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Title: Crew cut = Butch?
Post by: aydan_boy on May 24, 2010, 08:02:59 AM
Post by: aydan_boy on May 24, 2010, 08:02:59 AM
I like my hair a lot, and pass a lot (the times i don't people just call me "it" or "Heshe") but i think its time for a change. My hair isn't that long right now, as you can see, but its very mussy, and turning into a mini mullet (The back is longer than the front. Damn hairdresser) I want to cut it into a crew cut, but according to a bud of mine, i will just look like a butch lesbo. Should i just trim my hair, or should i cut it into a crew cut? ???
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(How about the glasses? I just ordered a real pair that looks exactly the same, but now i'm doubting there masculinity)
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(How about the glasses? I just ordered a real pair that looks exactly the same, but now i'm doubting there masculinity)
Title: Re: Crew cut = Butch?
Post by: justmeinoz on May 24, 2010, 08:18:26 AM
Post by: justmeinoz on May 24, 2010, 08:18:26 AM
Having had a crew-cut, and than shaving it all off in a misguided attempt to hide myself, I would suggest taking it off a bit at a time until you are happy with the result.
Title: Re: Crew cut = Butch?
Post by: spacial on May 24, 2010, 08:20:04 AM
Post by: spacial on May 24, 2010, 08:20:04 AM
Your hair reminds me of a messy teenage boy. Personally, I rather like short hair, as long as it isn't shaped like a US Marine.
To be honest, your glasses send out a strong statement. Look at my glasses, not at me. They seem a little bold for your face, which is quite small.
Hope this is what you wanted. It is meant with absolute kindness.
To be honest, your glasses send out a strong statement. Look at my glasses, not at me. They seem a little bold for your face, which is quite small.
Hope this is what you wanted. It is meant with absolute kindness.
Title: Re: Crew cut = Butch?
Post by: aydan_boy on May 24, 2010, 08:41:17 AM
Post by: aydan_boy on May 24, 2010, 08:41:17 AM
Thank ya. I guess i do hide behind my glasses...but thats what i wear them for. I'm incredibly anxious and shy at times, so there my security blanket in a way. Maybe the next pair i buy i'll get smaller frames. Gotta stop hiding under my glasses.
Title: Re: Crew cut = Butch?
Post by: uni on May 26, 2010, 12:53:49 PM
Post by: uni on May 26, 2010, 12:53:49 PM
I like your hair but having it too big on all sides will make your face look smaller and this will make you look more feminine overall. I think the glasses suit your style well, I sure couldn't pull them off!
Title: Re: Crew cut = Butch?
Post by: Silver on May 26, 2010, 01:01:00 PM
Post by: Silver on May 26, 2010, 01:01:00 PM
Trim it, your hair looks bigger than your face.
Title: Re: Crew cut = Butch?
Post by: aydan_boy on May 27, 2010, 08:58:53 PM
Post by: aydan_boy on May 27, 2010, 08:58:53 PM
thank yas. Gunna get that hair cut into a faux hawk. At least then i can have short sides and keep some of the longer stuff at the same time.
Title: Re: Crew cut = Butch?
Post by: Arch on May 28, 2010, 02:19:18 AM
Post by: Arch on May 28, 2010, 02:19:18 AM
You look pretty boyish, but definitely cut the hair. And...I hate to say it, but I think you look more feminine with the glasses.
Title: Re: Crew cut = Butch?
Post by: Silver on May 28, 2010, 02:41:21 AM
Post by: Silver on May 28, 2010, 02:41:21 AM
The glasses are huge. But maybe I'm just biased. Note the size of glasses in my avatar photo.
Title: Re: Crew cut = Butch?
Post by: aydan_boy on May 28, 2010, 09:07:07 AM
Post by: aydan_boy on May 28, 2010, 09:07:07 AM
So I should lose the glasses :( KK. I shall. One must do, what one must do to achieve masculinity.
Glasses size noted. ;D lol. Definately biased. Maybe I'd be better with that size of frame? But i just can't stand fragile glasses.
Glasses size noted. ;D lol. Definately biased. Maybe I'd be better with that size of frame? But i just can't stand fragile glasses.
Title: Re: Crew cut = Butch?
Post by: Jeatyn on May 28, 2010, 11:11:29 AM
Post by: Jeatyn on May 28, 2010, 11:11:29 AM
I like the glasses, but I love chunky frames....*points to avatar* XD
I like your hair like that too, you look like a cuter version of a guy I used to date if you don't mind me saying so :P
I like your hair like that too, you look like a cuter version of a guy I used to date if you don't mind me saying so :P
Title: Re: Crew cut = Butch?
Post by: kyril on May 28, 2010, 12:54:45 PM
Post by: kyril on May 28, 2010, 12:54:45 PM
Crew cuts are usually bad for us (inherently, because they make our faces look extra-round, kind of like that one-length messy look you've got going on right now). Fauxhawks aren't inherently bad - they actually have a decent shape for us because they elongate the head - but they've been adopted as a lesbian style, so they're probably not a great choice.
Just go with some variation on the "shorter on the back and sides, longer on top" theme, in a style that you could fauxhawk if you wanted to but that doesn't require the 'hawk to look decent.
Just go with some variation on the "shorter on the back and sides, longer on top" theme, in a style that you could fauxhawk if you wanted to but that doesn't require the 'hawk to look decent.
Title: Re: Crew cut = Butch?
Post by: aydan_boy on May 29, 2010, 11:57:46 PM
Post by: aydan_boy on May 29, 2010, 11:57:46 PM
Jeatyn: Merci! I don't mind at all. Love ur glasses. Maybe i should go for more rectangular chunky look. Not as geeky femme looking as mine.
Sigh... and now i am utterly depressed. I went to a barber shop today, and told them to give me a trim, shorter sides and back, and i ended up looking like a porcupine. I want my shaggy, messy hair back. i look round faced now. So sad...sob...
The only sour/sweet thing i got out of this, is that they addressed me as sir, until they finished the dastardly cut, and then asked if i was in fact female. I did pass much better with my mop hair. Oh well, it grows fast. This time next month, it'll proably be close to normal...
Sigh... and now i am utterly depressed. I went to a barber shop today, and told them to give me a trim, shorter sides and back, and i ended up looking like a porcupine. I want my shaggy, messy hair back. i look round faced now. So sad...sob...
The only sour/sweet thing i got out of this, is that they addressed me as sir, until they finished the dastardly cut, and then asked if i was in fact female. I did pass much better with my mop hair. Oh well, it grows fast. This time next month, it'll proably be close to normal...