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Title: how often
Post by: wheat thins are delicious on February 22, 2011, 09:25:32 PM
Post by: wheat thins are delicious on February 22, 2011, 09:25:32 PM
How often do you pack? Which packer do you have? Do you find a packer with built in stp is easier or harder to pack with? How do you hold it in place?
Title: Re: how often
Post by: ty.to.the.man on February 22, 2011, 09:33:32 PM
Post by: ty.to.the.man on February 22, 2011, 09:33:32 PM
well for me i barely ever pack because i am a girl in school and stuff, but i do wen i travel. i have a DJ's STP packer and i love it! i also have a harness from toolshedtoys.com so i can wear boxers or loose breifs.
Title: Re: how often
Post by: Nygeel on February 22, 2011, 09:36:12 PM
Post by: Nygeel on February 22, 2011, 09:36:12 PM
I pack once a month or less. I have the extra small/mini soft pack from babeland, and a long one from DJ Knows Dick as an STP. The STP is harder to pack with because it's bigger and I have to figure out a place to put the spoon part. I've had the spoon fall off before. I have a harness made of elastic. It's one large loop which fits my hips and a small one for the packer's shaft.
Title: Re: how often
Post by: Carson on February 22, 2011, 09:48:21 PM
Post by: Carson on February 22, 2011, 09:48:21 PM
I used to pack all day everyday. I had a gv soft pack and then a likereal. I never really used an stp as I didn't really see the point. Now I don't pack at all.
Title: Re: how often
Post by: Fuji on February 22, 2011, 10:00:48 PM
Post by: Fuji on February 22, 2011, 10:00:48 PM
I pack all day everyday- comes in the shower with me and goes to bed with me. I use the Mr Limpy/Softie Extra Small. No STP, not yet. I stick it in my undies and hold it in place when I pull them down. Seeing and feeling it there is mostly what I need at the moment, so it's sufficient.
Title: Re: how often
Post by: Sharky on February 22, 2011, 10:01:57 PM
Post by: Sharky on February 22, 2011, 10:01:57 PM
I don't pack. When ever I tried I would just forget it was there. So it didn't make me more comfortable with myself or anything. I would only invest in a STP if I was going to be in a situation where I had to stand to pee. Having realistic fake dicks around the house makes me more uncomfortable than just dealing with what I have.
Title: Re: how often
Post by: rexgsd on February 22, 2011, 10:06:46 PM
Post by: rexgsd on February 22, 2011, 10:06:46 PM
i pack 24/7, sleeping and everything (ive noticed its actually helped me sleep better too, since ive always had problems sleeping). i have a 3.5'' softpack from babeland. i have a travelmate too i use for an stp, but i am getting a gear guy b.u.d. to use with my packer i should be getting soon, i cant wait. right now i hold my packer in place with a certain layering of underwear, but i also ordered a harness with the b.u.d. so ill be using that soon instead =)
Title: Re: how often
Post by: Michael Joseph on February 22, 2011, 10:07:59 PM
Post by: Michael Joseph on February 22, 2011, 10:07:59 PM
I have a home made condom hairgel packer. I used to pack way more often, now just if I'm going to the club or if I feel like I need to that day, idk why the change.
Title: Re: how often
Post by: Lee on February 22, 2011, 10:42:27 PM
Post by: Lee on February 22, 2011, 10:42:27 PM
I pack pretty much 24/7 with the mini from babeland without a harness. I feel really uncomfortable without it.
Title: Re: how often
Post by: Elijah3291 on February 22, 2011, 10:54:34 PM
Post by: Elijah3291 on February 22, 2011, 10:54:34 PM
i dont pack but i do have a 3.5 vanilla packer just in case
ive found that packing just gets in the way of using my p style (stp) when I need to pee, and its just uncomfortable and rubs me the wrong way
ive found that packing just gets in the way of using my p style (stp) when I need to pee, and its just uncomfortable and rubs me the wrong way
Title: Re: how often
Post by: xAndrewx on February 23, 2011, 02:55:15 PM
Post by: xAndrewx on February 23, 2011, 02:55:15 PM
I have a 5" packer but I don't pack really at all because I don't have a harness and it won't stay put no matter how tight the briefs I wear with it are.
