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I wear mine 24/7, I use a leather harness. I absolutely have to wear it at work cuz well...people goof around and ball tap eachother, its a normal occurance there. I don't know why cuz I never had this problem before, but the packer rubbed against my dick hard enough to rub it raw. I'm in so much pain that I can barely walk without it hurting so bad I feel like puking. Its been like this for a few days and I thought it would get better on its own but hasn't. I'm worried cuz the tissue and foreskin is swollen and chaffed looking. What can I do to make this heal fast, and minimize the pain in the meantime? Ijust put ambesol and antibiotic ointment on it, first time in days that I haven't been in pain.

You should probably see a doctor if it's that bad. The last thing you want is to have an infection and cause some serious problems there. In the meantime you could try something like polysporin. I'm not a doctor, so I'm not saying its safe. I'm just saying I've used it once and had no issues with, but it's best not to base things on other peoples results. Good luck with this, sounds terrible. I've had lower problems before and never went to the doctor, thankfully they healed without any consequences.

And seriously what the hell does 'ball tap' mean? That's just weird.

if it really that bad it best to see the doctor better safe then sorry.

(if that what u mean by ball tapping, by touching other people balls?) about this ball tapping thing i wouldn't let anyone near my crouch even if it a mess about O.o

The ball tapping is just immature and usually uncalled for at work. As far as the pain I'd tell you to only pack at work and give yourself time to heal. Kinda air out down there. You maybe wearing the harness to tight also.

You might want to try some saddle sore cream or another product made for cyclists to help deal with chafing. That stuff is meant for sensitive areas of the body.

Yeah man, I think it might be time to see a doc unless it starts getting better with this ointment... hope it gets better dude. Sounds awful.

I think I know what he means with the 'ball tapping' lol... you work in an all male factory or something right? I'm sure if you have all dudes in a work environment like that they're gonna do weird stuff like that

"To painfully hit someone in the balls by the flick of the wrist and laugh on their behalf or roll on the ground if it is done to you." - Thanks Urban Dictionary.

Heterosexuals can be so gay.

You could always block by the way. Reflexes like that are good to have. And when you block yours, hit them in theirs. Of course this may also lead to an orgy in the workplace...

It's called sacking here, though the only place I ever saw it was my high school  ::)

For the rubbing issue, I wish I could offer a solution, because that sounds incredibly painful. I'm definitely seconding the polysporin suggestion.

And, just a thought, but do you think maybe letting your bush grow out (assuming you shave/trim or have hair) might help cover up the sensitive bits? Without going too far into the TMI zone, I find having a nice little patch can keep things from getting overstimulated, y'know?

Yeah, working in an all male factory leads to weird stuff like that. So far the ambesol (benzocaine 20%) is keeping it from hurting. Since things have grown...the harness actually rubs against it and is probably what's causing the irritation. I'm avoiding thedoctor...don't feel like humilikating myself at the er and don't have extra $ for a copay to my doc.