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i am so friggen angry. I have a room mate who is such a disrespectful, ignorant and down right rude!!! I have bunnies...and one thing that you need to watch out for with bun buns as pets is something called GI Stasis, where the ribbit cant pass fecal matter, well, one way to see, is to look at their poop...with three bun buns running around its kinda hard to tell whos poop is who's. So you quarentine the suspect bun bun and wait to see a piece of poop, no poop is bad news as that tells you that you neeed to give bun bun medication.....even if poop pellets are abnormally small that can indicate the begin ning of GI Stasis....well every timne I try to quarentine roger (one of my 3) this ignorant prick lets him out of the caged area BEFORE he poops, saying,"oh look at that poor baby, hes sad and lets him out" this prick is going to kill my bun bun with ignorance, I want to smash his head open.....serio\usly!! not to mention the fact that i buy groceries and ut them aeway in the kitchen h\intending certain things to last more than just one day...oh no not him, hell get a mixing bowl pour 3 quarters of a brand new box of cereal into it and use almost a half gallon of milk,,,,,,gee how thoughtful....or how he NEVER washes his hands coming out of the bathroom, and thenn he'll want to go into the kitchen and put his hand in a brand new loaf of bread.....reminder to myself,,,,,DONT eat ANY bread.......i want to hurt this fool,,,BAD!!!! omg that is one reason i am venting here..............and I dont want to hear ladylike this or that or whatever, my testosterone level is 7, so you know what, uh uh,,,,,,women smash people too so can I
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He sounds like he thinks he is doing you a favor with him as a roommate.. get rid of him fast..

I can relate to that.  Im a student living in an apartment with one roommate and he is a total pain in my ass! We were friends when we moved in with each other and when we first moved in, i did my best to be a good roommate and I even cooked food for him to be nice.  I also am the one who brought EVERYTHING to the house, dishes, pots and pans, coffee maker, broom, lights, clock, art for the walls, and food for the first week.

You know what he has contributed to the apartment? a vacuum that literally doesn't suck up anything, and a trash can.

one time I asked him if i could have some of his food, and he said NO.  I got pissed, and told him that was uncool of him because I had been feeding him dinner with MY FOOD, and you know what that SOB said? he said "I didnt ASK you to cook me dinner"  well, after that I never gave him any of my food again, ungrateful prick.

Now he never locks the door when he walks in, he leaves lights on and wastes electricity, he plays loud football games and invites this really annoying friend over all the time and that guy sleeps on the couch.  this guy comes over even when my roommate doesn't want him over and my roommate will let him and his friends in and then go to bed! leaving me to be the responsibility of his friends.

he never takes out the garbage, which is his job to do, while I have to sweep the kitchen, wipe the counters, and do the dishes.

whenever i clean something, and tell him that he therefor owes me, he says "well i didnt ASK you to clean it"

he used to have a puppy and he made ME walk it, he said "do you want poop on YOUR carpet?" and the dog would ->-bleeped-<- and pee everywhere and bark all the time and attack my cat and my roommate never did anything about it.

he doesn't put his dishes away in the dishwasher, and he sets them out expecting me to put them in for him, i feel like his mother.

he has the sensitivity of a 10 year old girl, and when i got mad at him for not taking the trash out after I told him to do it all week, he got mad at ME for being mad at im, and he told me I was mean.

I feel like i am living in a house where I am the parent and he is the 13 year old kid.

im sure I have forgotten tons of other things he does, but this is really adding to my stress, and its a student apartment, so i cant just replace him, i am stuck with him for another 6 months till my lease is out, after that i am gone and off to find a single.

sorry to de-rail your thread here superkitty, i guess the talk of roommates got me into a fluster, i suppose i should copy this text and ask a thread about it myself, get some advice.

Well SK, if a) you are living in a gang hood, and b) hate your roommate, then you can solve BOTH problems by being the one to move.

And if you have two really good friends, then the best way to break up that friendship is to make them roommates.