Title: Re: how often
Post by: Devyn on February 23, 2011, 03:58:12 PM
Post by: Devyn on February 23, 2011, 03:58:12 PM
I only pack at home, partly because I don't have an actual packer yet. I pack with socks. Haha. I guess I'm not that helpful with this question.
Title: Re: how often
Post by: Liam K on February 23, 2011, 05:47:27 PM
Post by: Liam K on February 23, 2011, 05:47:27 PM
I pack about half the time. It depends on what pants I'm wearing and how I'm feeling about my body on any given day. Some days packing makes the dysphoria better, and some days it makes it worse. I have a 3.5 inch packy, which is what i use most of the time. I also have a 5-inch GV soft pack, which I've tried to modify as an STP to use with the GoGirl (which is the only thing I've tried so far that I've actually been able to use successfully). Unfortunately, though, I haven't figured out a way to wear it against my body that doesn't create an enormous bulge, so I don't really use that one.
Title: Re: how often
Post by: Wolf Man on February 23, 2011, 05:58:56 PM
Post by: Wolf Man on February 23, 2011, 05:58:56 PM
I pack off and on. While I would very much like to have something there all the time, I don't. Sometimes I can't make it look decent enough for my personal comfort. I also refuse to pack when the red flood comes along. :icon_blah: I pack with a mini soft pack, 3.5 inches, and use a self made, cloth elastic strap that I saw someone use on YT. While I have a 4inch GV packer, I dislike the size because it always looks massive in my pants.
Title: Re: how often
Post by: okydoky on February 23, 2011, 08:47:19 PM
Post by: okydoky on February 23, 2011, 08:47:19 PM
Quote from: Devyn on February 23, 2011, 03:58:12 PM
I only pack at home, partly because I don't have an actual packer yet. I pack with socks. Haha. I guess I'm not that helpful with this question.
I also pack with socks (my newly-won packer is on its way to me :D), however I pack on a regular basis. I just pick a pair that ends up looking realistic to my eyes when in my briefs and it just stays there for the whole day. I don't have problems with movement even when running - we'll see how much more difficult that is with the little guy that should be arriving soon :D (it's a 4" GV packer)
Title: Re: how often
Post by: Mr.Hyde on February 24, 2011, 03:57:05 AM
Post by: Mr.Hyde on February 24, 2011, 03:57:05 AM
I don't pack almost at all, I've tried socks, condom gel packers, etc but I couldn't make them enough comfortable. I want a soft mini to be able to pack with tight pants... Man I love tight pants but if you got nothing packing the girls go like "it looks like there's.... something... missing". ;D
Title: Re: how often
Post by: Morgan on February 24, 2011, 08:12:34 PM
Post by: Morgan on February 24, 2011, 08:12:34 PM
I pack all day every day, except at night when I'm asleep because I don't sleep with clothes on. I tuck it into the little pocket that is in the front of briefs/trunks/boxer briefs and it stays there just fine. I've thought about buying or making a strap for it so I don't have to wear tight underwear, but I don't really like the idea of it.
I have the tiny pink packer that early2bed sells. It's whichever one is cheapest. I made it into a STP (here's the link on how to make that STP Evolution and How To (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=74Fix6C4vX8#noexternalembed) ) but I took it out because I kept sitting on the medicine spoon and it hurt and I couldn't situate it at a urinal, I'd have to stick my hands down my pants which.. looks rather weird.
... I think that answered everything :D
I have the tiny pink packer that early2bed sells. It's whichever one is cheapest. I made it into a STP (here's the link on how to make that STP Evolution and How To (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=74Fix6C4vX8#noexternalembed) ) but I took it out because I kept sitting on the medicine spoon and it hurt and I couldn't situate it at a urinal, I'd have to stick my hands down my pants which.. looks rather weird.
