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Title: Introduction of Tom
Post by: Tom on July 14, 2010, 01:53:55 AM
Post by: Tom on July 14, 2010, 01:53:55 AM
Hello.
はじめまして。
私の名前はTomです。
My name is Tom, or so I'd like to be called. I am a young adult who is just starting the transition from female to male. I've only really told a small group but I've made the changes on Facebook. My family knows and the ones important to me too. As far as I know, they all accept me for it. But it's difficult for them and I don't expect them to know all the answers. That's when I met a new friend on Facebook and he showed me this. I can't believe how lucky I am to have found this much support and then to find more because I know, many aren't as lucky as me.
I have a lot of questions and I hope I can find as many answers as possible. I've taken a few steps already but I have a long ways to go yet. But I hope that, in others helping me, I can eventually help in return. I don't know what to expect but I'm excited and ready.
Thank you.
ありがとうございます。
どうぞよろしく。
はじめまして。
私の名前はTomです。
My name is Tom, or so I'd like to be called. I am a young adult who is just starting the transition from female to male. I've only really told a small group but I've made the changes on Facebook. My family knows and the ones important to me too. As far as I know, they all accept me for it. But it's difficult for them and I don't expect them to know all the answers. That's when I met a new friend on Facebook and he showed me this. I can't believe how lucky I am to have found this much support and then to find more because I know, many aren't as lucky as me.
I have a lot of questions and I hope I can find as many answers as possible. I've taken a few steps already but I have a long ways to go yet. But I hope that, in others helping me, I can eventually help in return. I don't know what to expect but I'm excited and ready.
Thank you.
ありがとうございます。
どうぞよろしく。
Title: Re: Introduction of Tom
Post by: aubrey on July 14, 2010, 02:28:14 AM
Post by: aubrey on July 14, 2010, 02:28:14 AM
That is the coolest name evar :)
Title: Re: Introduction of Tom
Post by: Tom on July 14, 2010, 02:31:48 AM
Post by: Tom on July 14, 2010, 02:31:48 AM
Thank you. ^^
See, Tom is my favorite name so I chose that. Then, when I talked to my mother about my transitioning, I told her she should choose my middle name(s) because that was her privilege so she chose Edward. And well, Quackenbush is another story. :) Hoorah for aliases!
See, Tom is my favorite name so I chose that. Then, when I talked to my mother about my transitioning, I told her she should choose my middle name(s) because that was her privilege so she chose Edward. And well, Quackenbush is another story. :) Hoorah for aliases!
Title: Re: Introduction of Tom
Post by: Eosophoros on July 14, 2010, 03:08:03 AM
Post by: Eosophoros on July 14, 2010, 03:08:03 AM
はじめまして、トムさん。僕の名前わイライ。どうぞよろしく。
I hope you can find the answers and support you're looking for here. I think these are some of the most open and accepting people on the Internet。 (I know, it's raising the bar from the floor... :P )
歓迎！
I hope you can find the answers and support you're looking for here. I think these are some of the most open and accepting people on the Internet。 (I know, it's raising the bar from the floor... :P )
歓迎！
Title: Re: Introduction of Tom
Post by: confused on July 14, 2010, 03:18:11 AM
Post by: confused on July 14, 2010, 03:18:11 AM
welcome dude , looking for answers, i think you found the perfect place , there are a lot of people with a lot of experience ahead of you , and there are a lot who you can help who you are ahead of them
Title: Re: Introduction of Tom
Post by: Cindy on July 14, 2010, 03:54:43 AM
Post by: Cindy on July 14, 2010, 03:54:43 AM
Hi Tom,
Welcome to another brother, Can't wait for the Quackenbush story :laugh: :laugh:.
I think you will find lots of cool guys, and of course very sexy ladies :embarrassed:. Here.
Have fun and welcome
Cindy
Welcome to another brother, Can't wait for the Quackenbush story :laugh: :laugh:.
I think you will find lots of cool guys, and of course very sexy ladies :embarrassed:. Here.
Have fun and welcome
Cindy
Title: Re: Introduction of Tom
Post by: Tom on July 14, 2010, 04:00:46 AM
Post by: Tom on July 14, 2010, 04:00:46 AM
You guys are awesome. I'm so happy to find so much support already and I've already learned a few things. ^^ Thanks a bunch!
