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Title: What would you do?
Post by: Laura Emily on July 06, 2010, 04:44:56 PM
Post by: Laura Emily on July 06, 2010, 04:44:56 PM
So as I've mentioned before, I live in Brampton, Ontario. As far as I can tell, there does not seem to be a LGBT community here. I don't really know anyone in Brampton and would like to get out and meet new people. There is an LGBT community in the neighboring city which is Toronto. I don't drive, though, which makes traveling difficult. I definately need to get out and meet people but it needs to be a positive experience. Any ideas, thoughts or suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks <3
Title: Re: What would you do?
Post by: Nigella on July 06, 2010, 05:10:30 PM
Post by: Nigella on July 06, 2010, 05:10:30 PM
Hi there,
I went to my gender clinic which was a two hour drive, I know you said you don't drive but there could be someone that could give you a lift. Attached to my gender clinic was a support group for mtf and ftm's. I made a couple ot good friends and see then on a regular basis for coffee, nights out and the occasional shopping spree, lol.
Also you could ask here if there are others from or near your area.
Nothing ventured nothing gained.
Stardust
I went to my gender clinic which was a two hour drive, I know you said you don't drive but there could be someone that could give you a lift. Attached to my gender clinic was a support group for mtf and ftm's. I made a couple ot good friends and see then on a regular basis for coffee, nights out and the occasional shopping spree, lol.
Also you could ask here if there are others from or near your area.
Nothing ventured nothing gained.
Stardust
Title: Re: What would you do?
Post by: Laura Emily on July 06, 2010, 05:16:50 PM
Post by: Laura Emily on July 06, 2010, 05:16:50 PM
I think it's a great idea. I have considered going to the group in Toronto. Unfortunately to get there, I'd have to get a ride with one of my co-workers directly after work as they get together on Monday and Thursday. This means going out after a hot sweaty day without a shower.. it's definitely a possibility but the thought of that irks me lol.
Title: Re: What would you do?
Post by: Kristyn on July 07, 2010, 04:37:22 PM
Post by: Kristyn on July 07, 2010, 04:37:22 PM
What's wrong with the GO Train?
Title: Re: What would you do?
Post by: Laura Emily on July 07, 2010, 05:36:26 PM
Post by: Laura Emily on July 07, 2010, 05:36:26 PM
Well by the time i get home and shower than catch the bus, I'd get down there just in time to turn around and come home. Both good ideas, though, if I didn't work so late. Thank you both kindly! <3
Post Merge: July 07, 2010, 05:45:54 PM
I did manage to find another LGBT that seems to do events during the week but also from time to time on the weekend. I might look into that one as saturdays are really the only day I can go out late.
Post Merge: July 07, 2010, 05:45:54 PM
I did manage to find another LGBT that seems to do events during the week but also from time to time on the weekend. I might look into that one as saturdays are really the only day I can go out late.
Title: Re: What would you do?
Post by: JennaLee on July 07, 2010, 07:13:34 PM
Post by: JennaLee on July 07, 2010, 07:13:34 PM
You might contact the group and ask if any of their members live near and wouldn't mind giving you a lift.
To get out you might do ordinary things like yoga, church, volunteer for something, help with charitable groups, or you might find a local college that offers evening classes.
btw
your pic looks great!
To get out you might do ordinary things like yoga, church, volunteer for something, help with charitable groups, or you might find a local college that offers evening classes.
btw
your pic looks great!
Title: Re: What would you do?
Post by: Colleen Ireland on July 10, 2010, 08:23:59 AM
Post by: Colleen Ireland on July 10, 2010, 08:23:59 AM
Laura, I suspect there are more of us around than we really know about. I, for instance, am also in the GTA. I'm only just barely starting out, though - I haven't done any serious dressing since I was 18 or so (mom's clothes), and I've been in denial for over 3 decades (married, 3 kids, see my thread in Introductions). I have met a really good mentor in the area and we're corresponding by email (I found her website). Maybe you and I could start an email correspondence? I definitely want to meet new girls, as I have a TON of questions and things I need to learn.