There still is this 'Ladies thing' on my mind. Obviously no one would define such finer detail in any dictionary or encyclopaedia --- yet having been –1 ed (twice! mind you) for the same item, i.e. for not being 'lady-like', it roused my interest what Ladies may and may not do.
Obviously asking to "put someone's lips were our hips are – is really so major out, right?! = -2, um.
We then sort of established, Ladies may get 'horny'. In fact, who on earth can help it? If it happens?
No need to speak about that then, also wearing a bullet proof lady-like brassiere would prevent any 3D up-front display. So far so good.
Now.... if we shave – eh, hello!
Not obvious it be in the finest of surroundings, or?
Yet it will be noticed (hopefully! – or not?!) in any case, sooner then later.
Would it make one un-lady-like, say –10, or worse yet, get jolted for not being a Lady?!
So, may, or may not, Ladies shave 'there', or in deed do they?!
Axelle
Well... I have not meet any ladies "in the buff"... but I wouldn't imagine that having your 'peach' be 'fuzz free' can't be that big of a deal.
I have known several ladies that kept there grass mowed or stripped clen. And a few males too. I loce that way myself. Just don't have a stubble there for any visitors.
my wife did and she was happy with the results, and another lady i knew years ago had 'no hair on her kitty' also as she would say >:-)
its up to the individual ^-^ so do it if you want :D
Yeaahh, I wear panties that look great and trimming the pantie line is a must. It would look silly wiith hair sticking out all around them. Lol.
Ive been compleatly smooth below my waist for years, my wife for about 12 years.
I tried it when I was teenager. It itched so bloody much I never did it again.
Thanks for your feedback dears, ---
Yet, I was looking for the "LADIES" part of it all, as in the dictionary part of that description.
I'd established I'm not a Lady... ouch!, other then in the shops or a restaurant in male company --- who'd pay, he he.
So, we all are fine (apart for some itch) as girls and women to 'clean up' our act.
The LADIES part, be more like: "Oh, Deaa whot happened..?! Gosh golly, how eva so dreadful I say, deaa... etc.", sort of reaction by the Squire, her Gentleman husband, or Lovaa...
I have a suspicion that to be REAALY lady-like, NO WAY may you have NO bush.
I'd think it be a MUST, for the sake of 'common decency', to hide things away, not show all this dreadful 'junk' of as it were.
Now what would you say to that?
Bush, beaver, what evaa... there's a NEED to be lady-like also in this department, no so?
I just think it be a requirement, lest we are taken as 'too loose' by some men folks of the uppa.. echelons.
Axelle
i always shaved there mainly because i hate having hair on my body
or you can get laser for a permanent solution.
on a sidenote, i always feel this is a lil pedophilic
So do I, but is it Ladylike to do so?!
Not too long ago it was major frowned upon to shave a woman's armpits, - and then legs...!! That was for something akin to being a slut.
Then think on step further to shave ones pubic area -------- an absolute reason to faint, just at the thought of it. Hm.
Axelle
PS: Right, now we get closer --- the notion this being "pedophilic"... I heard that before.
Though not sure who'd be the 'pedophile' in this case?
Also it would make the whole muslim world just that, as there it is a REQUIREMENT for married females to be 'CLEAN' down there. So how about that?
Okay, so if your asking if it's acceptable for XX women to be clean, then yes.
My wife accepts and understand a lot as well as being quite open, but she's not the most bold person around.
Read, not slut, overly sexual, no use piercings, no garash tatoos.
She much prefers to be smooth for simple cleanliness.
If there's no fur there, then nothing can hide, sit, or exist there.
That's not exactly the best wording though.
The simple answer is that it's perfectly acceptable. Why? Cleanliness reasons.
Interesting point Axélle regarding Muslims. There is nothing written in Quran regarding this as far as I remember, it's a hadith or reported saying of the the Prophet about shaving every 40 days and plucking underarm hair which is too damn painful to even contemplate. :o Many people of course do this but far from all. Personally I get a really bad rash and irritation so take the view that harming one's body would be unIslamic while simultaneously studiously ignoring the same position on the issue of smoking, drinking Coke, eating too much sugar and so on!
Mimpi,
all I know is that 'sugaring' is/was used for ALL female body hair in the Arab/Muslim world. Of course waxing is fine too, I'm sure.
It's one tough intro to a girls wedding to get 'cleaned up'. Most scream --- BTW, so do I, he he. It actually helps :-)
To have one's underarms waxed - western style - is by far superior, as far as I can tell then shaving. I done both, also laser - which was VERY painful. I needed ice packs to handle THAT pain. And shaving is cheaper but does not last very long at all.
Also, I stick to the 40 day schedule, it works just fine for me :-)
So, there be plenty Ladies in the Muslim world, but now we are really talking cultural differences. The Ladies I had in mind are western style and I still think, if you REALLY want to be ladylike you got to have a bush. Go figure.
Since we established I AM NOT, that's then also fine by me. :-)
My beautician tells me it is lots of rather young females that go for "Full Bikini" (front-bum to back-bum) also called "Brazilian".
Axelle
Axelle, you scream? Is it that bad? Just joking sweetie. I stick to shaving underarms for now.
Regarding further down (you know where) I sometimes wax myself there as well. It just feels more hygienic, and it probably is.
My ex wife also used to wax there for the same reason.
My two cents worth.
Huggs
Maegan
I shave down there. Sorry, when a guy is pleasuring me last thing I want is for him to have hairy palms. Same goes for anyone I am with. It makes everything so much easier and it feels better.
Women and men should shave down there. IMHO.
Quote from: Mahsa the shark on September 18, 2011, 04:02:15 AM
I shave down there. Sorry, when a guy is pleasuring me last thing I want is for him to have hairy palms. Same goes for anyone I am with. It makes everything so much easier and it feels better.
Women and men should shave down there. IMHO.
+1
besides when having hair down there it constantly itches.
Axelle,
My therapist (electrolysist lady) has me nice and clean.
She gave me a permanent bikini line with patch triangle and naked below.
Armpits naked. Hands naked. Feet naked. Body naked.
Arms and legs only blonde hair left.
I am so OCD. Women have more hair and they got to be jealous!
No tweezing, plucking, or shaving. Do trim hair on head and Bermuda Triangle.