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Title: Kind of confused....need advice
Post by: PidgeTPN on May 23, 2011, 06:12:22 PM
Post by: PidgeTPN on May 23, 2011, 06:12:22 PM
So, a couple weeks before starting T, I got an IUD implant.
((For those that don't know, an IUD is a form of birth control. I got the one with progesterone)
Now what I'm worried about is this: I started T on a Wednesday, got my fourth shot this last week. That same day, later that night, my period started and lasted for two weeks. Yesterday, I started spotting like I was going to start again....is it normal to have more than one menstrual cycle a month when first starting out?
((For those that don't know, an IUD is a form of birth control. I got the one with progesterone)
Now what I'm worried about is this: I started T on a Wednesday, got my fourth shot this last week. That same day, later that night, my period started and lasted for two weeks. Yesterday, I started spotting like I was going to start again....is it normal to have more than one menstrual cycle a month when first starting out?
Title: Re: Kind of confused....need advice
Post by: PandaValentine on May 23, 2011, 09:29:39 PM
Post by: PandaValentine on May 23, 2011, 09:29:39 PM
Got it once in two weeks my second month, but you should probably see a doctor just to be safe.
Title: Re: Kind of confused....need advice
Post by: PidgeTPN on May 23, 2011, 09:37:00 PM
Post by: PidgeTPN on May 23, 2011, 09:37:00 PM
Quote from: JayValentine on May 23, 2011, 09:29:39 PMIf I had a way to, I would. I moved to Reno after starting T, and when I asked, they said they don't help trans people whatsoever, and that was my only way to get checked out....
Got it once in two weeks my second month, but you should probably see a doctor just to be safe.
Title: Re: Kind of confused....need advice
Post by: PandaValentine on May 23, 2011, 09:40:51 PM
Post by: PandaValentine on May 23, 2011, 09:40:51 PM
Isn't it kind of a doctors job to help you despite your gender? I don't mean to worry you but that can be the sign of a problem. Sounds like a horrible place to live.
Title: Re: Kind of confused....need advice
Post by: Ratchet on May 23, 2011, 09:47:38 PM
Post by: Ratchet on May 23, 2011, 09:47:38 PM
This area isn't very trans friendly, surprisingly. I've had a great deal of trouble finding a doctor willing to work with me. I've met a few very very nice doctors but since they've never worked with trans people before they don't feel comfortable starting. Vegas is probably a little better about it then Reno though.
I actually never had to worry about the Red death too much. It ended the first month. Though I noticed when I was off T for an extended period of time, and things start to come back, that the blood was heavily clotted. Clotting like what I had, and having more then one period, or an extremely long period, you should see a doctor. I suggest calling up the Reno GLBT center and asking around for some local trans-friendly OBs, or doctors. That's your best bet to figure it out.
I actually never had to worry about the Red death too much. It ended the first month. Though I noticed when I was off T for an extended period of time, and things start to come back, that the blood was heavily clotted. Clotting like what I had, and having more then one period, or an extremely long period, you should see a doctor. I suggest calling up the Reno GLBT center and asking around for some local trans-friendly OBs, or doctors. That's your best bet to figure it out.
Title: Re: Kind of confused....need advice
Post by: PidgeTPN on May 23, 2011, 09:49:24 PM
Post by: PidgeTPN on May 23, 2011, 09:49:24 PM
Quote from: Ratchet on May 23, 2011, 09:47:38 PMWell, I know when I was only a few hours later than usual getting my fourth shot, I had some majorly bad cramps, maybe that's why I'm spotting is what I thought.
This area isn't very trans friendly, surprisingly. I've had a great deal of trouble finding a doctor willing to work with me. I've met a few very very nice doctors but since they've never worked with trans people before they don't feel comfortable starting. Vegas is probably a little better about it then Reno though.
I actually never had to worry about the Red death too much. It ended the first month. Though I noticed when I was off T for an extended period of time, and things start to come back, that the blood was heavily clotted. Clotting like what I had, and having more then one period, or an extremely long period, you should see a doctor. I suggest calling up the Reno GLBT center and asking around for some local trans-friendly OBs, or doctors. That's your best bet to figure it out.
And I kinda wish I knew more Reno FTMs, but in a week I'm moving to bum->-bleeped-<- nowhere, near Grass Valley, so I hope I can get this worked out soon.
Title: Re: Kind of confused....need advice
Post by: Ratchet on May 23, 2011, 10:28:12 PM
Post by: Ratchet on May 23, 2011, 10:28:12 PM
Grass Valley? I just happened to google it and there are a few therapists that pop up, one is actually a MTF. You can always start by giving her a call and seeing what she knows about the immediate area and trans-friendly doctors. It's all about the phone calls.
It'll all work out!
It'll all work out!
Title: Re: Kind of confused....need advice
Post by: PidgeTPN on May 25, 2011, 06:59:08 PM
Post by: PidgeTPN on May 25, 2011, 06:59:08 PM
Right now I just need to get out of here....I leave for a con in a couple more days, but I really don't want to stay here anymore.
They gave us till Friday to find a place to live, knowing we were going out of town. They didn't even give us enough time to get all of our stuff out first!
