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Title: Exciting newss :)
Post by: justme19 on July 23, 2010, 05:25:18 AM
Post by: justme19 on July 23, 2010, 05:25:18 AM
hehe well today I got a nice little phone call :) From my best friend :)
She said. "Hey we are having a girls night tomoz night, we going to have a movie then everyone is sleeping over at mine..... Just wondered if you wanted to come :)"
I almost cried I was that happy ;)
hehe If they are inviting me to there "girls night", they must know somthing's up righttt?
Anyways, I just thought I would share my awesomeee newsss :) :) :) Im so excited :D
She said. "Hey we are having a girls night tomoz night, we going to have a movie then everyone is sleeping over at mine..... Just wondered if you wanted to come :)"
I almost cried I was that happy ;)
hehe If they are inviting me to there "girls night", they must know somthing's up righttt?
Anyways, I just thought I would share my awesomeee newsss :) :) :) Im so excited :D
Title: Re: Exciting newss :)
Post by: rejennyrated on July 23, 2010, 05:38:49 AM
Post by: rejennyrated on July 23, 2010, 05:38:49 AM
Great news - I do hope you have fun.
but more than that I really do hope you can soon find the moment to have that little chat with your mum. You will feel so much better when you've done it I promise you. :)
Enjoy your night out.
but more than that I really do hope you can soon find the moment to have that little chat with your mum. You will feel so much better when you've done it I promise you. :)
Enjoy your night out.
Title: Re: Exciting newss :)
Post by: Myself on July 23, 2010, 07:12:08 AM
Post by: Myself on July 23, 2010, 07:12:08 AM
awesome :) have fun!
Title: Re: Exciting newss :)
Post by: lilacwoman on July 23, 2010, 01:00:23 PM
Post by: lilacwoman on July 23, 2010, 01:00:23 PM
hehe If they are inviting me to there "girls night", they must know somthing's up righttt?
Anyways, I just thought I would share my awesomeee newsss :) :) :) Im so excited :D
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wonderful news...enjoy...and take a big box of chocolates or whatever
Anyways, I just thought I would share my awesomeee newsss :) :) :) Im so excited :D
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wonderful news...enjoy...and take a big box of chocolates or whatever
Title: Re: Exciting newss :)
Post by: Debra on July 23, 2010, 06:57:35 PM
Post by: Debra on July 23, 2010, 06:57:35 PM
awesome girl! Yes I would HIGHLY suspect they know if they're inviting you to a girls night out and a sleepover.
Title: Re: Exciting newss :)
Post by: Alyssa M. on July 23, 2010, 07:33:21 PM
Post by: Alyssa M. on July 23, 2010, 07:33:21 PM
Oh -- you mean you're pre-transition? Awesome, yes, that would seem to suggest overtly announce they know what's up. Sounds like a good time to come out, if you're not already. Something like, "So, when did you figure it out, that I'm not really a guy?"
Anyway, have fun. That kind of inclusion after being excluded all you life is just such an incredible joy!
Anyway, have fun. That kind of inclusion after being excluded all you life is just such an incredible joy!
Title: Re: Exciting newss :)
Post by: Janet_Girl on July 24, 2010, 12:20:21 AM
Post by: Janet_Girl on July 24, 2010, 12:20:21 AM
go but also protect your heart. If these people have not been told, by you, then they could be ether curious or are setting you up. Just keep your options home open.
But also go and have fun with "the girls".
But also go and have fun with "the girls".
Title: Re: Exciting newss :)
Post by: justme19 on July 25, 2010, 12:09:55 AM
Post by: justme19 on July 25, 2010, 12:09:55 AM
Quote from: rejennyrated on July 23, 2010, 05:38:49 AM
but more than that I really do hope you can soon find the moment to have that little chat with your mum. You will feel so much better when you've done it I promise you. :)
Was a really awesome fun!!!!
About the talk with my mum, I doubt it's going to happen anymore, in the last 2 weeks my mum and I are just falling apart, we live in the same house and we have not spoken in like a day or so.... I have no idea what ive done, she just go real angry with me :(
Life goes on I guess.
Ohhh and by the way they were talking last night, they no :P
I did not go out and say it infrount of everyone, I want to tell my bestie 1st :)
Title: Re: Exciting newss :)
Post by: Samantha_Peterson on July 25, 2010, 01:00:34 AM
Post by: Samantha_Peterson on July 25, 2010, 01:00:34 AM
Quote from: justme19 on July 25, 2010, 12:09:55 AM
Was a really awesome fun!!!!
About the talk with my mum, I doubt it's going to happen anymore, in the last 2 weeks my mum and I are just falling apart, we live in the same house and we have not spoken in like a day or so.... I have no idea what ive done, she just go real angry with me :(
Life goes on I guess.
Ohhh and by the way they were talking last night, they no :P
I did not go out and say it infrount of everyone, I want to tell my bestie 1st :)
Sorry about your mom. Great news about your friends though ^_^
Title: Re: Exciting newss :)
Post by: rejennyrated on July 25, 2010, 02:24:50 AM
Post by: rejennyrated on July 25, 2010, 02:24:50 AM
Quote from: justme19 on July 25, 2010, 12:09:55 AM... and it doesn't occur to you that whilst everyone around you obviously knows or suspects something and by your own admission she outright asked you if there was something you wanted to share with her, you held out on her and refused to come clean?
in the last 2 weeks my mum and I are just falling apart, we live in the same house and we have not spoken in like a day or so.... I have no idea what ive done, she just go real angry with me :(
I would say its glaringly obvious what you've done! She knows you are holding out on her about something and it is upsetting her. A girls best friend is supposed to be her mum after all and friends share things. They don't lie and hold out on each other, say eveything is fine when patently it isn't!
Surely you are not missing the painfully obvious answer here? You can't be that determined to avoid this can you? Really? I still say tell her now.
Glad you enjoyed you night though - but put it to good use and use that fact as a conversation opener. :)
Title: Re: Exciting newss :)
Post by: Steffi on July 25, 2010, 11:55:45 AM
Post by: Steffi on July 25, 2010, 11:55:45 AM
Great progress, the night with the girls.
Support from a natal female or two can make a massive difference to your confidence and quality of life .... it does for me.
I think rejennyrated is right and that you need to tell your Mum.
Support from a natal female or two can make a massive difference to your confidence and quality of life .... it does for me.
I think rejennyrated is right and that you need to tell your Mum.