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Title: Hello everyone!
Post by: toxicblue on January 14, 2011, 11:21:11 AM
Post by: toxicblue on January 14, 2011, 11:21:11 AM
Hello! I just recently found this site on google (trying to look up hairstyles, oddly enough) and thought this would be a cool place to check out. I'm Alyssa, MtF, just starting my transition (which means I still look like a guy and all, unfortunately) though I've gotten pretty good progress on my voice. I love anime, love reading sci fi and fantasy, and listen to all kinds of music from electronic to indie. So yeah, I dunno how to end this soo, hi everyone!
Title: Re: Hello everyone!
Post by: xAndrewx on January 14, 2011, 11:25:56 AM
Post by: xAndrewx on January 14, 2011, 11:25:56 AM
Welcome to the site Alyssa :icon_wave:
Title: Re: Hello everyone!
Post by: Naari on January 14, 2011, 11:37:05 AM
Post by: Naari on January 14, 2011, 11:37:05 AM
Hi Alyssa! ;D
Title: Re: Hello everyone!
Post by: Miniar on January 14, 2011, 11:42:38 AM
Post by: Miniar on January 14, 2011, 11:42:38 AM
Yo and welcome.
Seeing as you're thinking of hairstyles I'll refer to your handle and suggest you dye your hair blue and leave it at that.. that's what I did. ;)
Seeing as you're thinking of hairstyles I'll refer to your handle and suggest you dye your hair blue and leave it at that.. that's what I did. ;)
Title: Re: Hello everyone!
Post by: sweetie87 on January 14, 2011, 12:24:37 PM
Post by: sweetie87 on January 14, 2011, 12:24:37 PM
Hi Alyssa, welcome here :) Good luck with starting your transition.
Title: Re: Hello everyone!
Post by: Janet_Girl on January 14, 2011, 12:26:41 PM
Post by: Janet_Girl on January 14, 2011, 12:26:41 PM
Hi Alyssa, :icon_wave:
Welcome to our little family. Over 5000 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another sister. :icon_hug:
And be sure to check out these links ( MUST READS )
Hugs and Love,
Janet
Welcome to our little family. Over 5000 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another sister. :icon_hug:
And be sure to check out these links ( MUST READS )
- Site Terms of Service and rules to live by (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html)
- Standard Terms and Definitions (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,54369.0.html)
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- Age and the Forum (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,62197.msg405545.html#msg405545)
Hugs and Love,
Janet
Title: Re: Hello everyone!
Post by: toxicblue on January 14, 2011, 08:24:19 PM
Post by: toxicblue on January 14, 2011, 08:24:19 PM
Thanks for the welcome everyone! And thanks for those links, I was wondering where the edit profile section was.
Haha... if only my job would allow that. I'm thinking of dying it some kind of red/blonde though. (i'm a brunette)
Quote from: Miniar on January 14, 2011, 11:42:38 AM
Yo and welcome.
Seeing as you're thinking of hairstyles I'll refer to your handle and suggest you dye your hair blue and leave it at that.. that's what I did. ;)
Haha... if only my job would allow that. I'm thinking of dying it some kind of red/blonde though. (i'm a brunette)
Title: Re: Hello everyone!
Post by: Mrs Erocse on January 14, 2011, 08:37:38 PM
Post by: Mrs Erocse on January 14, 2011, 08:37:38 PM
Hi Toxicblue. Welcome to the site. This is a cool place with allot of caring, wise and supportive people. Look forward to your posts.
Hugs.
Mrs Erocse
Hugs.
Mrs Erocse
Title: Re: Hello everyone!
Post by: Jacquelyn on January 15, 2011, 01:49:42 AM
Post by: Jacquelyn on January 15, 2011, 01:49:42 AM
Welcome to Susan's Alyssa!
This site is ripe with all the support and knowledge you could possibly need in your transition. :)
I look forward to reading more from you!
Hugs,
Jackie
PS. I love Indie music as well. :D :D :D
This site is ripe with all the support and knowledge you could possibly need in your transition. :)
I look forward to reading more from you!
Hugs,
Jackie
PS. I love Indie music as well. :D :D :D
Title: Re: Hello everyone!
Post by: Lee on January 15, 2011, 09:47:28 PM
Post by: Lee on January 15, 2011, 09:47:28 PM
Hey Alyssa, welcome to the site. Good luck with the hair. :)
Title: Re: Hello everyone!
