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Okay...so what are your dreams, hopes and wishes for the year ahead?

To still be alive at the end of it. To finally be on T and even though i wont have had surgery to have a body that feels more like mine should. To get out of debt. But most of all to be happy

I'm aiming for... moving to Florida, which would be a lot closer to my mother, losing weight and getting fit, and purging my life of people who only cause me harm. On top of that, just enjoy life with my fiancée and live. :)

Hmm my dream would be getting out of Florida and getting Top Surgery. Also to get a job and find an awesome dog. :)

My dream for 2011 is to start T, get fit and lose a heap of weight, save up enough money for top surgery, be more positive about life, get my teeth fixed, and going out more and having fun.

I totally NEED to leave my family's house, find a job, start T and have lots of facial hair. LOL

To be alive to enjoy 2012, to get that transsexualism diagnosis, to match the outside with the inside. 2011 is the Year of Elias. No more fakery, no more lies, nothing of the sort. I'm me.

To be called she/Britney by everyone, especially my family and friends. :(
To be 140lbs (I'm guessing that's a good goal weight for me. I'd just like a flat stomach)
To have hair down to my butt :( If this happens, its not gonna be real lol :(
To get boobs asap
To change my name legally to Britney
To get a new id with a cute female looking picture so I don't get funny looks when being carded
To make more friends and possibly get a boyfriend =/
To get my face cleared in electrolysis
To keep my job after changing my name
To come out to my extended family eek!
To not worry about what I look like as much as I do now.
To spend less time being negative
To make a shorter list of dreams. ;)

Graduate uni with a 2:1
Look for a job at least temporary retail one to get money or good prospects in biology. If I do that I should try and go stealth ;)
Leave my mothers house
Hopefully the NHS will finally refer to me to the GIC
Kill off all or nearly all my facial hair through electro.

Umm that's about all I can do.
It's life lol I'm just improvising I have no goddamn clue what I'm doing!!
Rule 1 Go where my heart has to.
Rule 2 Survive
Rule 3 Try to enjoy yourself.

Start T.
Save more money for top surgery.
Do well in my new job so that they renew my contract when it ends.

Finally get my name changed.
Work out and get bigger.
Come out to everyone I've been afraid to tell until now.
Get a car again.
Start saving for top surgery.
Be more independent and assertive.
Stop letting people disrespect me and my choice to transition.

I want to spend more time with friends who actually care about me, and attempt to survive my school with a decent enough grade (despite depression) to go to university on a scholarship.

I also want to be called "him" and "his" by at least a few people, and stand up to the parts of my family that hate me for being a guy. 

Oh, and get up the guts to play Singularity on XBOX360. :)

start t
get a better job
move out of my parents house
go on a vacation
eat more candy
play more video games

Start training and being active again, so I can become a lean mean fighting machine.
Become a drum-set master and improve my vocals. Be an all around better musician.
Save money for what I want/need. Maybe get a job.
Keep up my grades. Major in music business when I get accepted to college.
Possibly go into therapy?
Be happy!

-Family Acceptance
-Learning to be a better gentleman
-Get on T
-Put on more muscle/lose fat
-Chest
-Continue to get good grades

Get into the best shape possible.
Go see a neurologist and if that goes well get my drivers licence.
Switch majors again and get my GPA back to at least 3.5.
Look into getting a lipo breast reduction. Won't give me the chest I want, but it will make life easier for me. Insurance will probably cover it, and someone will be around to help me out.

Quote from: Zacharias on January 01, 2011, 12:35:18 PM
I'm aiming for... moving to Florida,

Quote from: Andrew Scott on January 01, 2011, 12:41:27 PM
Hmm my dream would be getting out of Florida

Could you not just swop?  :P

Sorry, I tried really hard not to post that but reading those two posts next to each other got too much  >:-)

Have a repeat of 2010 with the addition of getting in a bit better shape. Had a great year, knock on wood and look forward to next.
Cheers
Myles

Start T, get in shape, change my documents to male and become more confident and comfortable with myself.

Okay, you asked about DREAMS.

My DREAM:  To be fully accepted by my wife, who would say that she wants to stay married, and would love me no matter what.

Reality - things that WILL happen this year:  Laser/Electro, Start HRT, Legal name change, start full-time RLE.  Much joy, many tears.

Things that Might happen: Separation.

In 2011 my dream is to get on T, work on getting my letters for top surgery and improve my credit so that I can qualify for a carecredit loan for the surgery.  I also hope to go back to school in the fall and maybe start dating again once I'm more comfortable in my own skin.

Too lose a lot of weight, get top surgery and get a job.

To stick to my diet
Lose my love handles
Continue my hormone regiment and hopefully get facial hair
Change my name and gender marker
Become more financially savvy

new car
new job

My dream is, if I'm still here by this time next year:
To be on T and on a waiting list for chest surgery.
To be much happier with, and closer to my family, who will be using male pronouns and my chosen name.
To be even more in love with my boyfriend!
To be earning a good salary in a job I enjoy.
To be living in a decent flat/ house.
To be more confident and assertive.
To be enjoying playing my musical instruments again.

And I can make those dreams happen, if I work hard...

My dream is to find myself and finally come to a place on the gender spectrum where I feel comfortable.   

Quote from: Alex201 on January 02, 2011, 12:28:54 PM
My dream is to find myself and finally come to a place on the gender spectrum where I feel comfortable.   

One of the most important dreams anyone can have and I'm sure you will. This will be a good year.  :)

-Graduate and start studying for the PCAT
-Become a certified pharmacy technician and find a job doing that
-Come out to my family and friends/start full time
          -Be recognized as "he" and "Lee"
-Move to Portland and find an apartment there hopefully as stealth
-Become comfortable as a lead for dancing
-Start T

Right now, the only really defined goal I have it that I will be out by the end of this year. I hope it'll be soon, before my birthday at least (which is July,) but I've been saying that for a while now so I don't quite know. But I'm really starting to feel like it's got to happen soon, so there you go. And if all else fails, I'll post it on facebook next New Year's Eve!

I just want to be able to go out in public and feel comfortable with the way I look.
I want to find a hairstyle that doesn't make me feel uncomfortable and that makes me look male.

Overall, I want to appear confident.

Get into a good college, do well there. Have friends by the end of the year. Build an art portfolio. Gain social confidence. Pass all the time. Chest surgery, if I really let myself dream. And stubble, and decent abs.

If I let myself dream more, I want some of my writing published, to have my grandmother accept me, to have my father's side of the family accept me, and to actually feel psychologically well and stable, for once.

this is going to be a buffer year for me,I'm not going to do much other then transition, make art and get a new job. Like getting rid of all my demons and unwanted pronounces once and for all.
oh and study something new.