As i have posted before, I have been in a long distance relationship with a transwoman. There have been times we have gotten together, and it went well. We also talk on the phone alot, and that goes well. Recently, I have noticed, the only time we talk, is when I call her. And, sometimes I cut the call short because I feel like I am interrupting her day. I recently tried to find a way for us to get together, and she told me that won't work.
Am I wasting my time on a relationship that will never be? Should I start looking elsewhere? As I have also mentioned in another post, I am attracted to transwomen. Where we have the same struggle in commom, the transition becomes a non-issue. And living in the wild country.....that relationship is hard to find.
Feeling like I am in a one-sided relationship.
I'm sorry you are feeling that way. What would make it better? What do you need from a relationship?
What do I need in a relationship? Someone that will meet me half way. I love wineing, dining, making someone feel special. But, if i get no feed back....then it makes me feel like I am wasting my time. Yea, I am one of those guys that love taking out a special woman to a great restaurant....I am one of those guys that can do the ballroom dancing (something my Dad taught me.) I am one of those guys that wants to find a woman that I can sweep off her feet. And always keep her there. Just who I am. If I could find that special person...I would do my best to give them the world.
From your description I would say that a long-distance relationship won't meet most of those needs. Where can you look for someone like that locally?