Community Conversation => Transitioning => Coming out of the closet => Topic started by: Cody Jensen on April 15, 2011, 09:52:01 PM Return to Full Version

Title: Going to come out (hopefully soon) I just don't know how
Post by: Cody Jensen on April 15, 2011, 09:52:01 PM
I plan on coming out soon. Because I still live with my family (dad and sister) and not independent yet I have to come out to them first so I can actually get started with transitioning. I am so terrified of the very thought of it (I'm sure you guys have heard this before though from other people, and I'm sure you were all scared to an extent too). I have realized finally I cannot live like this anymore. I was thinking the best way to come out to my family is through a letter. But I just can't seem to start one. I don't know what to say. Any letter samples I can refer to? Also how to stay calm while coming out and actually go through with it and not freeze up in fear? 
Title: Re: Going to come out (hopefully soon) I just don't know how
Post by: Janet_Girl on April 15, 2011, 10:06:24 PM
You might want to look at these links.

COMING OUT for TRANSSEXUALS (https://www.susans.org/reference/gfam7.html)
TRANSSEXUALISM: Information for the Family (https://www.susans.org/reference/gfam6.html)
TELLING YOUR PARENTS - Part 1 (https://www.susans.org/reference/gfam4.html)
TRANSSEXUALS AND THEIR PARENTS - PART II (https://www.susans.org/reference/gfam5.html)