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Title: So, I came out to my closest friend today :)
Post by: SarahElls on February 09, 2011, 11:44:45 PM
Post by: SarahElls on February 09, 2011, 11:44:45 PM
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Post by: Tracy Stevens on February 10, 2011, 12:36:55 AM
Post by: Tracy Stevens on February 10, 2011, 12:36:55 AM
That is so cool.
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Post by: Lee on February 10, 2011, 01:07:10 AM
Post by: Lee on February 10, 2011, 01:07:10 AM
I'm glad it went well :)
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Post by: Colleen Ireland on February 10, 2011, 05:32:03 AM
Post by: Colleen Ireland on February 10, 2011, 05:32:03 AM
Oh, Sarah, I'm so HAPPY for you! That is truly remarkable.
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Post by: tiffany leung on February 10, 2011, 06:20:44 AM
Post by: tiffany leung on February 10, 2011, 06:20:44 AM
Congratulations! But then, have you and your girlfriend/partner's relationship changed afterwards? I mean, is she seeing you differently than before?
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Post by: annette on February 10, 2011, 06:59:23 AM
Post by: annette on February 10, 2011, 06:59:23 AM
Hi Sarah
This is what we called true love.
It's all about the person.
hugs
annette
This is what we called true love.
It's all about the person.
hugs
annette
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Post by: Emmanuelle on February 10, 2011, 08:36:13 AM
Post by: Emmanuelle on February 10, 2011, 08:36:13 AM
wonderful indeed :icon_dance:
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Post by: Christy Edwards on February 10, 2011, 11:46:44 AM
Post by: Christy Edwards on February 10, 2011, 11:46:44 AM
Wonderful to hear!! Wish there were more understanding people. I am blessed too, my wife loes me for who I am....Hugs...........
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Post by: blair on February 10, 2011, 11:56:34 AM
Post by: blair on February 10, 2011, 11:56:34 AM
Yay that's awesome! I'm very happy for you. :)
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Post by: Rachael on February 10, 2011, 12:57:39 PM
Post by: Rachael on February 10, 2011, 12:57:39 PM
that is so awesome, im happy for you and the great road that lies ahead together.
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Post by: otransist on February 10, 2011, 02:34:38 PM
Post by: otransist on February 10, 2011, 02:34:38 PM
That is wonderful! I hope the both of you have a wonderful journey!
Gemma
Gemma
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Post by: Maddie Secutura on February 10, 2011, 02:39:45 PM
Post by: Maddie Secutura on February 10, 2011, 02:39:45 PM
That's pretty cool! You'll find most of your friends won't care whether you look male or female.
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Post by: Miss Natasha Cleaver on February 11, 2011, 09:51:48 AM
Post by: Miss Natasha Cleaver on February 11, 2011, 09:51:48 AM
That is absolutely wonderful! So long as both of you are being totally honest with each other about the situation......it is an amazing story. It will be a tough road, for both of you. There are two sets of family, friends, work, etc. that are effected by this change. I am sorry, I am not trying to be a negative nancy, just practical. Actually, I am a little envious :). Having her support during your journey will be A++++! WAY TO GO!
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Post by: Debra on February 11, 2011, 03:00:57 PM
Post by: Debra on February 11, 2011, 03:00:57 PM
Quote from: SarahElls on February 09, 2011, 11:44:45 PM
After a lot of deep thinking for the last few weeks and talking on here, I decided to come out to the girl I'm in love with, two days ago. She told me it didn't matter one bit who/what my body was, she loved me even more knowing this. :)
Sooooooo.... That was really awesome. :) :) <3
awwwwwwww <3 <3 <3
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Post by: Colleen Ireland on February 14, 2011, 08:39:40 PM
Post by: Colleen Ireland on February 14, 2011, 08:39:40 PM
Aww... {{{{{{{{{{{{{{SarahElls}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
A good friend of mine once said, "There is no good time or bad time, there is only the Right time." The tricky thing is, it's almost NEVER possible to know WHEN is "the right time". You can only go with your gut. Another thing I've learned is that people's reactions change over time. The initial reaction is not likely the final reaction - people go through stages. And you can't ever really predict the outcome. So don't blame yourself, you did what felt right. It's not about timing, it's just how things happen. And it really, really sucks sometimes. Hugs, girl, be strong.
A good friend of mine once said, "There is no good time or bad time, there is only the Right time." The tricky thing is, it's almost NEVER possible to know WHEN is "the right time". You can only go with your gut. Another thing I've learned is that people's reactions change over time. The initial reaction is not likely the final reaction - people go through stages. And you can't ever really predict the outcome. So don't blame yourself, you did what felt right. It's not about timing, it's just how things happen. And it really, really sucks sometimes. Hugs, girl, be strong.
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Post by: Lee on February 14, 2011, 08:42:37 PM
Post by: Lee on February 14, 2011, 08:42:37 PM
Oh sarah, I'm sorry to hear that. I hope this eventually leads you down an even happier path.