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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: GinaDouglas on July 29, 2011, 11:56:04 PM

Title: Supreme Compliment
Post by: GinaDouglas on July 29, 2011, 11:56:04 PM
I told a coming-out story in church two weeks ago, that referred necessarily to my previous life in the wrong gender.  Afterwards, one of the church regulars told me, "I can't even imagine you as a man."
Title: Re: Supreme Compliment
Post by: mechakitty on July 30, 2011, 12:05:07 AM
I have to say, you must attend a wonderful church to have the ability to discuss transgender topics openly.
Title: Re: Supreme Compliment
Post by: AbraCadabra on July 30, 2011, 12:22:15 AM
Wooooooow,
I SO agree with mechakitty!

BTW, I noticed that I do think of myself as her, she rather then male. It just feels right and needs no second thoughts. Quite interesting, it only happened some month ago.

For closer family it might be a bit odd, what so it IS.

Well, done honey --- and a big hand for you!

Axelle
Title: Re: Supreme Compliment
Post by: Dana_H on July 30, 2011, 02:20:57 AM
I attend a Unitarian Universalist church and everyone there whom I've come out to so far has been very accepting and welcoming.
Title: Re: Supreme Compliment
Post by: Renate on July 30, 2011, 05:35:42 AM
Without any disrespect for the original post, I think that the supreme compliment is:

"I like you."
Title: Re: Supreme Compliment
Post by: GinaDouglas on July 30, 2011, 10:35:09 AM
Quote from: Dana_H on July 30, 2011, 02:20:57 AM
I attend a Unitarian Universalist church and everyone there whom I've come out to so far has been very accepting and welcoming.

Yes, it's a UU Church.  I have been going there several years, and about once a month, I tell the Story For All Ages, as part of the Sunday service.  The week I told my coming-out story (one of them anyway), was at a special Pridefest service.

What I think is more remarkable than them letting me tell trans stories at Pridefest, is them wanting to me to tell the Story/Ages about nothing having to do with LGBT issues, just like a normal person.

Here is a link to my blogpost about the UU Church:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,95958.0.html (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,95958.0.html)
Title: Re: Supreme Compliment
Post by: LilKittyCatZoey on July 31, 2011, 10:36:37 AM
My best compliment is sooo close  :D :D a friends said " wait what you change with boys????? a few seconds later Oh!! haha sorry forgot you are a boy :)" i didnt mind the fact she remembered it was still a lovely comment.