Community Conversation => Transitioning => Coming out of the closet => Topic started by: Zrfm on June 25, 2010, 03:59:02 AM Return to Full Version
Title: Wrong To Be Male?
Post by: Zrfm on June 25, 2010, 03:59:02 AM
Post by: Zrfm on June 25, 2010, 03:59:02 AM
Yesterday I came out to my long distance, on and off girlfriend of two years. She basically told me if I wanted to live as a male she couldn't be with me and accused me of lying to her when I've only just come out to myself. She says she hates all men and that if I'm male I'll just hurt her.
The worst thing is she dumped me for a boy a few months ago and then wanted to get back with me.
Now she says she doesn't want to be with me because she fell in love with 'the old me'. How can I show her I'm still me? :embarrassed :'(
The worst thing is she dumped me for a boy a few months ago and then wanted to get back with me.
Now she says she doesn't want to be with me because she fell in love with 'the old me'. How can I show her I'm still me? :embarrassed :'(
Title: Re: Wrong To Be Male?
Post by: accord03 on June 25, 2010, 04:03:34 AM
Post by: accord03 on June 25, 2010, 04:03:34 AM
She's a complicated girl and just cause she's been hurt doesn't mean us men are all the same and will hurt her? She seems about her sexuality so ask her straight out what she is. Les? Bi? Straight? Make her understand or let her be. If she can't accept that you wanna become what you feel inside then she is just going to drag you down on your transition.