Yeah, Quackenbush isn't as excited as it sounds story wise, lol. Random life story time! When I was born, my biological father was there, so he gave the doctors his last name, but after that, he was never there. So, the man who raised me and the one I call father is the one I use for my last name. So my user name is my dream name that I hope to get legally changed to at some point in the future. I put the whole thing because Tom was taken and well, I didn't wanna just leave it at 'Tom Edward'...it sounded silly. XP
All the ladies here are sexy and all the men are hot. Each is unique. This includes you Cindy. ;)
I love this site already. XD
Yeah, Quackenbush isn't as excited as it sounds story wise, lol. Random life story time! When I was born, my biological father was there, so he gave the doctors his last name, but after that, he was never there. So, the man who raised me and the one I call father is the one I use for my last name. So my user name is my dream name that I hope to get legally changed to at some point in the future. I put the whole thing because Tom was taken and well, I didn't wanna just leave it at 'Tom Edward'...it sounded silly. XP
All the ladies here are sexy and all the men are hot. Each is unique. This includes you Cindy. ;)
I love this site already. XD
Title: Re: Introduction of Tom
Post by: Janet_Girl on July 14, 2010, 08:38:23 AM
Post by: Janet_Girl on July 14, 2010, 08:38:23 AM
Hi Tom, :icon_wave:
Welcome to our little family. Over 5300 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another brother. :icon_hug:
And be sure to check out these links ( MUST READS )
Hugs and Love,
Janet
Welcome to our little family. Over 5300 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another brother. :icon_hug:
And be sure to check out these links ( MUST READS )
- Site Terms of Service and rules to live by (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html)
- Standard Terms and Definitions (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,54369.0.html)
- Post Ranks ( including when you can upload an avatar) (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,114.0.html.)
Hugs and Love,
Janet
Title: Re: Introduction of Tom
Post by: Tom on July 14, 2010, 11:59:47 AM
Post by: Tom on July 14, 2010, 11:59:47 AM
Thank you very much for those links. When I joined this forum, the first thing I did was read all the rules and such. But I wasn't sure how the ranking and posting work, so, now I know. ^^ I will keep all this in mind in the future so that I won't break any rules.
It's really nice to have a "family" like this as I have never had one. And I will say it's a great experience that I hope other new members will feel. :)
It's really nice to have a "family" like this as I have never had one. And I will say it's a great experience that I hope other new members will feel. :)
Title: Re: Introduction of Tom
Post by: LordKAT on July 14, 2010, 12:03:25 PM
Post by: LordKAT on July 14, 2010, 12:03:25 PM
Quote from: Tom Edward Quackenbush on July 14, 2010, 04:00:46 AM
All the ladies here are sexy ... Each is unique. This includes you Cindy. ;)
I love this site already. XD
Yup, she is. Welcome to the world of us.
Quackenbush...anything to do with the Marx brothers?
Title: Re: Introduction of Tom
Post by: Lacey Lynne on July 20, 2010, 12:00:32 AM
Post by: Lacey Lynne on July 20, 2010, 12:00:32 AM
Hey, Tom!
Man, we're always glad to have a transbrother on board!
Just looking at your pic, you're going to pass VERY well into guyhood, and you'll be a handsome dude. Best part is, you'll be YOURSELF. THAT'S what's really important.
One of the transmen I admire the most is named Jameson Green. (Hope I spelled that right.). He totally passes as a guy. He is very smart. He is very well-mannered. In other words, he embodies many of the best attributes of being a guy. I really admire him. Videos of him are on Calpernia and Adrea's websites.
Welcome, man. You express yourself very well. Glad to have you here.
:) Lacey Lynne.
Man, we're always glad to have a transbrother on board!
Just looking at your pic, you're going to pass VERY well into guyhood, and you'll be a handsome dude. Best part is, you'll be YOURSELF. THAT'S what's really important.
One of the transmen I admire the most is named Jameson Green. (Hope I spelled that right.). He totally passes as a guy. He is very smart. He is very well-mannered. In other words, he embodies many of the best attributes of being a guy. I really admire him. Videos of him are on Calpernia and Adrea's websites.
Welcome, man. You express yourself very well. Glad to have you here.
:) Lacey Lynne.
Title: Re: Introduction of Tom
Post by: Tom on July 20, 2010, 12:38:41 AM
Post by: Tom on July 20, 2010, 12:38:41 AM
Lacey Lynne,
Thank you very much. You literally made my day, I was kind of feeling a little down about my friends and family not taking me seriously but this makes me realize I have a lot more family here that does and cares about me. ^^
I'm really glad you think I pass well, that gives me strength and tells me I have less to worry about. And you're right, being myself is the most important part. :3
I'll check it out. Thanks for the info.
You're one of the nicest people that I've only just met. :) I'm glad you're here too.
Tom
Thank you very much. You literally made my day, I was kind of feeling a little down about my friends and family not taking me seriously but this makes me realize I have a lot more family here that does and cares about me. ^^
I'm really glad you think I pass well, that gives me strength and tells me I have less to worry about. And you're right, being myself is the most important part. :3
I'll check it out. Thanks for the info.
You're one of the nicest people that I've only just met. :) I'm glad you're here too.
Tom