:50 PM
If it a professional relationship, aka he is in a supervisory position to you, I would not enter into any relationship other than that. It could be trouble for you.
Title: Re: Is this guy attractive to me?
Post by: Lachlann on April 24, 2010, 09:45:20 PM
Post by: Lachlann on April 24, 2010, 09:45:20 PM
I doubt he is.
A relationship will come along eventually when you stop searching for it.
A relationship will come along eventually when you stop searching for it.