Quote from: Elijah on February 13, 2011, 03:26:56 PM
I can relate to that.  Im a student living in an apartment with one roommate and he is a total pain in my ass! We were friends when we moved in with each other and when we first moved in, i did my best to be a good roommate and I even cooked food for him to be nice.  I also am the one who brought EVERYTHING to the house, dishes, pots and pans, coffee maker, broom, lights, clock, art for the walls, and food for the first week.

You know what he has contributed to the apartment? a vacuum that literally doesn't suck up anything, and a trash can.

one time I asked him if i could have some of his food, and he said NO.  I got pissed, and told him that was uncool of him because I had been feeding him dinner with MY FOOD, and you know what that SOB said? he said "I didnt ASK you to cook me dinner"  well, after that I never gave him any of my food again, ungrateful prick.

Now he never locks the door when he walks in, he leaves lights on and wastes electricity, he plays loud football games and invites this really annoying friend over all the time and that guy sleeps on the couch.  this guy comes over even when my roommate doesn't want him over and my roommate will let him and his friends in and then go to bed! leaving me to be the responsibility of his friends.

he never takes out the garbage, which is his job to do, while I have to sweep the kitchen, wipe the counters, and do the dishes.

whenever i clean something, and tell him that he therefor owes me, he says "well i didnt ASK you to clean it"

he used to have a puppy and he made ME walk it, he said "do you want poop on YOUR carpet?" and the dog would ->-bleeped-<- and pee everywhere and bark all the time and attack my cat and my roommate never did anything about it.

he doesn't put his dishes away in the dishwasher, and he sets them out expecting me to put them in for him, i feel like his mother.

he has the sensitivity of a 10 year old girl, and when i got mad at him for not taking the trash out after I told him to do it all week, he got mad at ME for being mad at im, and he told me I was mean.

I feel like i am living in a house where I am the parent and he is the 13 year old kid.

im sure I have forgotten tons of other things he does, but this is really adding to my stress, and its a student apartment, so i cant just replace him, i am stuck with him for another 6 months till my lease is out, after that i am gone and off to find a single.

sorry to de-rail your thread here superkitty, i guess the talk of roommates got me into a fluster, i suppose i should copy this text and ask a thread about it myself, get some advice.

Oh yeah I feel you!!!!  There is MANY things this hillbilly does  that is so gross and foul and..........................gggggggggggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Quote from: tekla on February 13, 2011, 03:36:24 PM
And if you have two really good friends, then the best way to break up that friendship is to make them roommates.

yes. 

Quote from: superkitty036 on February 13, 2011, 03:38:57 PM
Oh yeah I feel you!!!!  There is MANY things this hillbilly does  that is so gross and foul and..........................gggggggggggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

And that sucks- I'm sorry.  Have you clearly explained to him that removing your bunny could kill it?  Because if he's aware of that, GET RID OF HIM!  That sounds sociopathic to me- that or he can't be bothered to remember anything important to anyone else, which is still incredibly selfish.

Unfortunately, I have more experience in this situation coming from the other side as I tend to be absent minded and messy.  However, it was never anything as bad as what you described.  I do know that communication was a big factor in most of the situations.  Once, I literally sat my roommate down seven times and asked her what was wrong.  Each time she said nothing, so I just kept doing my thing.  It turned out she wanted me to clean more.  If she had just said that the first time I confronted her everything would have been a lot easier, but instead she kept doing passive aggressive stuff.  This is the example that makes me look better since she was immature, but this pattern has repeated itself in my life. 

Basically, I have no intention of pissing off my roommates, but I just really struggle to notice things around me- and I do try.  For me, communicating to my roommates that I know that I can be messy and aloof, and that I'm trying to be more aware of the things in my environment that matter to other people, but I still fail sometimes, and they should calmly correct me when I do, has helped.  My point is, he may be completely different than me, but some people who seem to not give a ->-bleeped-<-, actually do, they just suck at it for various reasons. 


Anyway, roommates suck.  Go punch a pillow or something.  :P