hello its me again( i know what your thinking wow for the last few weeks this girl has made endless amounts of threads :D :D)ra
Ok so i noticed today i am not attracted to any gender right now( or maybe i am i dont know) but i am always dreaming of one thing( I DONT KNOW WHY) dating then being proposed to and then marrying a guy!! now heres my problem if i suddenly become lesbian i think i might just freak out( nothing wrong with being lesbian) because i only seem to think about boys. I know this is random but any of you think i could be setting myself up for a small mental break down when all my plans and dreams have to be reconsidered????
hope this doesnt offend anyone i am just curious :D
You're still young, Hon. Don't worry about your sexuality. It will work itself out. Worry about your gender identity, that is what is important now. If you are Hetero, Bi, or Lesbian, it will be as the girl you are. Nothing more.
Quote from: Irish Janet on August 06, 2011, 04:51:00 PM
You're still young, Hon. Don't worry about your sexuality. It will work itself out. Worry about your gender identity, that is what is important now. If you are Hetero, Bi, or Lesbian, it will be as the girl you are. Nothing more.
I know but i panic a lot!! i can have a mental break down if i dont see all four of my cats with in 5 hours!!
Edit: i was bi had nothing wrong with being bi :D :D
From personal experience lack of attraction meant I had an unmeasurable amount of T in the blood. So no libido means no attraction. That's just for me though.
Hell, if you're like the people I work around you're going to have 3, 4 maybe 5 times to get it right.
Quote from: tekla on August 07, 2011, 04:34:10 AM
Hell, if you're like the people I work around you're going to have 3, 4 maybe 5 times to get it right.
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D-I-V-O-R-C-E > it's our state hobby. Here in the land of palimony and the pre-nup.
How many super huge and very complex and highly complicated things did you get 100% right from the start with never a real error? Yeah, so what makes marriage any different?
Look at it this way, it looks like you get three times as many chances to be considered hot than those of us who are set in our orientation. ::) Relax and enjoy, you have lots of time.
Karen.
Take care of your 4 cats instead!
Justmeinoz- The 3rd Heart.
Quote from: SandraJane on August 07, 2011, 07:56:47 AM
Take care of your 4 cats instead!
Justmeinoz- The 3rd Heart.
I do love my cute little kitties :D
When I was at uni I didn't think I was attracted to either boys or girls too, but now looking back it may be because I didn't want a boyfriend while still a boy myself, and I didn't want a girlfriend either, so hmmm... does that make sense :P