Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: Zrfm on September 23, 2010, 06:03:31 AM Return to Full Version
Title: So there's this guy :/
Post by: Zrfm on September 23, 2010, 06:03:31 AM
Post by: Zrfm on September 23, 2010, 06:03:31 AM
Yup, so today this guy at school asked me out. I'm out to a few of my friends at school but no everyone. He doesn't know.
The thing is I really like him, but I don't want to be someone's girlfriend and I don't really want to tell him I'm trans.
Anyone able to offer incite? :-\
The thing is I really like him, but I don't want to be someone's girlfriend and I don't really want to tell him I'm trans.
Anyone able to offer incite? :-\
Title: Re: So there's this guy :/
Post by: utouto on September 23, 2010, 06:21:10 AM
Post by: utouto on September 23, 2010, 06:21:10 AM
Would you be comfortable with saying that you're questioning?
If not, you could say you aren't ready for a relationship atm.
If not, you could say you aren't ready for a relationship atm.
Title: Re: So there's this guy :/
Post by: notyouraverageguy on September 23, 2010, 05:23:00 PM
Post by: notyouraverageguy on September 23, 2010, 05:23:00 PM
Just a suggestion..
Try being friends first, take your time.
Hang out with him around your friends who use your male name and male pronouns and see how he reacts.
Try being friends first, take your time.
Hang out with him around your friends who use your male name and male pronouns and see how he reacts.