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I bought a packer from Good vibrations a couple of months back. I really like the way it looks and everything like that  8) However whenever I wear it, it feels kinda hard. Maybe I dont know how to pack it in properly or position it. Then again I dont know how soft a flaccid penis really is :P How do you wear a packer without creating a huge bulge and hardness! The one I have is about 4 inches.

Hmmm...well honestly, the packer I have is rather squishy! I don't think it feels as firm as a real dick would, even when soft. But lots of guys say their packer passes the "squeeze test" so you'll probably be okay. I think mine is a 5 inch model, but my jeans aren't super tight so it doen't look obscene or anything in my pants. I usually wear the balls part in a modified pair of girl underwear or an elastic harness, then put the shaft down one pants leg. It doesn't look bulge-y. Most guys put it off to one side or the other, or sometimes straight up if it's the 3 inch packer. The bulge is usually created when you put the shaft down right over the balls, or your harness is sitting in the wrong place. Just experiment and I'm sure you'll get it.  :)

I hope to be getting a packer soon too, if I can work it all out, 'cause it's just too expensive for me to have it ship to Croatia. I'm still debating the small vs. mini...Hmm...but, hey, either would work, I'm sure. :)

okydoky: i dont no how old u r, but if u r thinking of gettin a 3 inch one deff dont cuz my frend had one and it looked like a boner whenever he used it.

Quote from: Lance M. on February 04, 2011, 12:01:48 AM
i also advocate for the 3 incher...i got the 5 inches hoping it would compensate, lol, but it always looked like i have an erection. so next time, just the 3 inch my limpy for me. overall i was happy with it other than the size.

His post was rather hard to understand because of his awful grammar and spelling, but the post above you was saying not to get the 3 inch and I agree.  It tends to just stick out at about a 90 degree angle from the balls creating a 3 inch bulge straight out making it appear like you have a hard on.  The 5 inch does not have this problem.  It tends to hang much better in my opinion. 

Personally, the 3.5 inch one is best, not many flaccid ones 5 inches and over. I never had a problem with it looking like a large bulge at all.

Tight boxers are win for this :P lol
They keep it in place.

i tried tight boxers with mine but it kept moving around. i ordered a harness but it hasnt come yet. so ill c how that goes

I find that my 3 inch packer works well for me. The bulge is just enough for me to be comfortable. I have the same 4 inch packer as the OP, but I find it to be rather large. The bugle I get from it is too large and too stiff. I end up fearing I look like I have a hard on.

In the end I think the whole size deal depends on the person's overall body size and comfort.

i got the harness and it works incredibly well. im a small kid but i had 2 get the 5 inch cuz my frend got the 3 inch from the same company and sez it looks like a boner. so the 5 inch works pretty well hopefully ill kinda grow into it.

Damn, everyone's responses are so varied. I think I'll have to experiment with a few homemade packers of various sizes and see how it works... However, if we were to judge by true average penis sizes.. for soft packing 3-4 inches should work for the majority, and 5-6 inches for hard packing...

For me, taking all this into consideration it'd be awesome to get one of those prosthetic/glue-on ones that are pack-and-play but maybe around 5 inches - not way too small for play, and also not huge for packing. But that's a whole other topic and a matter of years until I'll be able to afford something like that, unfortunately.

i have herd of the glue-on ones but i wondered if they hurt your skin? cuz i woodnt want that 2 happen 2 me.

Hmm..I wouldn't personally know, but I definitely don't recall ever seeing someone say they hurt. I've heard complaints of being too heavy, too big, too shiny, not realistic, the glue not being strong enough, but no pain. So far, the best bet to me (as far as realism and glue go) seems to be the one from the FX reelmagic store. I just wish they had a smaller one. But hey, by the time I get the money, they probably will :D I mean, 6" (their smallest) isn't bad for play, but for packing? Too big.

Hey guys! My fiancee is a FTM transman. We have currently been dating 6 months today, and have been engaged for about a month now. (: I read a lot of comments on how many of you feel like you are looking "bulgy" with only a 3 inch packer. This may be because your pants are really tight in certain areas or that you aren't positioning it right. It takes practice, but don't give up! My fiancee wears a 5 inch packer and it looks bulgy in certain jeans but for all of you who are wondering: GAP jeans or American Eagle jeans look GREAT and won't bulge you! He use to wear a harness but as our relationship furthered, he quit wearing it and just wore it right inside his regular boxers. His STP still worked great and he's been feeling really great about himself! I'm really seeing to see if I can find any good glue-on ones, anybody have any good sites? Also, don't worry about packing and playing! Find yourself the right woman and it won't matter. I know that for us, we can use his soft packer for play if we are really in the mood.. Changing just feels.... not right for him. & It may not for a lot of you!! (: If you guys ever need ANY advice or to talk to anyone, I'm always here. Having a straight woman's opinion is always great, right?
Love,
J Webb (:

Hey jwebb welcome to Susan's  :icon_wave: Feel free to do an introduction in the intro section :) Always happy to hear of an accepting SO. Congrats on the engagement! I haven't been able to afford a glue on packer or pack and play yet but the sites I hear of are REELMAGIK, Lola Jake, and Likereal. The REELMAGIK really isn't meant for that but some guys say it works perfectly so I don't know. Good luck finding one that is right :) If your boyfriend happens to find one he loves we would all love a review :) See ya around the forum

Hi jwebb, im currently looking for a better pack and play device.  I totally understands how he feels to change from pack to play when ur getting 'in the mood' it really kills it, well i really hate it too.  So im looking for something me and my long term GF can you without having to break away to go 'change'....i dont mean to be nosy but could you tell me the name of your fiancee's packer that u also use for play....i just dont wanna lay out a load of money for something that might not be worth it, and as im sure ur aware there are so many variations its hard to know what to choose.
thanks    :D

Quote from: bikerglz1 on January 22, 2013, 03:18:24 PM
Hi jwebb, im currently looking for a better pack and play device.  I totally understands how he feels to change from pack to play when ur getting 'in the mood' it really kills it, well i really hate it too.  So im looking for something me and my long term GF can you without having to break away to go 'change'....i dont mean to be nosy but could you tell me the name of your fiancee's packer that u also use for play....i just dont wanna lay out a load of money for something that might not be worth it, and as im sure ur aware there are so many variations its hard to know what to choose.
thanks    :D

Seeing as jwebb only ever made the one post and that was almost 2 years I don't think you're going to be getting a response.  I'd suggest using the search to see if someone's answered your question, or if you can't find anything posting a topic of your own.

If you want a cheap packer that isnt too big and doesnt look like you have a boner, get the 4" sailor. If you have a little more money, go with the RM basic packer.
Both of those are slightly firmer than a regular flaccid penis but they too firm. I had a cis guy feel mine and he said it was a little harder than his but not by too much.

I have a modified Mr Softie packer that's been modified to be an STP. I have the 5" model, and I don't find it too large. I definitely wouldn't go any larger, but, with a cis-guy giving me a few hints on where to put it, it fits pretty well. Takes some getting used too, though!