... I think that answered everything :D
Title: Re: how often
Post by: Ryno on February 24, 2011, 08:30:38 PM
Post by: Ryno on February 24, 2011, 08:30:38 PM
I was packing every day for a while but lately I've been busy with moving and finding a job and ->-bleeped-<-, my mind's just been in too many places to remember small things like putting on my penis. But I feel SOO much better when it's in there. I like the bulge. I like feeling it there. I seem more confident with it. Hell, I've even gotten off by jerking it off. I love my packer.
I started out with a 5" Mr. Softie from Toolshedtoys, but it uh, fell out at a gay club. The bouncer kicked me out, coatless and without telling my friends, and obviously, I never got my packer back. So my buddy, being such an incredible buddy, bought me a new one, a 3.5" Mr. Softie, and a harness for it.
I'm not really that fond of the harness itself but I like the way it hold it in place as opposed to when I've got tightie whities on and it bobs around and ends up balls up. I hate briefs too so the harness is perfect for boxers.
I'm going to be packing more often, but not 24/7. I'm scared I'll like, rip it apart in my sleep, and it'll get really gross....
OH! And I'm saving up for a Reelmagik prosthetic packer. They look soo ->-bleeped-<-ing real, and they can come with pubes that match your own. And as far as I've heard, the adhesive doesn't fail.
I was at the gym one day and this guy was like, buck naked next to me in the change room. He had a massive dick. And the reel magik dicks come pretty big. It would be nice to be able to be seen that nekkid in a change room and not have guys freaking out.
:)
I started out with a 5" Mr. Softie from Toolshedtoys, but it uh, fell out at a gay club. The bouncer kicked me out, coatless and without telling my friends, and obviously, I never got my packer back. So my buddy, being such an incredible buddy, bought me a new one, a 3.5" Mr. Softie, and a harness for it.
I'm not really that fond of the harness itself but I like the way it hold it in place as opposed to when I've got tightie whities on and it bobs around and ends up balls up. I hate briefs too so the harness is perfect for boxers.
I'm going to be packing more often, but not 24/7. I'm scared I'll like, rip it apart in my sleep, and it'll get really gross....
OH! And I'm saving up for a Reelmagik prosthetic packer. They look soo ->-bleeped-<-ing real, and they can come with pubes that match your own. And as far as I've heard, the adhesive doesn't fail.
I was at the gym one day and this guy was like, buck naked next to me in the change room. He had a massive dick. And the reel magik dicks come pretty big. It would be nice to be able to be seen that nekkid in a change room and not have guys freaking out.
:)
Title: Re: how often
Post by: Andy on February 24, 2011, 08:36:09 PM
Post by: Andy on February 24, 2011, 08:36:09 PM
I pack pretty much all the time except at work or around my family. A lot of my dysphoria is in "that" area, so I find it important to be able to STP and JO at any old time, and just generally have that happy part in my pants to keep the rest of me happy! I use DJs STP and find it very comfortable. GF likes the bulge as well, so it's all GOOD! :D
Title: Re: how often
Post by: ty.to.the.man on February 24, 2011, 09:47:17 PM
Post by: ty.to.the.man on February 24, 2011, 09:47:17 PM
not to hijack this thread but,
ryan D i have a question: i was looking at the reel magik packer and i agree it looks amazing, but how do you pee? cuz its attached to u down "there" and thers no STP.
ryan D i have a question: i was looking at the reel magik packer and i agree it looks amazing, but how do you pee? cuz its attached to u down "there" and thers no STP.
Title: Re: how often
Post by: GnomeKid on February 25, 2011, 10:39:43 AM
Post by: GnomeKid on February 25, 2011, 10:39:43 AM
I pack for about 2 hours 2 or 3 times a week because I take jiu jitsu and with such close contact I feel like one should probably pack. I wear a pair of briefs with the packer situated balls in and dick in the sort of y front pocket it stays pretty well, but for extra support I'll wear some of the shorter square cut boxer-briefs with no opening in front.
