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Title: i married a ->-bleeped-<- lol
Post by: jesse on May 07, 2011, 05:59:35 AM
Post by: jesse on May 07, 2011, 05:59:35 AM
yesterday i was in the bathroom getting ready to look for work i had my shirt off and was wearing my girl jeans trying to shave my face i task i dearly hate. anyrate my adoring wife walks up behind me and puts her arms around me and says i married my fantasy. so im staring at her in the mirror going wtf?????? she laughs and says its true i got the best of both worlds in one package (bleh bleh and bleh)
lol and all this time i thought i was the one with issues.......
jessi
lol and all this time i thought i was the one with issues.......
jessi
Title: Re: i married a ->-bleeped-<- lol
Post by: Randi on May 07, 2011, 10:45:38 AM
Post by: Randi on May 07, 2011, 10:45:38 AM
When we think we have people figured out - they throw us curve balls!
Randi
Randi
Title: Re: i married a ->-bleeped-<- lol
Post by: cynthialee on May 07, 2011, 11:17:04 AM
Post by: cynthialee on May 07, 2011, 11:17:04 AM
Sevan and I have on more than one occasion discussed with eachother how trans folks are natural targets for the bisexual.
Title: Re: i married a ->-bleeped-<- lol
Post by: ~RoadToTrista~ on May 07, 2011, 11:50:42 AM
Post by: ~RoadToTrista~ on May 07, 2011, 11:50:42 AM
Quote from: cynthialee on May 07, 2011, 11:17:04 AMI used to be bisexual when I was 12. (I mean really, it wasn't this 'follow the crowd' sort of thing, my hormones were just like that)
Sevan and I have on more than one occasion discussed with eachother how trans folks are natural targets for the bisexual.
From what I remember it was more like 2 sexualities. I was attracted men with masculine features, and women with feminine features, I wasn't attracted to someone who was androgynous or transsexual unless they passed.
Title: Re: i married a ->-bleeped-<- lol
Post by: cynthialee on May 07, 2011, 11:57:40 AM
Post by: cynthialee on May 07, 2011, 11:57:40 AM
I will be honest and open....
I am bisexual and I find the dual gendered nature of Sevans body to be highly exciting. I like men and women and to have both in one lover is very cool to me.
Luckily for our relationship Sevan is an androgyn and identifys as both male and female. 8)
I am bisexual and I find the dual gendered nature of Sevans body to be highly exciting. I like men and women and to have both in one lover is very cool to me.
Luckily for our relationship Sevan is an androgyn and identifys as both male and female. 8)
Title: Re: i married a ->-bleeped-<- lol
Post by: MarinaM on May 07, 2011, 12:14:09 PM
Post by: MarinaM on May 07, 2011, 12:14:09 PM
Real experience with real people who may be labeled as ->-bleeped-<-s has changed my opinion of them. They're a lot like bisexuals, the ones I've known just can't handle labels. One of my best girlfriends may fit the term "->-bleeped-<-," she's insanely cute and has the most magnetic personality. I love her to death!
I find all sorts of human bodies to be attractive, as long as someone is in good health I can think of them as attractive. This includes cis men and women, post and pre-op men and women, and androgynes. I guess it boils down to personality.
What is that? Pan sexual?
I find all sorts of human bodies to be attractive, as long as someone is in good health I can think of them as attractive. This includes cis men and women, post and pre-op men and women, and androgynes. I guess it boils down to personality.
What is that? Pan sexual?
Title: Re: i married a ->-bleeped-<- lol
Post by: Padma on May 07, 2011, 12:15:51 PM
Post by: Padma on May 07, 2011, 12:15:51 PM
This is why I identify as polysexual :) - there are more kinds of people than just conventional male or female, and I'm attracted to people before I get to find out what gender(s) they are.
In general, at the moment I'm more attracted towards wiry androgynous women and wiry straight-looking men (whatever the hell that means). I don't think I'd be attracted to someone simply because they were trans, that's kind of irrelevant to attraction but definitely makes things interesting if I am already attracted (I dated a trans man and that was definitely true - but it was his beaming smile that hooked me in ;D).
In general, at the moment I'm more attracted towards wiry androgynous women and wiry straight-looking men (whatever the hell that means). I don't think I'd be attracted to someone simply because they were trans, that's kind of irrelevant to attraction but definitely makes things interesting if I am already attracted (I dated a trans man and that was definitely true - but it was his beaming smile that hooked me in ;D).
Title: Re: i married a ->-bleeped-<- lol
Post by: jesse on May 07, 2011, 10:21:07 PM
Post by: jesse on May 07, 2011, 10:21:07 PM
i am insanely lucky that she has stuck by me threw this. my point in telling this little snippit of my life was to offer some hope to others that have spouces that not all of them will throw you away jacquelyne and i have been married 26 years on may 11th we were high school sweet hearts.
jessi
jessi
Title: Re: i married a ->-bleeped-<- lol
Post by: Amy1177 on May 09, 2011, 06:13:32 AM
Post by: Amy1177 on May 09, 2011, 06:13:32 AM
Hey Jesse,
My wife and I are in the same place. Though i am not on hormones yet and will probably be a few years before I can start. But she is looking forward to it as much as I am.
My wife and I are in the same place. Though i am not on hormones yet and will probably be a few years before I can start. But she is looking forward to it as much as I am.
Title: Re: i married a ->-bleeped-<- lol
Post by: Dana Lane on May 09, 2011, 06:53:11 AM
Post by: Dana Lane on May 09, 2011, 06:53:11 AM
Someone called me "the best of both worlds, once". No, I am not the best of both worlds I told him now leave me alone. Glad it is working out for you, though.