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General Discussions => General discussions => ARGHHH! => Topic started by: valeriedances on August 05, 2011, 10:21:17 PM

Title: First Dates
Post by: valeriedances on August 05, 2011, 10:21:17 PM
I hate first dates.

...they suck so bad...

Title: Re: First Dates
Post by: rexgsd on August 05, 2011, 10:27:36 PM
A pretty lady like you shouldn't worry =)
Title: Re: First Dates
Post by: Cindy on August 06, 2011, 02:27:08 AM
At least you've got a date :laugh:
Saturday night all dressed up and no where to go :'(
Cindy
Title: Re: First Dates
Post by: annette on August 06, 2011, 02:44:07 AM
Hi Valerie

Why do you hate the first dates?
It's so exciting and fun, and I am very agree with Rexgsd, you shouldn't worry.

Hugs
Annette
Title: Re: First Dates
Post by: justmeinoz on August 06, 2011, 08:57:12 AM
At least you are having dates Val, I am still trying to pluck up the courage to move into that area. :embarrassed:   I am only going to wait until I relocate in a couple of weeks before I  wade into the dating pool though.

Karen.

Title: Re: First Dates
Post by: Lily on August 06, 2011, 12:41:31 PM
I've only been on one date in my life, and it was truly terrible in every way. It's not an experience I choose to repeat.

I love my partner so much. We became close friends before becoming lovers, I think that's a far better way to find someone.
Title: Re: First Dates
Post by: FairyGirl on August 06, 2011, 09:46:28 PM
*hugs*
Title: Re: First Dates
Post by: annette on August 07, 2011, 03:10:30 AM
Hi Val

Never mind what her issue was, you can't look inside her head, so she had to tell or not, but it's nothing you should worry about.
It's not your job to relax her, it takes two the tango.
Just be yourself, enjoy the meeting and don't have high expectations.
Just see how it goes and take it as it comes.
It's only a first meeting, just a nice talk and enjoy the food.
If it was nice, you can make a second date, if it wasn't, say farewell.

one day you will be lucky and you'll meet a nice person.

hugs
Annette
Title: Re: First Dates
Post by: tekla on August 07, 2011, 06:07:30 AM
I'm sad, i have no idea what her issue was and probably never will.

True about most things.  But hey, you got an evening of quality drinking, that's better than a lot of other options.
Title: Re: First Dates
Post by: espo on August 07, 2011, 03:41:59 PM
Feel free not to answer but was it your decission to opt out of a second date or was it mutual ? 
Title: Re: First Dates
Post by: justmeinoz on August 08, 2011, 06:55:36 AM
Sad but, nothing ventured, nothing gained.  Sounds like someone who wouldn't have been comfortable in a relationship anyway, so probably best left alone. 
I have dipped a toe into the water by joining an Internet dating site. Got to be in it to win it I guess!

Karen.
Title: Re: First Dates
Post by: espo on August 08, 2011, 10:41:52 AM
Thanks for answering my question. Maybe you were more woman then she could handle.  ^-^
Title: Re: First Dates
Post by: justmeinoz on August 10, 2011, 08:25:21 AM
Sounds like she was a 'Trysexual', who decided that wasn't really them at all when reality hit.

Karen.
Title: Re: First Dates
Post by: milktea on August 10, 2011, 08:44:21 AM
Quote from: annette on August 07, 2011, 03:10:30 AM
Never mind what her issue was, you can't look inside her head, so she had to tell or not, but it's nothing you should worry about.
it's rude to read others thoughts without permission. that's just basic mutant courtesy!
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