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Title: my deepest regrets
Post by: jesse on October 19, 2010, 02:17:00 PM
i am deeply saddened by my ex's actions here we have been fighting alot recently and i never in my worst nightmares would have thought her capable of the recent post she has always known my my password since day one. not only was this a vile and decietful thing to do it has made me embarresed to face my own community after this i recieved no less then twenty phone calls in the middle of the night over this including from two of the people i dearly love ken and cindy because they were hurt by this post this is something i can never forgive her for. i am speaking with my attorneys about a restraining order today to prevent any further occurances i have also talked to susans staff about deleating this account and starting anouther or in the very least changing my pass word. the worst of it is she made light of a very real problem in our community. as far as claudette goes that is my sisters real name she is a sweet and loving person and would never do this it is because of her that i made it to adulthood to start with. the person responcible is my ex wife she is angry and very bitter with little understanding of the problems in our community and little desire to learn and as such i accept full responcibility for her actions i appologize to the members of this community for her actions and accept what ever reprocussions from susan and her staff that are deamed neccessary.
Ken and Cindy i love u both if it hadnt been for you and the others i would never have known she had done this or at least not for a while as i have not been on in a while.
jessica
Title: Re: my deepest regrets
Post by: Sarah Louise on October 19, 2010, 02:20:20 PM
We are just happy that you are ok.
Title: Re: my deepest regrets
Post by: Osiris on October 19, 2010, 02:21:51 PM
Thank you for being so quick to clear this up and we're just happy to know that you're alive and well. Do change your passwords and protect your accounts. If you need help with your susan's account I'm sure one of us mods can help you out.
Title: Re: my deepest regrets
Post by: jesse on October 19, 2010, 02:22:17 PM
thank you sarah
Title: Re: my deepest regrets
Post by: Dana Lane on October 19, 2010, 02:29:11 PM
Glad you are okay!
Title: Re: my deepest regrets
Post by: Janet_Girl on October 19, 2010, 02:35:58 PM
Hugs Jesse.  My number is listed in my profile if you should ever need to call.  We were a bit worryed about you, but I for one am glad you are still with us.

Hugs and Love Always.


And you shall suffer no repercussions because of her dumba$$ actions
Title: Re: my deepest regrets
Post by: rejennyrated on October 19, 2010, 02:37:06 PM
Jessica - so relieved to hear from you. Cindy Janet and I were all deeply concerned and phoning each other to try and find out what had happened.

If there is a positive to this then it is this: At least you now know the very great affection in which you are held by many on this site myself included.

So hey don't stay away so long in future ;) We do care about you!

Welcome back so to speak.

J. x.
Title: Re: my deepest regrets
Post by: Raven on October 19, 2010, 03:54:41 PM
Jesse, I know I don't know you but all the same I am glad that you are ok and alive and well. I hate that you ex wife is like that, I really do. *hugs*
Title: Re: my deepest regrets
Post by: xAndrewx on October 19, 2010, 04:02:44 PM
You have no reason to apologize for that foul woman. It is sad that a person can even find themselves capable of doing that. Just glad that you are okay. 
Title: Re: my deepest regrets
Post by: Octavianus on October 19, 2010, 04:34:36 PM
Your ex's message shocked us and we are very delighted to see you are doing well. Thank you for clearing it up and cleaning your dear sister's name.
Please don't apologize for her actions, you have absolutely no blame in this. A human heart is not something to play with, I wish people would  realize this.
Title: Re: my deepest regrets
Post by: Randi on October 19, 2010, 06:24:56 PM
Oh Jesse, I am so sorry about this. Dealing with family members who we don't want to hurt can be extrememly difficult and painful.
Love you Girl,
Randi
Title: Re: my deepest regrets
Post by: spacial on October 19, 2010, 06:51:23 PM
It's great to hear from you Jessica. I think we were all shocked and sad when whe heard it.

For me, the relief, discovering you are OK put a big smile on my face.

And now we have first hand experience of what you've been dealing with.

I'm sure if you change your password, that will be enough. If I may can I suggest you use a phone number you know well?
1=i 2=z 3=e 4=4 5=s 6=b 7=7 8=8 9=q 0=o

Now, how about some posts telling us what you've been doing since last May!!
Title: Re: my deepest regrets
Post by: Squirrel698 on October 19, 2010, 07:57:01 PM
We have never talked but I like seeing your icon around here from time to time. 

Words can not express how glad I am knowing that you are all right!  Also how sorry I am with what you have to deal with.

Stay strong.   :)

 
Title: Re: my deepest regrets
Post by: Sandy on October 19, 2010, 08:17:03 PM
Jessie:

My spirits are lifted immensely knowing that you are alright!  You are one of our family and we were very upset to hear of this terrible thing.

Please do not feel embarrassed because of the actions of your ex.  Cruel and petty people such as her can only vex you.  Do what you need to do to draw that part of your life to a close and look forward with hope to the rest of your life.

And please convey my apologies to Claudette, in whose name your ex chose to guise herself.  Obviously your ex was too cowardly to even use her own first name.  My tirade was pointed specifically at your ex and not in any way at your sister.

Your description of your sister makes her sound like someone who is a great ally and would be a friend to all of us should she choose to come here.  Please let her know that we love her for her support and love for you.

Anyway, it is now in the past and nothing more can be done about it.  Go forward and make more posts!!!

-Sandy 
Title: Re: my deepest regrets
Post by: Muffin on October 19, 2010, 08:20:45 PM
*shock*......... I was in shock from the other post and now....again! I'm glad to hear you are ok and yeah I did find it strange that your "sister" referred to you as a he/brother but figured she had her reasons... I'm so happy to hear that you are ok and it was just an evil very evil prank. *hugs*.
...*shock*.
Title: Re: my deepest regrets
Post by: cynthialee on October 19, 2010, 09:11:20 PM
Delighted that you are alive.
Title: Re: my deepest regrets
Post by: Hermione01 on October 19, 2010, 09:21:13 PM
So relieved you're okay Jesse.  :)

Title: Re: my deepest regrets
Post by: LordKAT on October 20, 2010, 12:02:53 AM
Jessica,

You have no idea how relieved I am that you are still around and kicking. Your ex is evil for what she did and in no way should you take the blame for her actions. I had a bad time until I read that you were actually OK. Thank you for posting so that we all know you are here.

Love ya girl
Title: Re: my deepest regrets
Post by: Cindy on October 20, 2010, 12:35:29 AM
My Dear Jessica,

You have nothing to apologize for. I have never been so totally overjoyed to be woken by a phone at 3am  :laugh:. I called Janet and Jenny and tried to call Ken but couldn't through to him, sorry Ken.

But what a relief.

And what beautiful people are at Susan's.

Now if I only had shares in Kleenex I could have made a profit out of last night :laugh:

Love and Hugs my Sister

Take care

Cindy

Title: Re: my deepest regrets
Post by: pebbles on October 20, 2010, 11:56:54 AM
I would only be echoing what everyone has already said but I'm extremely glad your okay :) I know we haven't had a big dialouge I do read your posts jesse. I was in a foul mood all day when I was told you'd died, hopefully now I will be in a good mood all day :D
Title: Re: my deepest regrets
Post by: Kev on October 21, 2010, 12:57:27 PM
Yeah, I was relieved to hear you're okay as well. Such a message is always a shock, even if you don't know the person any further.