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Title: Gay FTM w/ male partner. Interested in info re preg & marriage, and mtg friends
Post by: larick on February 28, 2011, 02:55:13 PM
Post by: larick on February 28, 2011, 02:55:13 PM
Hi,
I am 30, gay trans man in a monogamous relationship of 2 years with a Dominant non-trans man (3 hrs long distance). I began transition (T, name change, drivers license gender change and top surgery) in 2001-2002. I've been directing a trans health org since 2005.I currently attend an excellent university so I can't relocate for my man til I graduate. I would also like to have his baby after university, before grad school. Though I appear very male I identify as fem/boywife in relation to my partner. I'd like to find out any information I can from other FTM who have done the pregnancy thing post -T and top surgery. I'm also interested in talking with other FTM who have long term non-trans male partners (whether D/s or not) and the communication hurdles that come up in relationships with non-trans male partners. I am trying to figure out the different possibilities for marrying my partner- either as a heterosexual legal wife or a legal gay marriage. I've been through physical, social, sexual and psychological hurdles in my transition over the last 10 years and am now living the life of my dreams. I've also worked on municipal policy and service provision regarding trans issues (both ftm and mtf). I am very open to sharing my own personal and professional experience and knowledge with others should this be useful to anyone.
With all that said I am also interested in making friends, especially on the east coast of the U.S.
I can't figure out how to add my picture or any personal info on my profile...it says I am a visitor, although I did register. If anyone can provide clarity on this, I'd appreciate it. Thanks!
I am 30, gay trans man in a monogamous relationship of 2 years with a Dominant non-trans man (3 hrs long distance). I began transition (T, name change, drivers license gender change and top surgery) in 2001-2002. I've been directing a trans health org since 2005.I currently attend an excellent university so I can't relocate for my man til I graduate. I would also like to have his baby after university, before grad school. Though I appear very male I identify as fem/boywife in relation to my partner. I'd like to find out any information I can from other FTM who have done the pregnancy thing post -T and top surgery. I'm also interested in talking with other FTM who have long term non-trans male partners (whether D/s or not) and the communication hurdles that come up in relationships with non-trans male partners. I am trying to figure out the different possibilities for marrying my partner- either as a heterosexual legal wife or a legal gay marriage. I've been through physical, social, sexual and psychological hurdles in my transition over the last 10 years and am now living the life of my dreams. I've also worked on municipal policy and service provision regarding trans issues (both ftm and mtf). I am very open to sharing my own personal and professional experience and knowledge with others should this be useful to anyone.
With all that said I am also interested in making friends, especially on the east coast of the U.S.
I can't figure out how to add my picture or any personal info on my profile...it says I am a visitor, although I did register. If anyone can provide clarity on this, I'd appreciate it. Thanks!
Title: Re: Gay FTM w/ male partner. Interested in info re preg & marriage, and mtg friends
Post by: Sarah Louise on February 28, 2011, 03:56:25 PM
Post by: Sarah Louise on February 28, 2011, 03:56:25 PM
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Sarah L.
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I hope you enjoy it here.
Sarah L.
Title: Re: Gay FTM w/ male partner. Interested in info re preg & marriage, and mtg friends
Post by: Janet_Girl on February 28, 2011, 04:00:38 PM
Post by: Janet_Girl on February 28, 2011, 04:00:38 PM
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Hugs and Love,
Janet
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19 years here too. But thank the gods no children with this one. I am also one of the older girls, I am 56 ( 57 in 24 days ).
Hugs and Love,
Janet