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Title: Good news. I feel so much better
Post by: Charles321 on May 28, 2010, 08:10:07 PM
Post by: Charles321 on May 28, 2010, 08:10:07 PM
I would cry every night about my problem but just held it in and in the morning I would feel better. BUt Thursday I must of met my breaking point. When I got to school I felt so sick to my stomach and could barely hold in my tears, and all my friends know I don't cry often especially in front of people. SO I asked my friend to come to the counseling office and after waiting for a little I just broke down. SO I talked to my counsel and it helped a little and we talked about telling my Dad. SHE said I can come back if I needed to and she will see me Tuesday to see how I was with my Dad. I was alright for 1 class but went back cause I didn't feel that I could tell my Dad. So we talked and she called my mom and she picked me up early and I talked with a person from church but it didn't help and my main problem was telling my Dad. I didn't go to school the next day cause I've made myself so stressed and sick. Im at My dads this weekend so I went to talk to him and my mom already told him which help and He was so helpful and good about it. He didn't try to beat me with the bible and stuff but still made me feel good with God. I'M going to counseling soon and getting help. I'M not stressed anymore and feel so much better about everything.
Title: Re: Good news. I feel so much better
Post by: DRAIN on May 28, 2010, 11:01:19 PM
Post by: DRAIN on May 28, 2010, 11:01:19 PM
that's great! I still haven't told my dad, it's definitely a scary thing. i'm happy things worked out so well for you charles! ;D
Title: Re: Good news. I feel so much better
Post by: Arch on May 28, 2010, 11:23:45 PM
Post by: Arch on May 28, 2010, 11:23:45 PM
Holding stuff in takes a gargantuan effort. I'm glad you're feeling better.
Title: Re: Good news. I feel so much better
Post by: Jamie-o on May 29, 2010, 01:45:55 AM
Post by: Jamie-o on May 29, 2010, 01:45:55 AM
9 times out of 10 the anticipation is worse than the actual event. :) I'm glad he took it well, and that you're feeling better. Congratulations on clearing a major hurdle.
Title: Re: Good news. I feel so much better
Post by: Charles321 on May 29, 2010, 01:47:21 PM
Post by: Charles321 on May 29, 2010, 01:47:21 PM
THAnks guys. Hope your able to to talk to your Dad sometime and all goes well DRAIN
Title: Re: Good news. I feel so much better
Post by: Berren on May 29, 2010, 03:00:13 PM
Post by: Berren on May 29, 2010, 03:00:13 PM
If your parents take it well, the feeling of relief is pretty amazing. I came out to my parents a bit over 2 weeks ago, and they seem understanding even if sceptical on the issue. It's great when parents are nice about it though, so congratulations! :)