I have my own site for my work i am doing restoring my farm and some gay guy sends me an email saying he wants to move here as he is looking for companionship. I ask him in the emails if he is gay and he says he is a non breeder and a fisher of men like Jesus. He surely was jesting me because his last email i told him i have no problems with LGBT people then he says he was going to offer to use my place for a nudist camp for LGBT.. He knew i am a believer in yahshua / Jesus and so he uses that expression and throws in like Jesus was. That was almost an insult to tell me Jesus was gay. I did tell him i didn't want an active gay man sharing with me and my mom. I said i didn't want anyone inviting other people here for whatever. He says he has his own preferences and i have mine. Well mine is not to be caregiving my 88 yr old mom with some guy having his preference within the same old rustic house.
He basically just kept emailing when i asked him to stop. This is why i changed the way i dressed because of CIS Men chasing after me.. he also calls me a homophobe but i dare not tell him i am Transgender/post op TS or else he may be worse.. He also says he is not outwardly gay... well i asked him why doesn't he just say he is gay and be honest from the beginning.. I do have gay friends but this guy seemed almost like a pervert who kept trying to get his jollies off on me from the library he was sending me emails from..
grrrrrrrrrrrrr
Wow, sounds aggitating. Though one thing is that you can't really live without someone or another trolling you. D:
I would tell him that for one, if he wants to move in with you he has to respect your standards for living conditions. It could be "I don't want a brown haired person moving in with me" and he would have to obligated be respective, because he's asking to move in to you. Second, it's rediculously disrespectful to turn someone's housing into a nudist camp. Third, it's absolutely disrespectful to use your housing as a gathering point. Forth, he should probably be called out for being a 'fisher of men'. I think it's cruel to try to be a 'fisher' from&to any gender combination...you just don't fish people, that simple. Fifth, he could be called out that no matter how much preferences he has, it's literally not relevant compared to yours if he's REQUESTING a favor from you, even if not for the housing. Sixth, he blew his chances of moving in by harassing you. Seventh, he should be called a heterophobe or a fake-gay considering he dares to call someone a homophobe just because they don't want to be involved with his sexuality...Should elaborate that everyone should be entitled to not like what they don't like, and it's no more right for him to rub his homosexuality into you than for anyone to rub their heterosexuality in him. Eight, I don't think his 'outwardly gay' carries much of a point. If he insists it gives him a right to avoid the 'well I don't want a gay in my house' situation then confront him that he's basically openly saying he'll break your house rules behind your back...so much for respect, huh? ---Anyway, yeah, he does seem like a pretty thorough troll, either that or he thinks he can push his want of moving in on you. It's pretty BS to try to pull that whole nude camp center thing.
Thanks i needed some confirmation that i have rights.. i blocked his emails but who knows if he will try again with a new one.. anyway thanks :)
Wow, that guy seems like a total jerk. Good on ya blocking him, by the way. I also agree with Sabriel, too. ::)