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What do you girls do to fell most feminine or to get that girly boost?

Well, personally, I'm still in the VERY earliest stages of exploring my femininity, but so far, getting rid of all my "male fur" was by FAR the most powerful thing for me.  Getting a pair of breastforms and a bra is a close second - oh, and proper wigs!  And makeup!  Dunno...

For me at this stage, just opening my eyes in the morning does it for me.  I am living my life as a woman, so I am feminine when I get up

I'd say it's a pretty dress and heels for me. Having my hair and makeup done professionally, along with a nice mani-pedi, too. Julie and I have gone out to a couple of formal events, and I think we both had a great time looking our best.

Occasionally, we have to fend off the attention of guys, and I suppose that's a feminine ego booster as well. We're pretty good, at this point, at swatting flies! :laugh:

Looking in the mirror and realising that even though I shaved 5 days ago and though there is hair there and i hate it, that there really isn't that much there at all. That makes me feel really feminine.

Hair removal, whether it be from my face and neck, or my body. I love the feel of my skin: soft, free of hair. Every week in between electrolysis sessions, I don't shave my face and neck, but even though I can see the hair, it's all blond and not so visible. Huge confidence boost.

FLIRT!  ;D

I tend to only do this when I am low,
My breasts lactate...If I am down I go into the bathroom and dump the milk from my boobs. I get an incredible lift emotionaly. An oxtosin blast to be sure.
Seeing milk come out of my breasts just completely confirms to me I am actively transitioning. Lactation is a female thing, so it confirms my feelings.
(ps; do not worry about me lactating. All the women in my family are lactating regardless of having a child or not. Most just a light amount like me and some of them have heavy lactation. Neat family trait, which before my transition I was unaware of.)

I always feel girly. But a shower helps to revitalize me. It gives me a boost when I get done and see myself all clean with my hair all done.

Hmm... Being called madam sure does help, whatever the reason is.

Doing my hair kind of feels good, too.

Quote from: MsSaneJane on November 14, 2010, 01:41:59 PM
What do you girls do to fell most feminine or to get that girly boost?

Just maybe after been to a hair stylist, getting my hair done and manicure treatment for my nails, then a nice little shopping  for that little special dress and maybe cute shoes, makes me feel feminine and gives me that girly boost, sometimes hubby gives me a girly boost when he gives me lingerie for Christmas, I'II look forward to that little girly boost in a few weeks, it might be just a pretty babydoll negligee with matching panties, whatever my surprise is, it will be girly and feminine and it will give me a big girly boost wooohooo!
Pauline

Putting on my favourite dangley ear rings

In a dress.

Caroline

Being called Madam or miss and an assortment of other terms... in Spanish!?  :D
I think Señor(it)a beats Ma'am any day of the week  :P ;D

Well,the first time I put on high heels I almost "fell" femininely  ;). Actually, I guess wearing the combination of heels, hosiery and a dress or skirt certainly helps for me. I think the more you look feminine, the more feminine you'll feel. Wearing a feminine perfume can help, too. I always try to involve most of the 5 senses-- sensation, appearance, smell and sound. Once you've immersed yourself in femininity, you can't help but feel very feminine.

Lyric

Getting Flowers from my fiance, and not on a special day, just because...

Bubble bath. Face mask. Do my make-up etc and dress up in my best clothes for no special reason. Always make me feel feminine and also very calm and relaxed. :)  If I do it for a reason it's nice and all but it's better not having a reason imho.

What makes me feel feminine is being me. I have been living the real me for more than two years and HRT for more than a year so everyhting about me is feminine. Plus every one I know addresses me as me the woman known as Jalene.