Title: Re: how often
Post by: HarryP on February 25, 2011, 12:02:45 PM
Post by: HarryP on February 25, 2011, 12:02:45 PM
I pack sometimes, usually when I'm going out to somewhere gay in case I get groped lol, or if I'm wearing certain jeans that hang better when I'm hung too, so to speak! I don't pack when I'm at work cos I work with kids and I don't want to look like I've got a hard-on around them!
I use a packer from gear guy that was an STP, but I took the tube out cos I couldn't really get the hang of it. It's quite comfy but rather on the big size for me, as I'm only 5'3". Plus it tends to make me get too hot, and the material makes me itch, unfortunately. I either wear it with tight underwear or in a jockstrap in boxers.
I use a packer from gear guy that was an STP, but I took the tube out cos I couldn't really get the hang of it. It's quite comfy but rather on the big size for me, as I'm only 5'3". Plus it tends to make me get too hot, and the material makes me itch, unfortunately. I either wear it with tight underwear or in a jockstrap in boxers.
Title: Re: how often
Post by: Da Monkey on February 25, 2011, 01:45:48 PM
Post by: Da Monkey on February 25, 2011, 01:45:48 PM
Quote from: andrewtheman77 on February 24, 2011, 09:47:17 PM
not to hijack this thread but,
ryan D i have a question: i was looking at the reel magik packer and i agree it looks amazing, but how do you pee? cuz its attached to u down "there" and thers no STP.
They are working on making an STP version right now, but no idea when it will be available.
I pack sometimes depending on my mood. Sometimes at work but almost always when I go out to the bars.
I am also waiting on getting a Reel Magik one too like Ryan, but waiting for the STP one.
Title: Re: how often
Post by: Liam-XXI on February 25, 2011, 04:23:27 PM
Post by: Liam-XXI on February 25, 2011, 04:23:27 PM
I definitely pack all day every day. I don't sleep with it, but it's on just until I roll over to sleep. I have a small Mr. Right with harness, and it works really well, but I'm waiting for my GV soft pack to come in the mail - should be here next week! Mr. Right is a little firm, and tends to stick out unless you keep the 'balls' between your legs (it's not as uncomfortable as you'd think, really!) It has also worked in a pinch to 'help a lady out' ;) if y'know what I mean? Anyhow, I prefer to pack, because I don't always feel my binder adequately helps me pass, so the packer gives me a lot more confidence!
Title: Re: how often
Post by: ty.to.the.man on February 25, 2011, 05:14:43 PM
Post by: ty.to.the.man on February 25, 2011, 05:14:43 PM
but how do u like even sit down to pee with the reel magik? cuz if it rite in front woodnt like pee on it? sry i hav no idea wat exactly im talkin bout, but i tried to word the question rite.
Title: Re: how often
Post by: Mr.Rainey on February 26, 2011, 12:11:30 AM
Post by: Mr.Rainey on February 26, 2011, 12:11:30 AM
I pack when I am home. I am still waiting on a nice warm day to go for a run/walk with it on so I know how to keep it in place.
Title: Re: how often
Post by: Ryno on February 26, 2011, 07:38:49 AM
Post by: Ryno on February 26, 2011, 07:38:49 AM
Quote from: andrewtheman77 on February 24, 2011, 09:47:17 PM
not to hijack this thread but,
ryan D i have a question: i was looking at the reel magik packer and i agree it looks amazing, but how do you pee? cuz its attached to u down "there" and thers no STP.
There's a thing above the shaft that you adhere to yourself... this is also where they punch in the pubes if you request them. Right now they have to STP so you have to squat... Nothing is blocking your urethra so you can probably pee just fine. Just grab the balls so you don't piss of them. :)
Title: Re: how often
Post by: ty.to.the.man on February 26, 2011, 08:31:22 AM
Post by: ty.to.the.man on February 26, 2011, 08:31:22 AM
o ok now i get it thx ;D