Yesterday I finally went out as a woman, it was at first the most terrifying event of my life. However it quickly turned into the single most amazing moment of my life.
I was addressed as maam, and since I was with my girlfriend we were refered to as ladies. For the first time in my life I felt comfortable outside. My girlfriend thought it was the cutest thing she had
ever seen, what started out as me being nervous and skittish ended up with me being 100% confident. When the clerk looked at my girlfriend and myself and said "Ladies is there anything I can help you with"
I almost squealed for joy.
Oh Ceridwynn,
That is great. I am so happy for you.
And thanks for reminding me about my first outing.
My first time out I was all alone and terrified.
And then when I realized I was accepted at the womenI was so happy.
I could hardly wait to go out again.
Hugs,
Jilllieann
Congrats on first "ma'am" :D
That is always amazing.
Mine was like that too-terribly scared- then really really happy
It's such a rush, isn't it? ;D Congratulations on your successful outing!
The second time I ever got the "ladies" bit was when I was out with my mom and stepdad, and I think my mom was floored. :laugh: They didn't come to grips with my name/pronouns until this past week when my name change became official and I showed them the court order. But I'll tell you this much: after three months being full time, I still get a rush every time someone nails those pronouns!
Yeah, I've heard it actually NEVER gets old. I know that even thought I don't expect anything different, it feels so good when it happens.
I can not wait to do it again ;D
Quote from: Ceridwynn on June 19, 2011, 09:50:24 PM
Yesterday I finally went out as a woman, it was at first the most terrifying event of my life. However it quickly turned into the single most amazing moment of my life.
I was addressed as maam, and since I was with a friend we were refered to as ladies. For the first time in my life I felt comfortable outside. My friend thought it was the cutest thing she had
ever seen, what started out as me being nervous and skittish ended up with me being 100% confident. When the clerk looked at my friend and myself and said "Ladies is there anything I can help you with"
I almost squealed for joy.
why was it the most terrifying?
Quote from: Jamie Nicole on June 19, 2011, 11:34:56 PM
why was it the most terrifying?
Due to where I live, all the "Good Ole Boys"
So cute! Congratulations and keep up the good work! (Whoa wait, I sound like a boss, right?)
Quote from: Ceridwynn on June 19, 2011, 09:50:24 PM
I was with my girlfriend we were refered to as ladies.
Quote from: Ceridwynn on June 19, 2011, 09:50:24 PM
When the clerk looked at my girlfriend and myself and said "Ladies is there anything I can help you with"
I almost squealed for joy.
I know! It feels amazing doesn't it?! You can be relieved to know that even 7 months into full time it STILL doesn't get dull.
I just hope one day i will be able to experience this as you. Thank you so much for sharing
It gets easier and more fun each time. Congrats the first time is the killer.
Cindy
Quote from: jessicas37 on June 20, 2011, 11:37:13 PM
I just hope one day i will be able to experience this as you. Thank you so much for sharing
You will, everything will happen in its own time