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Title: Hello from Clayton
Post by: Clayton on May 23, 2011, 03:59:58 PM
Post by: Clayton on May 23, 2011, 03:59:58 PM
Hi
I'm not really sure if I belong here or not so I'm just going to lay out some facts about myself and we will see what happens. :D
I'm 49 yo female who is not transitioning atm but as soon as I figure out what my options are I just might start the process. Closest I've seen so far is androgyne but I dont know if a person can transition into that or not or if they just are. As a kid, I was a real tomboy, played with the boys, wore my brothers hand me down clothes, was real ruff and tough and loved it, then I got to be around 10 and 11 yo and everything changed. The boys saw me as a girl and didn't want me hanging around anymore and the girls saw me as a boy or just not girlie enough for them so they didn't want me hanging around them either. I saw myself as a girl but wanted to be a boy so that caused a lot of frustration going through school because I wasn't feminine or masculine enough for anyone. I'm single with no children and I'm bi-sexual birthed out of desperation I'm sure but so far no takers LOL
I'm a nice person just nothing to look at and the whole feminine thing eludes me which is a turn off for men especially. I'm legally deaf and I'm obese at 219lbs which might play a big role now but it's only been within the last 10 years that I lost most of my hearing and gained the weight. I'm a pretty up beat person that has learned to laugh at myself, I think it's really healthy to be able to do that so my main interest in joining this group is to see exactly where I fit and maybe understand myself a bit better. Everyone here seems to be very nice.
I'm not really sure if I belong here or not so I'm just going to lay out some facts about myself and we will see what happens. :D
I'm 49 yo female who is not transitioning atm but as soon as I figure out what my options are I just might start the process. Closest I've seen so far is androgyne but I dont know if a person can transition into that or not or if they just are. As a kid, I was a real tomboy, played with the boys, wore my brothers hand me down clothes, was real ruff and tough and loved it, then I got to be around 10 and 11 yo and everything changed. The boys saw me as a girl and didn't want me hanging around anymore and the girls saw me as a boy or just not girlie enough for them so they didn't want me hanging around them either. I saw myself as a girl but wanted to be a boy so that caused a lot of frustration going through school because I wasn't feminine or masculine enough for anyone. I'm single with no children and I'm bi-sexual birthed out of desperation I'm sure but so far no takers LOL
I'm a nice person just nothing to look at and the whole feminine thing eludes me which is a turn off for men especially. I'm legally deaf and I'm obese at 219lbs which might play a big role now but it's only been within the last 10 years that I lost most of my hearing and gained the weight. I'm a pretty up beat person that has learned to laugh at myself, I think it's really healthy to be able to do that so my main interest in joining this group is to see exactly where I fit and maybe understand myself a bit better. Everyone here seems to be very nice.
Title: Re: Hello from Clayton
Post by: Amazon D on May 23, 2011, 05:06:34 PM
Post by: Amazon D on May 23, 2011, 05:06:34 PM
thinking too much hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
TMI sorry i should just keep quiet.,. byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
TMI sorry i should just keep quiet.,. byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Title: Re: Hello from Clayton
Post by: Amazon D on May 23, 2011, 05:47:40 PM
Post by: Amazon D on May 23, 2011, 05:47:40 PM
Maybe i should just say HOT HOT HOT
I guess i should explain myself... I love when someone is brutally honest about themselves.. that too me is hot :angel:
I guess i should explain myself... I love when someone is brutally honest about themselves.. that too me is hot :angel:
Title: Re: Hello from Clayton
Post by: Devlyn on May 24, 2011, 01:56:56 AM
Post by: Devlyn on May 24, 2011, 01:56:56 AM
Hi, welcome to Susans! There's lots of people here, all different but ready to be friends. Have fun, hugs, Tracey
Title: Re: Hello from Clayton
Post by: Cindy on May 24, 2011, 02:58:53 AM
Post by: Cindy on May 24, 2011, 02:58:53 AM
Hi Clayton,
We are an open friendly supportive group. Read through the threads and ask away. Welcome to your new family, and a truly international one.
Cindy
We are an open friendly supportive group. Read through the threads and ask away. Welcome to your new family, and a truly international one.
Cindy
Title: Re: Hello from Clayton
Post by: Janet_Girl on May 24, 2011, 09:33:08 AM
Post by: Janet_Girl on May 24, 2011, 09:33:08 AM
Hi Clayton, :icon_wave:
Welcome to our little family. Over 6800 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another member. :icon_hug:
And be sure to check out these links ( MUST READS )
Hugs and Love,
Janet
Welcome to our little family. Over 6800 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another member. :icon_hug:
And be sure to check out these links ( MUST READS )
- Site Terms of Service and rules to live by (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html)
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Hugs and Love,
Janet
Title: Re: Hello from Clayton
Post by: Clayton on May 24, 2011, 08:09:43 PM
Post by: Clayton on May 24, 2011, 08:09:43 PM
Thank you for the welcome.
M2MtF2FtM, thanks for explaining ;D
M2MtF2FtM, thanks for explaining ;D