This past weekend my mother-in-law took our son overnight, to give hubby and i some time and let us go to my bros graduation. So we spent the weekend going out together to stuff we dont normally get to do (babysitters are few and far between).
that wouldve been cool in and of itself, but the best part was that I PASSED ALL WEEKEND. Which is huge for me as im pre-everything. I wasnt in trans or even gay friendly areas either.
but it brings to mind as to why i dont pass otherwise. Usually when I go out with my family, toddler included, people immediately dub me "mommy", even though the little one only calls me papa. Its like once hes next to me, i cant pass. As though its impossible for us to be a gay couple. Any other trans guys with kids find anything simillar?
Im not a parent, but thats really awesome that you passed all weekend! thats always a good feeling