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Title: Plenty of fish rejection :(
Post by: Elsa.G on March 26, 2011, 07:44:23 PM
Post by: Elsa.G on March 26, 2011, 07:44:23 PM
so i made an account on plenty of fish and everything goes very well until i mention the fact that im trans, this ever happen to anyone?
Title: Re: Plenty of fish rejection :(
Post by: wannalivethetruth on March 26, 2011, 07:47:01 PM
Post by: wannalivethetruth on March 26, 2011, 07:47:01 PM
Whats every fish?? And yes, on mocospace, whenever i"d mention i was trans, the guy wouldnt reply anymore...:(. oh well!!! :)
Title: Re: Plenty of fish rejection :(
Post by: Sarah Louise on March 26, 2011, 07:48:37 PM
Post by: Sarah Louise on March 26, 2011, 07:48:37 PM
I'm assuming that Plenty of Fish is a dating site, I can understand why being trans could be an issue. Why does it surprise you?
Title: Re: Plenty of fish rejection :(
Post by: Fate on March 26, 2011, 07:51:06 PM
Post by: Fate on March 26, 2011, 07:51:06 PM
its hardly ever a good idea to say to someone you just met who dosent know you that well
i blame the media/comedy for what they present trans people are, there seems to be assumptions or even a sterotype when trans are when being metioned
i blame the media/comedy for what they present trans people are, there seems to be assumptions or even a sterotype when trans are when being metioned
Title: Re: Plenty of fish rejection :(
Post by: Pinkfluff on March 26, 2011, 07:51:35 PM
Post by: Pinkfluff on March 26, 2011, 07:51:35 PM
Nope, it doesn't happen to me, because I never go on dating sites. The way people are, that kind of thing is, unfortunately, to be expected. Hopefully you'll get lucky and find a decent person out there.
Title: Re: Plenty of fish rejection :(
Post by: Debra on March 26, 2011, 11:35:20 PM
Post by: Debra on March 26, 2011, 11:35:20 PM
yeah it's hard. There is hope though, there are people out there who understand. Hang in there
Title: Re: Plenty of fish rejection :(
Post by: Janet_Girl on March 26, 2011, 11:55:12 PM
Post by: Janet_Girl on March 26, 2011, 11:55:12 PM
It does not surprise me in the least bit. Plenty-O-Fish is a Christian based dating site. Even notice the little fishies in their logo. Most of them are even if they do say so.
I have been on a couple of them but I dropped them. Maybe after SRS. Although I already do have someone in my life.
I have been on a couple of them but I dropped them. Maybe after SRS. Although I already do have someone in my life.
Title: Re: Plenty of fish rejection :(
Post by: Tammy Hope on March 27, 2011, 02:34:47 AM
Post by: Tammy Hope on March 27, 2011, 02:34:47 AM
the ownership might profess Christian intent but in my experience the membership has no such illusions.
there are SOME there who are "looking for a good Christian" but there are also some rather...less reputable sorts.
I have an account, though I've no intention of meeting anyone and say something similar in my profile, just basically as a test of passability.
I'm certain if i ever told anyone i was trans they would flee, but i don't because i'm not going to actually meet anyone.
there are SOME there who are "looking for a good Christian" but there are also some rather...less reputable sorts.
I have an account, though I've no intention of meeting anyone and say something similar in my profile, just basically as a test of passability.
I'm certain if i ever told anyone i was trans they would flee, but i don't because i'm not going to actually meet anyone.
Title: Re: Plenty of fish rejection :(
Post by: Elsa.G on March 27, 2011, 06:38:13 PM
Post by: Elsa.G on March 27, 2011, 06:38:13 PM
there was a guy who was ok with it at first but changed his mind sometime later, he said he wants a real woman
Title: Re: Plenty of fish rejection :(
Post by: V M on March 27, 2011, 06:47:29 PM
Post by: V M on March 27, 2011, 06:47:29 PM
Maybe you should try one of the trans dating sites like trandgenderdate.com... If you do a search for transgender dating I'm sure you'll find several others
Title: Re: Plenty of fish rejection :(
Post by: long.897 on March 28, 2011, 03:16:23 PM
Post by: long.897 on March 28, 2011, 03:16:23 PM
I'd recommend against trans dating sites. From what others have told me, 99% of those using them are pervy ->-bleeped-<-s looking to fulfill a fantasy.
I tried okcupid.com for a bit; wasn't really interested in dating at the time, and was using it more for friends, but it seems like there are plenty of transfriendly people.
I tried okcupid.com for a bit; wasn't really interested in dating at the time, and was using it more for friends, but it seems like there are plenty of transfriendly people.