Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Marta on March 31, 2011, 05:38:28 AM Return to Full Version
Title: hello
Post by: Marta on March 31, 2011, 05:38:28 AM
Post by: Marta on March 31, 2011, 05:38:28 AM
Hi im Marta and im new here, im not a transgender individual but im here because i consider myself a significant other. My uncle just came out to the family as transgender and id say most of the family is not supportive and very upset. I however love my uncle dearly and am here to support him in whatever decision he makes. Im not yet accustomed to calling him, her since its something that just happened but i know in time things will fall into place. I joined this site to learn, make friends and to just be supportive of my uncle in which ever way i can. He is special to me and i love him very much so thats a big reason im here. i hope i can learn alot here ;D
Title: Re: hello
Post by: bethw on March 31, 2011, 05:48:58 AM
Post by: bethw on March 31, 2011, 05:48:58 AM
Hi Marta. Welcome to Susan's. Your uncle is a lucky lady to have you as a niece. We all need support with what we are going through and family is probably the most important. If we can do anything or answer any questions please don't hesitate to ask. Someone will have an answer or at least know where to go to get one.
Once again welcome
Hugs
Beth
Once again welcome
Hugs
Beth
Title: Re: hello
Post by: Janet_Girl on March 31, 2011, 10:36:43 AM
Post by: Janet_Girl on March 31, 2011, 10:36:43 AM
Hi Marta, :icon_wave:
Welcome to our little family. Over 5900 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another SO. :icon_hug:
And be sure to check out these links ( MUST READS )
Your Uncle ( Aunt ) is very luck to have you. Maybe the rest of the family will see you and decided that it is only right to support her.
Hugs and Love,
Janet
Welcome to our little family. Over 5900 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another SO. :icon_hug:
And be sure to check out these links ( MUST READS )
- Site Terms of Service and rules to live by (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html)
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Your Uncle ( Aunt ) is very luck to have you. Maybe the rest of the family will see you and decided that it is only right to support her.
Hugs and Love,
Janet
Title: Re: hello
Post by: Sandy on April 01, 2011, 07:03:47 AM
Post by: Sandy on April 01, 2011, 07:03:47 AM
Marta:
You have come to the right place. And thank you so much for your support of her. You have no idea how helpful it is to have the support of your family in this process. It really can make all the difference in the world to her.
Not only do we have a large family here in the forums who are in every stage of transition. But we also have a very extensive wiki which contains a very large amount of information about transgender and transsexuality. This is a daunting process. Literally there is no part of a persons existence that isn't touched by their gender. There are legal, medical, and social implications that can be dizzying to comprehend.
Feel free to ask any questions you may have. We support each other here. And that includes you too, Marta. Your questions and concerns are important to us as well. When a person changes their gender, it is a transition not only for themselves, but everyone around them as well. It can be so confusing to everyone. Your uncle, soon to be your aunt, is going through the most trying time right now an your support will help make that time for both of you less stressful.
Thank you and welcome to Susan's!
-Sandy
You have come to the right place. And thank you so much for your support of her. You have no idea how helpful it is to have the support of your family in this process. It really can make all the difference in the world to her.
Not only do we have a large family here in the forums who are in every stage of transition. But we also have a very extensive wiki which contains a very large amount of information about transgender and transsexuality. This is a daunting process. Literally there is no part of a persons existence that isn't touched by their gender. There are legal, medical, and social implications that can be dizzying to comprehend.
Feel free to ask any questions you may have. We support each other here. And that includes you too, Marta. Your questions and concerns are important to us as well. When a person changes their gender, it is a transition not only for themselves, but everyone around them as well. It can be so confusing to everyone. Your uncle, soon to be your aunt, is going through the most trying time right now an your support will help make that time for both of you less stressful.
Thank you and welcome to Susan's!
-Sandy
Title: Re: hello
Post by: Devlyn on April 01, 2011, 07:54:23 AM
Post by: Devlyn on April 01, 2011, 07:54:23 AM
Hi Marta, welcome to Susans! I hope you told Auntie Uncle about this site too, there is a ton of information here and all the support anyone could ask for. Hugs, Tracey
Title: Re: hello
Post by: Marta on April 01, 2011, 09:14:41 PM
Post by: Marta on April 01, 2011, 09:14:41 PM
aunt Kim knows of the site, she just isnt ready to join yet, but in time im sure she will ;D thank you everyone for the welcome and for the support :)