They gave us till Friday to find a place to live, knowing we were going out of town. They didn't even give us enough time to get all of our stuff out first!
Title: Re: Kind of confused....need advice
Post by: mm on May 26, 2011, 10:56:49 AM
Post by: mm on May 26, 2011, 10:56:49 AM
I maybe confused, VakarianPride, but why did you get a progesterone IUD when you were starting T. Do you need the b.c.? Taking progesterone and starting T are probably confusing your body, especially your uterus. Many girls I know have spotting for weeks after getting an IUD. I hope you find a Dr who can help you.
Title: Re: Kind of confused....need advice
Post by: James-Alen on May 26, 2011, 11:01:23 AM
Post by: James-Alen on May 26, 2011, 11:01:23 AM
mm: Well, when you get on T you can still get pregnant (which would be a nightmare). I'm sure it is confusing for your body, but you have to find a way to balance two because with the increased sex drive that comes with T, it's unrealistic to be abstinent, especially if you have a boyfriend.
Title: Re: Kind of confused....need advice
Post by: mm on May 26, 2011, 11:21:37 AM
Post by: mm on May 26, 2011, 11:21:37 AM
I understand that until your T level get to high enough level you can get pegnant. I don't have that problem, only ever had a tampon in me and don't ever want a guy in there.
Title: Re: Kind of confused....need advice
Post by: Ryan on May 26, 2011, 11:58:01 AM
Post by: Ryan on May 26, 2011, 11:58:01 AM
Quote from: mm on May 26, 2011, 11:21:37 AMThat's not true. There's always a risk of pregnancy from unprotected sex; even after years of being on testosterone.
I understand that until your T level get to high enough level you can get pegnant. I don't have that problem, only ever had a tampon in me and don't ever want a guy in there.
Title: Re: Kind of confused....need advice
Post by: PidgeTPN on May 27, 2011, 03:06:19 AM
Post by: PidgeTPN on May 27, 2011, 03:06:19 AM
Besides, Progesterone helps block Estrogen, so it was a wiser move than getting the copper IUD.
You can get pregnant at ANY time on T if your uterus and ovaries are still there.
You can get pregnant at ANY time on T if your uterus and ovaries are still there.
Title: Re: Kind of confused....need advice
Post by: FinnBear on May 27, 2011, 10:20:49 AM
Post by: FinnBear on May 27, 2011, 10:20:49 AM
I have a progesterone based IUD so my doc started be on the full does instead of the standard half dose with the T to kind of make up for the difference but that is a good point that Progesterone is an estrogen blocker. I'd had my IUD over a year when I started T but in my first month or so of getting the IUD I was totally having TONS of pregnancy symptoms and then I had spotting, a period, then light spotting, and nothing since then. Previous to that I had been on a one a year pill birth control so I was surprised to be having a period but like I said I've had nothing since then. When I started T I had some pretty wicked cramps but no spotting or bleeding. So it could be that like me you're just having a period at the end of the first month OR it could be something else. If it seems like menstrual bleeding I wouldn't worry about it TOO much but if it doesn't seem like that then I would definitely contact your doctor/GYN. I guess in a way I'm lucky because the place that I get my T caters almost exclusively to FTMs and they have a GYN on staff so if I had any questions I could just ask her. I know it's not the same for everyone else but wouldn't the person who gave you the T know about the side effects? I mean even though you're not still in that area couldn't you call them for a consult?
Title: Re: Kind of confused....need advice
Post by: AbraCadabra on May 27, 2011, 11:52:10 AM
Post by: AbraCadabra on May 27, 2011, 11:52:10 AM
OMG, don't shoot the messenger. But good friend of mine GG also had IUD fitted, actually "Mirena" (progesterone loaded). Also has PCOS i.e. more that average T due to that.
Short story. Still has some cramps, spotting, and very irregular periods usually of shorter intervals like 20 days or less.
It seems ~"normal" but not desirable mostly because of cramping. Only has one realy good week per cycle rest feeling crap. Low libido because of cramps I guess.
Next: Quite correct, T will NOT prevent getting pregnant. This is really well known. Can be on T for years and still conceive!
Rest you know, hey :-)
Axelle
Short story. Still has some cramps, spotting, and very irregular periods usually of shorter intervals like 20 days or less.
It seems ~"normal" but not desirable mostly because of cramping. Only has one realy good week per cycle rest feeling crap. Low libido because of cramps I guess.
Next: Quite correct, T will NOT prevent getting pregnant. This is really well known. Can be on T for years and still conceive!
Rest you know, hey :-)
Axelle
Title: Re: Kind of confused....need advice
Post by: PidgeTPN on June 02, 2011, 06:32:29 PM
Post by: PidgeTPN on June 02, 2011, 06:32:29 PM
Thanks for all the advice, guys!
So, the spotting has stopped, and I may talk to my doctor about upping my dose due to the IUD when I'm down there next.
FInally in a good place to live, and doing much better, so that should help a lot too!
So, the spotting has stopped, and I may talk to my doctor about upping my dose due to the IUD when I'm down there next.
FInally in a good place to live, and doing much better, so that should help a lot too!