Hi, my name is Dirk Stewart (very harsh I know). I am feeling confused and don't really know where to go in my life. Currently I have a girlfriend, a great job and I am 21 years old. She is a wonderful person, and I am very close to her. However, ever since I was 16 yo I have been attracted to TS men. Honestly I have never gone out with a man or even stated these feelings out loud to anyone but my girlfriend. She just shrugged and said "I knew you were too good to be straight". But, it isn't like she can't satisfy me, she does. But when I am alone and just thinking, I always come back to the same fantasy; a TS. I am not really sure the difference between TS/TG and a host of other abbreviations. Hopefully along with other research I will be able to learn more here.
Dirk
By TS "men" do you mean people who were born female and transitioned to male? That's generally the meaning.
Dennis
Hello Dirk
Welcome to Susan's. Why would you think your name to be harsh? It's your name, be proud of it. I think that you've come to the right place to get your questions answered. Dennis has asked a key question that you need to clarify before going further. However, I think that you will find everyone here at Susan's to be friendly and helpful. Be sure to check out all the information here in the Wiki, found here, https://www.susans.org/wiki/ and be sure to read the rules.
So relax enjoy your stay, and be sure to join in where you can.
Chat later :)
Steph
Hi Dirk,
Maybe it is just me, but I wonder when I see you refer to dating a TS as a fantasy. I'm not trying to be insulting or rude, please forgive me if that is how I come across.
We are just like any other woman and want to be treated just like you would any other woman you would date.
I don't consider us to be anything special or weird. I'm not sure on how to word this, but do you want to date a TS person because we have something different between our legs? This is a part that many (if not most) of us are wanting to get rid of.
Sarah
p.s. I hope I don't get in trouble for posting this.
Quote from: Dennis on September 21, 2005, 04:12:23 PM
By TS "men" do you mean people who were born female and transitioned to male? That's generally the meaning.
Dennis
Sorry Dennis, I meant TS women, someone who was born a male and transitioned to a female. I mixed up my lingo.
Quote from: Sarah Louise on September 21, 2005, 05:16:03 PM
I don't consider us to be anything special or weird. I'm not sure on how to word this, but do you want to date a TS person because we have something different between our legs? This is a part that many (if not most) of us are wanting to get rid of.
Sarah
Hi Sarah, I understand you're concern and it is very valid. Again, I chose the wrong wording and maybe should have used the word "crush" and not "fantasy". I really like the way she moves, smells, speaks, her insight is amazing. Basically all of the qualities I'd like in another person. I'm not looking for just physical contact as I would be very shy until I knew her much better.
Thank you for bringing that to my attention.
-Dirk
Hi again Dirk,
Thanks for taking it as I meant it. I am glad I didn't upset you.
Sarah
Quote from: Stephanie Craxford on September 21, 2005, 04:41:16 PM
Why would you think your name to be harsh?
Steph
Well, it always sounds like a swear word as opposed to a name. Dirk... one syllable no matter how you say it, ends with a "K"... Just sounds harsh. Dirk Martin Stewart conversely Jonathan, Steven, William, don't have quite as much edge.
-Dirk
Hi Dirk,
Welcome to Susan's. Well this seems to be the week for guy's who think they have a thing for Trans women. Don't worry. You've come to the right place for frank discussion. Now I do have something to say I think will be of help to you but it is for your other post about dating. I'll pop over there after this post and talk. It would be off subject here. As other's have said check out the Wiki, that will get you up to speed on the lingo and answer a lot of other questions too.
I know what you mean about the name thing. I had a name that seems to be the brunt of every movie and story line for the dork guy. But I really like the name Dirk. I think it is a strong name and judging from your picture it fits.
So fix yourself a cup of tea, or other relaxing beverage, sit down, take your shoes off and set a spell.
Good Journey
Casssie