watch dancing with the stars with them. if they call chaz bono a "woman", "it", or both, then coming out as trans might not be the best idea.
some people amaze me. as you can guess, ive had a GREAT night.....
If they are not a medical professional interacting with me in a professional capacity, or if they are not getting into my pants, no disclosure. Though I might have a few words for ignoramuses who diss trans people in public, or in my home watching my TV. I can have a few words without outing myself.
Jay