Post by: Jillieann Rose on January 15, 2011, 11:38:09 PM
Post by: Jillieann Rose on January 15, 2011, 11:38:09 PM
Hello Alyssa,
It's good to meet you.
This is a great place and hopefully another step in your transitioning.
Susan's has loads of info about gender issues and is a great support site.
There are lots of good caring people here who are in all of the phases of transitioning.
Welcome to Susan's.
Jillieann
It's good to meet you.
This is a great place and hopefully another step in your transitioning.
Susan's has loads of info about gender issues and is a great support site.
There are lots of good caring people here who are in all of the phases of transitioning.
Welcome to Susan's.
Jillieann
Title: Re: Hello everyone!
Post by: JaceColton on January 15, 2011, 11:49:18 PM
Post by: JaceColton on January 15, 2011, 11:49:18 PM
Howdy from one Newbie to another!
Title: Re: Hello everyone!
Post by: kaLeY on January 16, 2011, 12:55:39 AM
Post by: kaLeY on January 16, 2011, 12:55:39 AM
Hey Alyssa!
Welcome to the forums!
I'm also pretty new here and just wanted to say Hi! :)
Ohh, and how have you been working on your voice?? Any tips? I'm finding it pretty challenging!
Welcome to the forums!
I'm also pretty new here and just wanted to say Hi! :)
Ohh, and how have you been working on your voice?? Any tips? I'm finding it pretty challenging!
Title: Re: Hello everyone!
Post by: ClaireA on January 16, 2011, 01:03:40 AM
Post by: ClaireA on January 16, 2011, 01:03:40 AM
Hey Alyssa! Welcome to the forums! Starting your transitioning? Same here!
Another music fan? Yay! I'd probably have a new car, a full wardrobe, house, etc. with all the money I spend on CDs...
Avril Lavigne = favorite
Quote from: toxicblue on January 14, 2011, 11:21:11 AMI love anime, love reading sci fi and fantasy, and listen to all kinds of music from electronic to indie.
Another music fan? Yay! I'd probably have a new car, a full wardrobe, house, etc. with all the money I spend on CDs...
Avril Lavigne = favorite
Title: Re: Hello everyone!
Post by: toxicblue on January 16, 2011, 10:52:21 PM
Post by: toxicblue on January 16, 2011, 10:52:21 PM
Wow, this is way more posts than I expected, thanks everyone!
Well, I've looked up a lot of tutorials on youtube, especially from the user candiFLA. Basically, you start by talking really high, and kinda like falsetto (where your voice sounds like a boy cartoon character), then squeeze that till it gets a different, more feminine tone. Then just keep working on that, trying to lower and relax it over time, recording yourself, testing different strategies, and making sure the bottom part of your voice is barely vibrating. It takes weeks or months for some (about three or four months for me), and it just takes lots of practice. And drinking water when it hurts, taking breaks. Fair warning though, my voice cracks when I speak like a guy now, so I try to speak in more of a high pitch so that my high range doesn't totally get screwed up.
And about the CD thing, I know! It's so hard to stop collecting them... Especially when you get spoiled by used bookstores and amazon where everything is super cheap. >_<
Quote from: Jacquelyn on January 15, 2011, 01:49:42 AM=O You're awesome!
PS. I love Indie music as well. :D :D :D
Quote from: kaLeY on January 16, 2011, 12:55:39 AM
Hey Alyssa!
Welcome to the forums!
I'm also pretty new here and just wanted to say Hi! :)
Ohh, and how have you been working on your voice?? Any tips? I'm finding it pretty challenging!
Well, I've looked up a lot of tutorials on youtube, especially from the user candiFLA. Basically, you start by talking really high, and kinda like falsetto (where your voice sounds like a boy cartoon character), then squeeze that till it gets a different, more feminine tone. Then just keep working on that, trying to lower and relax it over time, recording yourself, testing different strategies, and making sure the bottom part of your voice is barely vibrating. It takes weeks or months for some (about three or four months for me), and it just takes lots of practice. And drinking water when it hurts, taking breaks. Fair warning though, my voice cracks when I speak like a guy now, so I try to speak in more of a high pitch so that my high range doesn't totally get screwed up.
