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Title: New to forums, been visiting chats here and there for a while
Post by: Ms Bev on January 04, 2007, 11:44:23 PM
I've been coming to Susans for a while now, mostly to the chats, and think it's time to formally say hi to everyone.
What can I say about me?  Well, I am mtf ts, identify as lesbian, and have been married to the same lovely woman for decades.  What can I say?  She adores me, as I do her, and I didn't 'formally' come out to her until recently.  Long talks, tears, embraces followed.  She is my foundation, soulmate, lover, and best friend.  Been on hrt for two years this Jan 13th, but only started the spiro about 8 months ago.  For an 'old lady', I don't look half bad. 

I've kept my old favorite saying:  'If you're skating on thin ice, you might as well dance'

Enjoy the dance of life folks, for it can be fragile
Bev
Title: Re: New to forums, been visiting chats here and there for a while
Post by: Suzy on January 05, 2007, 08:18:32 AM
Bev,

I think a lot of people can identify with your story.  I look forward to hearing more.

Welcome!

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Title: Re: New to forums, been visiting chats here and there for a while
Post by: Steph on January 05, 2007, 08:31:22 AM
Quote from: Bev on January 04, 2007, 11:44:23 PM
I've been coming to Susans for a while now, mostly to the chats, and think it's time to formally say hi to everyone.
What can I say about me?  Well, I am mtf ts, identify as lesbian, and have been married to the same lovely woman for decades.  What can I say?  She adores me, as I do her, and I didn't 'formally' come out to her until recently.  Long talks, tears, embraces followed.  She is my foundation, soulmate, lover, and best friend.  Been on hrt for two years this Jan 13th, but only started the spiro about 8 months ago.  For an 'old lady', I don't look half bad. 

I've kept my old favorite saying:  'If you're walking on thin ice, you might as well dance'

Enjoy the dance of life folks, for it can be fragile
Bev

Hey there Bev.

Welcome to Susan's.  I can totally relate to what you have said, and congratulate you on making things work.  It's tough but facing this thing we are together makes life so much easier.  Again Welcome to Susan's Bev, I look forward to your participation.

Take care.

Steph
Title: Re: New to forums, been visiting chats here and there for a while
Post by: Jillieann Rose on January 07, 2007, 12:19:11 AM
Hi Bev,
:icon_geekdance: :icon_geekdance:
I'm dancing.  ;D
If your look for friends and or information about gender issues this is the place.
Please read the site rules if you haven't at:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html) if you haven't already.
Then check out the Wiki, with ton of info on the gender topics. Oh and check out our chat and links section too. Have a great read.
Welcome to Susan's.
:) :)
Jillieann and JR
Title: Re: New to forums, been visiting chats here and there for a while
Post by: cindianna_jones on January 07, 2007, 12:24:00 AM
Welcome to the dance!

Cindi
Title: Re: New to forums, been visiting chats here and there for a while
Post by: Brianna on January 07, 2007, 12:34:43 AM
Indeed. Commence dance dimension X. :)

Seriously, though bev. We've talked a lot in #chat. Welcome to the other side here in the forums.

The pathology of transsexualism when a marriage is interjected into it is that much more complex. Best of luck figuring out a COA.

Bri-lala

Title: Re: New to forums, been visiting chats here and there for a while
Post by: HelenW on January 07, 2007, 10:49:35 AM
Welcome to the Forums, Bev!

I hope I'll be reading alot more posts from you, hon'.

again, WELCOME ! !  :)
helen
Title: Re: New to forums, been visiting chats here and there for a while
Post by: Julie Marie on January 07, 2007, 01:31:39 PM
Welcome Bev.  It's so nice to hear about relationships that make it past the TG part.  You're very lucky and obviously very appreciative.

Julie
Title: Re: New to forums, been visiting chats here and there for a while
Post by: jamie lee on January 07, 2007, 09:30:46 PM
Welcome to the form Bev, I'm sure you'll enjoy it here !
Jaamie Lee
Title: Re: New to forums, been visiting chats here and there for a while
Post by: SusanKay140 on January 08, 2007, 10:53:12 PM
Hello Bev,

Welcome to the forums.  I'm too slow to keep up the pace on the chats, so I hang out where I can painfully compose my thoughts.  Probably painful both ways!  ::)  I hope to visit with you again here.

Susan Kay