Quote from: ClaireA on January 16, 2011, 01:03:40 AMAvril is pretty good. In that style of music, I prefer MCR though. xD
Another music fan? Yay! I'd probably have a new car, a full wardrobe, house, etc. with all the money I spend on CDs...
Avril Lavigne = favorite
And about the CD thing, I know! It's so hard to stop collecting them... Especially when you get spoiled by used bookstores and amazon where everything is super cheap. >_<
Title: Re: Hello everyone!
Post by: SilverShadow on January 18, 2011, 01:15:45 PM
Post by: SilverShadow on January 18, 2011, 01:15:45 PM
Welcome to the forums, Alyssa. :)
Thanks for the voice tips. ;) And btw, another music lover here, so I totally know what you guys mean about the CDs... :D If I had any money to spend, it'd probably be the same for me. ;D
Thanks for the voice tips. ;) And btw, another music lover here, so I totally know what you guys mean about the CDs... :D If I had any money to spend, it'd probably be the same for me. ;D
Title: Re: Hello everyone!
Post by: Fuji on January 18, 2011, 05:57:03 PM
Post by: Fuji on January 18, 2011, 05:57:03 PM
Hi Toxicblue! I'm new here too. I noticed that Nitorin is your avatar! Isn't it wonderful that there's a serious anime about transgendered teens airing right now? I wonder if earlier generations would have ever thought there would be a cartoon regarding transgendered people as anything but a punch-line! The second episode airs tonight, I'm so excited!
Sorry to geek out at you in your introduction post! I hope your transitioning is a comfortable and wonderful as it can be, and that you are treated well for the rest of your life.
Welcome and best wishes,
Fuji
Sorry to geek out at you in your introduction post! I hope your transitioning is a comfortable and wonderful as it can be, and that you are treated well for the rest of your life.
Welcome and best wishes,
Fuji
Title: Re: Hello everyone!
Post by: annette on January 18, 2011, 07:46:10 PM
Post by: annette on January 18, 2011, 07:46:10 PM
Hi Alyssa
welcome to the forum.
I see the first step is made, you sure have a beautifull name.
And making progress with your voice, very smart to do that, voice is so important.
I hope you will have a smooth start with the transition.
hug
annette
welcome to the forum.
I see the first step is made, you sure have a beautifull name.
And making progress with your voice, very smart to do that, voice is so important.
I hope you will have a smooth start with the transition.
hug
annette
Title: Re: Hello everyone!
Post by: toxicblue on January 18, 2011, 10:56:23 PM
Post by: toxicblue on January 18, 2011, 10:56:23 PM
Quote from: SilverShadow on January 18, 2011, 01:15:45 PM
Welcome to the forums, Alyssa. :)
Thanks for the voice tips. ;) And btw, another music lover here, so I totally know what you guys mean about the CDs... :D If I had any money to spend, it'd probably be the same for me. ;D
No problem! And music just has that ability to manipulate you... doesn't it? D=
Quote from: Fuji on January 18, 2011, 05:57:03 PM
Hi Toxicblue! I'm new here too. I noticed that Nitorin is your avatar! Isn't it wonderful that there's a serious anime about transgendered teens airing right now? I wonder if earlier generations would have ever thought there would be a cartoon regarding transgendered people as anything but a punch-line! The second episode airs tonight, I'm so excited!
Sorry to geek out at you in your introduction post! I hope your transitioning is a comfortable and wonderful as it can be, and that you are treated well for the rest of your life.
Welcome and best wishes,
Fuji
=O I was waiting for someone to notice where it was from! Yeah, I totally love that show. And... second episode is tonight? I thought it was Thursdays... cause Crunchyroll has it thursdays at 12pm. I think? Oh well.
And thanks for the kind words. =]
Quote from: annette on January 18, 2011, 07:46:10 PM
Hi Alyssa
welcome to the forum.
I see the first step is made, you sure have a beautifull name.
And making progress with your voice, very smart to do that, voice is so important.
I hope you will have a smooth start with the transition.
hug
annette
Thank you! =]
Title: Re: Hello everyone!
Post by: Fuji on January 18, 2011, 11:50:33 PM
Post by: Fuji on January 18, 2011, 11:50:33 PM
Ha ha, you're right, I got Tuesdays and Thursdays confused. Imagine my sadness when I turned on the TV tonight and it said I had to wait two days! Weep! I think I can hold out until then!